NOTE: Dear Rosie, if you’re marking these blogs, I sincerely apologize for making them so long-winded. I’m attempting something different from the other blogs in that I’m looking deeper into what we’ve learned rather than apply what we’ve done in individual cases (we’ve had enough of that!) Hope you’re not irked. -Chris.
P.S. This post, and my very first one, pretty much have nothing to do with COMM101, so you can probably skip them. Unless you’d want to read them, which is also cool.
As a followup to my previous long-winded post, I really wouldn’t have come full circle without finishing one of my very first posts on this site.
So here it is.
A successful person comes in many shapes and sizes. He can be a successful person only to himself (a druggie that thinks that being a druggie is awesome and cool would be successful to him/herself, but not to me). A successful person can also be successful to others, but not to themselves (Ever talk to one of those people that you think is absolutely perfect? They’re funny, handsome/pretty, smart, talented, and all that jazz, but when you actually TALK to them you find that they’re not inspired at all, and that they think really low of themselves? Yeah, those people).
In my opinion, a successful person has to be content. Content for who s/he is, and with what s/he does. A successful person has to have the admiration of those that s/he loves (because if they be hatin’ on you, they ‘aint worth it. But if EVERYONE be hatin’ on you, somethings wrong.).
Everyone’s criteria is different. Here are some of mine:
A successful person:
–Can support and fend for himself. Because Hoboes can be happy, but usually aren’t the most successful.
–Supports his family. Because you fail at life if you don’t. Be a man (or woman). Do the right thing.
–Contributes to society. No one likes a rich jerk that doesn’t care about anyone but himself. There are other people in this world, bub.
–Is compassionate and humble. Money and power go straight to your head. You can see it everywhere. Almost all of the people that I highly respect are the most humble people I’ve ever met. Which means I don’t respect a lot of celebrities (Oooohh! Snap!)
–Is loyal. You can be as great as you want, but if you’re constantly changing sides you probably don’t really believe in any solid values. This criteria is iffy, but still important.
–Knows what s/he wants. I am guilty of failing this category. Yet, all successful people know what they want, and go for it with all their heart and soul.
You’ve just read Chris’ ten cents on life and success. Do what you want with it. Discuss. Throw it away. Delete it from your brain. Invest the ten cents in the stock market. DO whatev’s.
Chris, signing out.
