{"id":176,"date":"2012-08-24T18:08:31","date_gmt":"2012-08-25T01:08:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ericchow.me\/blog\/?p=2617"},"modified":"2012-08-24T18:08:31","modified_gmt":"2012-08-25T01:08:31","slug":"trying-to-have-it-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/2012\/08\/24\/trying-to-have-it-all\/","title":{"rendered":"Trying to Have it All"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" style=\"width: 360px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imagebam.com\/image\/bf0c0c207499817\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/thumbnails52.imagebam.com\/20750\/bf0c0c207499817.jpg\" alt=\"imagebam.com\" width=\"350\" height=\"197\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yes you can.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>One of my favourite TV shows is 30 Rock. It follows the hilariously awkward life of Liz Lemon, head writer of TGS with Tracey Jordan, a Saturday Night Live parody. She works long hours, deals with idiots otherwise called her staff and actors, while trying to achieve the impossible: having it all. Having it all means getting a boyfriend, having a baby and eating healthy, none of which have panned out except for the first one in the lastest season.<\/p>\n<p>At times, everyone puts exceedingly impossible goals for themselves. Getting a six pack. Going into space. Holding Walt Disney&#8217;s\u00a0cryogenically\u00a0frozen hand. But what Liz is trying to do isn&#8217;t impossible. There&#8217;s a push and shove. She doesn&#8217;t want to give up anything like time in her work and eating Cheezy Blasters while achieving her goals, but sometimes you can&#8217;t &#8220;have it all&#8221;. You can have certain things, but not everything.<\/p>\n<p>Liz&#8217;s crazy life has got me to thinking about balance and achievable goals. I&#8217;ve set goals for myself for this summer, within the next year, within 5 years, and <a title=\"100 before 100\" href=\"http:\/\/ericchow.me\/blog\/index.php\/100-before-100\/\">my entire life<\/a>. Something&#8217;s gotta give and I have to be realistic. I&#8217;ll probably never date Jennifer Aniston or be an animated Disney character, but that&#8217;s ok. I have other goals. Goals that are doable. Goals are dreams with hard work. Goals I am working towards bit by bit every day.<\/p>\n<p>As long as you are a little bit crazy, crazily passionate, dare to dream a little higher, you can do anything. Don&#8217;t give up on what you like. As Lemon says:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Hey, I don&#8217;t bail. I am still watching Smash, Criss. &#8211; Liz Lemon<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of my favourite TV shows is 30 Rock. It follows the hilariously awkward life of Liz Lemon, head writer of TGS with Tracey Jordan, a Saturday Night Live parody. She works long hours, deals with idiots otherwise called her staff and actors, while trying to achieve the impossible: having it all. Having it all [&#8230;] <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/2012\/08\/24\/trying-to-have-it-all\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6588,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[561045,561046,3694,1806,561049,300,1764,628984],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-176","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-30-rock","category-busy","category-dreams","category-goals","category-having-it-all","category-life","category-quotes","category-tina-fey"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6588"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=176"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}