{"id":422,"date":"2013-03-19T16:45:44","date_gmt":"2013-03-19T23:45:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/samanthasays\/?p=423"},"modified":"2013-03-19T16:45:44","modified_gmt":"2013-03-19T23:45:44","slug":"lessons-learned-from-an-opera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/blogsquadalumni\/2013\/03\/19\/lessons-learned-from-an-opera\/","title":{"rendered":"Lessons Learned From an Opera"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Or more to the point, lessons I learned from\u00a0<em>playing\u00a0<\/em>an opera.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve been following my blog, you&#8217;ll know that in the past, playing in the orchestra has majorly stressed me out, made me feel intimidated and incapable, and my fear of ensemble playing even drove me to a panic attack this January. However, with the help of mindfulness classes and gaining experience playing the opera, I&#8217;ve learned a lot. I just finished playing another orchestra concert last Friday and the whole process was much smoother, less nerve-wracking, and actually fun.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing I realized was that\u00a0<strong>everybody is here to learn<\/strong>. Not everyone is going to hit every note at the first rehearsal, and there&#8217;s a decent chance no one will even notice if you mess up. And there is a definite chance that no one is going to hate your guts if you mess up. We&#8217;re all students \u2013 making mistakes is part of learning! If you do make a mistake, it&#8217;s your job to figure out why and fix it for next time, but beating yourself up over it is totally uncalled for.<\/p>\n<p>Another thing I learned somewhere along the way is to\u00a0<strong>not take criticism personally<\/strong>. If the conductor tells you you&#8217;ve done something wrong, it&#8217;s simply because you need to fix it for the sake of making the ensemble sound the best that it can. It doesn&#8217;t mean that the conductor hates you, or that you&#8217;re a horrible person. The key word in &#8220;constructive criticism&#8221; is\u00a0<em>constructive<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Feeling intimidated still? Don&#8217;t! The next thing I learned was to\u00a0<strong>play confidently<\/strong>. Playing confidently, even though it seems scary, actually helps you play better. And being too scared to play loud enough isn&#8217;t a way around your fear of someone hearing you play something wrong; you&#8217;re actually not doing your job if you can&#8217;t be heard when you need to be. Breathe in, say you yourself, &#8220;I can do this! Anything can go right!&#8221; and let the music flow. It&#8217;ll come right out.<\/p>\n<p>And finally, <strong>don&#8217;t be afraid to ask questions<\/strong>. I sat in on a Vancouver Symphony Orchestra rehearsal this Sunday, and they just pipe up with any questions they may have right away. It&#8217;s better for everyone if you can clear up any confusion from the moment it arises. If you&#8217;re not sure if you should ask the conductor, you can always start with your section leader. (Story time! During the last orchestra concert, I was having trouble hearing from where the harps were set on stage. I emailed the conductor and talked to the stage manager and it got cleared up! Problem solving for the win!)<\/p>\n<p>Basically, it gets better with more experience, and also with a more objective attitude. Stay calm and believe in your capabilities and you&#8217;ll be fine. After all, what&#8217;s the best that could happen?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Or more to the point, lessons I learned from&nbsp;playing&nbsp;an opera. 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