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<\/center><\/p>\n\u00a9 Copyright Peter Ward<\/a> and licensed for reuse<\/a> under this Creative Commons Licence<\/a>.<\/p>\n “When I die I want my group members to lower me into the grave so that they can let me down one last time.” ~Someecards<\/p>\n When I first heard this quotation, I thought it was the funniest thing ever. Funny, because at the time, it was true. I was in a particularly difficult situation with a group and I felt that I was unequipped to handle the challenges.<\/p>\n This was unquestionably NOT the case for my Platform Evaluation<\/a>!<\/p>\n Here is the thing… When a group works well together, is respectful of each others opinions, has members that equally do not want to let the “group down”, incorporates humour, and brings a level of professionalism to the table, EVERYTHING IS LIKE RAINBOWS AND UNICORNS. \u00a0It’s the best. \u00a0It is like going to Cloud Cuckoo Land. (Lego Movie reference for those of you who may not have seen this most excellent movie.)<\/p>\n But when one or more of these attributes\u00a0are missing from a group’s dynamic, I find that an incredible amount of thinking time is wasted on wishing that the project would be over and\/or wanting to stab myself in the eye with a pencil.<\/p>\n For this group project, I came late to the table. \u00a0I erroneously gave our organiser my g-mail address with an “@shaw.ca” extension. \u00a0Brilliant, I know. Days went by where my group mates hashed out the initial stages of our project without my input. \u00a0Thankfully, one mate realized that the e-mails had been “undelivered” and I was brought into the planning.<\/p>\n I was “THAT” person. \u00a0I very much loathe being “THAT” person. \u00a0I do everything in my power to never ever by “THAT” person. \u00a0So when it does happen, I go to “THAT” place. \u00a0“THAT” place is the place that some of us people-pleasers go when they think that other people think negatively about them. \u00a0I know. \u00a0At the age of 43, I should adopt more of a “Honey-Badger attitude” (you HAVE to Google that one, if you do not know what I am talking about. \u00a0Your welcome.). \u00a0But alas, we are who we are, so I immediately thought that my entire group thought that I was a big loser who was in an educational technology Masters program, yet could not freakin even share her own email address properly.<\/p>\n So what do people-pleasers do in this situation? \u00a0They make up for it and then some. \u00a0Why? \u00a0Because we have not only do our part but we have to make up for the perceived part that we perceived we didn’t do.<\/p>\n I truly hope I accomplished my mission.<\/p>\n But this is where my group really came through. \u00a0Not once did they make me feel like I had to “make-up” for anything. \u00a0It was all in my head. \u00a0I admit to being a bit in Cuckoo Land on this one.<\/p>\n Funny story, though. \u00a0My group mates don’t even this one (don’t tell them, OK?)<\/p>\n I had to bring my bit of the project to the Google Doc two days after everyone else due to my semester turnaround week at work. \u00a0When I visit our Google Doc (the most excellent way to collaborate, on-line, in my opinion), I read the introduction that had us portrayed as a group of Grade 8 Middle School teachers from Vancouver. \u00a0I thought to myself, “Great. I’m not part of the group.” \u00a0I let it go. \u00a0I thought, OK– I can pretend that I live in Vancouver and teach Middle School.” After all, I needed to be a team player. \u00a0But then, after awhile, it started to bug me. \u00a0My name was on this and I didn’t want to misrepresent myself! \u00a0So I said something on the chat function of the Google Doc. \u00a0After some back and forth, my group mate piped up and said, “Neither am I! \u00a0I live in Thunder Bay and teach Math 10!” \u00a0For some reason, I didn’t realize that the whole idea of this project was to write from one institution’s voice. \u00a0We had a good laugh.<\/p>\n If I could change one thing about this particular experience, it would have been to have prioritized having a couple of Google Hangouts. I missed not having actual conversations with people and flushing things like not knowing that our scenario was fictitious. \u00a0Completing this degree on-line is great for so many reasons, but I truly yearn for face-to-face experiences, as well. \u00a0 I think that as we venture into more on-line learning, that as educational technologists, we need to keep at least a smidgen of actual conversation into our practices. A screen just doesn’t cut it, 100% of the time– in my world anyway!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00a9 Copyright Peter Ward and licensed for reuse under this Creative Commons Licence. “When I die I want my group members to lower me into the grave so that they can let me down one last time.” ~Someecards When I … Continue reading