One of my goals here is to reveal how capitalism is so heavily blended into our lives and into society. Capitalism is not only present in the realm of economics, but affects and is deeply intertwined with our daily lives in ways that may go unnoticed. This is important because capitalism is not a neutral system, but a system that harms. It is not a system that simply prioritizes efficiency, but one that relies on the exploitation and subordination of marginalized groups of people. Thus, when it goes unnoticed in certain areas of our lives, it allows the harm it does to be invisible and normalized. In pointing out how capitalism works in sneaky ways, it makes the harm visible.
One of the many ways this takes shape is through our family systems. This may come as a surprise to some since the state is supposed to work outside of our private lives. The separation of the public and private is supposed to exist, right? Well, that’s the thing about capitalism, it is sneaky. It infiltrates large structures like policy, government and, yes, the economy, but it also infiltrates the way we interact with others and manifests in our daily lives. Currently in North America, the nuclear family model is the norm. Composed of a husband, wife and their children, the nuclear family is encouraged and expected. However, the nuclear family system is not neutral. It is an intentional family system that benefits the state and stimulates economic growth. It favours capitalist development.
Family is the first place we learn about the world. As children, we are socialized through our families, making the family a site of power and reproduction. Our first impression of race, gender, class, marriage, and culture all come from our families. It comes in the form of our caregivers, yes, but also through the toys we play with, the books we read, and the media we consume. This makes the family a political system. We learn these messages at such an early age that they easily become normalized, and the harm they enact becomes invisible. It allows us to become complicit in these systems of oppression. The gendered, racial and cisheteronormative lessons we learn through the nuclear family also have a capitalist dimension. Intertwined with one another, these lessons feed capitalism. As the norm in North America, these functions of the nuclear family have become well hidden. Let me break it down.
1. The nuclear family is a capitalist unit at its core
It acts as a perfect model. A win-win situation if you will. The nuclear family creates both producers and consumers. The nuclear family model is based on a husband, wife and their children. Created at a time when men were the sole providers for their families, it was their responsibility to bring income. This means men are forced to become productive citizens by participating in the economy and becoming sites of production themselves. They generate income, fueling economic growth and development for the state. However, the nuclear family is also a site of consumption. Families need a house, food, transportation, education, and extra-curricular activities, among other things to be successful. The family thus becomes a unit that fuels the economy by consuming a large variety of goods. The nuclear family is a system that both produces and consumes. A win-win for capitalism, the nuclear family provides the two pieces of the puzzle that are necessary to keep the capitalist system functioning.
In addition, capitalism has also found a way to ensure this system can reproduce itself in a perfect cycle. Through the expectation of children that exists in the nuclear family, parents raise the next generation of citizens to reproduce the same system. As I mentioned, the family is the first place we learn about the world. Through caregivers, books and media consumed, we model what we expect children to become. Children are raised with certain expectations that align with capitalist values. They are raised to embody all of the qualities of a ‘good citizen’. A good citizen is productive, family-oriented, and hard-working. They are raised having production and consumption modelled to them. Through constant messaging, this system not only becomes normalized but the end goal, allowing for their complicity. The nuclear family is a tight-knit capitalist unit that produces and reproduces the necessary pieces for capitalism to be successful.
2. The nuclear family promotes individualism
The nuclear family is not inevitable or natural but has simply been normalized. Before the nuclear family was the dominant family system, families often lived in intergenerational and extended family homes. This meant living with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Living in these homes was extremely beneficial. There were deeply rooted systems of support. There were people to rely on during times of emergency. There were multiple role models for children to learn from, promoting rich places of growth and education (Brooks, 2020). As the nuclear family emerged as the prominent family system, these intergenerational and extended family homes were broken. Instead of staying with family, the new norm was for young adults to move away from their childhood homes (Brooks, 2020). Instead of sustaining a culture of reliance and community, it fostered a culture of individualism. Individualism is a key tenet of capitalism. Without the reliance on others, people become responsible for their own success and well-being. It fosters a culture of self-interest. Individuals are forced to become self-sufficient, encouraging high levels of work and the accumulation of wealth (in other words, production) to ensure their own survival. Without social bonds of support and community, neighbours become competitors rather than friends.
It just so happens that this system of individuality is also harmful for the most vulnerable groups in society. Those with the most privilege and access to resources can manage individually. With access to wealth, the nuclear family system continues to provide them with opportunities to maximize their talents (Brooks, 2020). However, families that make up the low socio-economic classes do not have the same privileges. Without access to the same resources and opportunities, the working class is left to fend for themselves. The class inequalities that are perpetuated through the nuclear family are tied to other systems of power. It is often minority groups that make up the lower classes because of systemic barriers they face, such as racism, homophobia, misogyny, transphobia, etc. It is these families that are most harmed through the nuclear family system and that would benefit most from intergenerational and extended family homes (Brooks, 2020). Intergenerational and extended family homes help protect the most vulnerable by creating deep systems of support. By cultivating a family system that values individualism, the most privileged groups are able to expand their achievements, while the most vulnerable groups are left to struggle.
3. The nuclear family reproduces other systems of oppression
If you recall, one of the things I wished to do here is reveal how capitalism is enmeshed with other systems of oppression. This exists in the nuclear family through its entanglement with colonialism and patriarchy. One of the most prominent ways this shows up is through gender roles and the gendered division of labour. This is inherently patriarchal because gender roles rely on the subordination of women to men. The gendered division of labour emerged from colonial logic that equated characteristics (masculine and feminine) to biological sex (Matthaei, 1995, p. 138). In doing so, all feminine work (care work, domestic labour) was considered naturally suited for women, while masculine work (politics, market-based production) was considered men’s work. By relegating women to domestic work, their primary job becomes serving the interests of men. Domestic work such as cooking, cleaning, childbearing and rearing are all acts of service, thus reinforcing their submission and oppression. The nuclear family model follows this logic, making domestic labour the responsibility of women, thus tying it to patriarchy and coloniality.
The enforcement and naturalization of women in the domestic sphere is beneficial to capitalism. By claiming women’s work in the domestic sphere as inherently natural, it allows it to go unpaid. Women’s labour is thus exploited, providing an entire domain of work that capitalism can profit from. Additionally, all of the care and work that is considered feminine, such as housework and raising children (!!), is structurally necessary for capitalism to continue (Bohrer, 2018, p. 65). The work that is the responsibility of women, that relies on their subordination, that goes unpaid, is needed for the system to be successful. I do not think it could be any clearer. Capitalism relies on systems of oppression to function. This, of course, is still relevant today, even as women have access to the public sphere. The naturalization of gender roles is so prominent that domestic work is still largely assumed to be the responsibility of women (Brooks, 2020, p. 62).
Additionally, the colonial ways of thinking that equated sex and gender produced cisheteronormativity. By assigning gender identity at birth, males and females are raised in alignment with masculinity and femininity (Matthaei, 1995, p. 139). Through respective socializations, which, as I mentioned above, we learn from family at a very early age, our sex is supposed to align with the associated characteristics. For example, men as masculine and strong, and women as caring, weak, and nurturing. Furthermore, the nuclear family also relies on heterosexuality to be successful. Constructed of a husband and wife, the nuclear family is reliant on both male and female counterparts in order to reproduce. It relies on heterosexuality to survive (Matthaei, 1995). This comes at the cost and oppression of queer folks who reside outside of the gender binary, as well as any partnering that resides outside heterosexuality. The gendered division of labour and the equation of sex and gender work in tandem to ensure women’s continued responsibility for domestic work, while ensuring the cycle can continue.
Capitalism is a pervasive system that follows us throughout our daily lives. It influences us in ways we might not expect it to. Capitalism sneaks into our lives in different ways, making the harm it does invisible. The nuclear family is an example of this. It exists along colonial, patriarchal and cisheteronormative dimensions, and yet, it has managed to become invisible so we don’t even question it as a system that causes harm.
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