while watching sarah polley’s stories we tell it’s clear to me that the role of theatre, drama, and life documentation such as home videos play in the construction of sarah polley’s life narrative about her family and her relationship to it. coming from a family of actors and producers, the story of her parents’ meeting is directly linked to performance of courtship on stage. the romance between sarah’s biological father and mother, of course, is also a performance of secrets for the local audience around them in montreal.
it’s apt that sarah polley would inscribe the fragments of her family’s memory of her mother with staged representations – filmed as home video footage. for me, polley simultaneously suggests that the camera’s objectivity is just as illusory as individual memories and that multiple and different tellings of the same memory enable certain narratives to come out in the foreground. this is especially telling in her narrative’s ability to persuade viewers that geoff bose is in fact her father, that we are supposed to recognize geoff bose in her face based on his black and white actor’s photo. in addition, the juxtaposition of acting and family-making interrogates the idea of authenticity, especially in thinking about how roles within a family are performed in order to reinforce larger patriarchal norms.
that the camera is as subjective and creative as the memoirist’s pen, of course, is not to say that film and documentary necessarily perform the same generic functions as life writings/life texts. indeed, like Wah’s biotext, film indelibly involves collaboration – between camera-persons, producers, its primary subjects, and the director during the editing process. while stories we tell is ultimately sarah’s story of how she was born, how her family came together, and how her late mother affected those around her, I would argue that documentary film lends itself to the push and pull of different performances.
what makes stories we tell interesting then is its consciousness of its own process and practice as film, which in the context of a family intimately connected with the performance industry, is not only fitting but almost crucial for sarah to carve out her own niche in telling this narrative of performance. it is she, after all, doing the directing, the edits. what’s important to remember though are her intimate relationships with many of the film’s primary subjects, enabling the audience to notice how jarring it is for her to first, direct actors of her parents in their family setting, and second, to stare at her father(s) and relatives seemingly “objectively” through a camera lens. that camera’s gaze, of course, is not actually objective but does provide an “interrogation process” that privileges sarah’s desires and impulses as an artist/director/life narrator.
I think another documentary life narrative exploring family – but perhaps in a radically different way – is tsilhqot’in director helen haig-brown’s my legacy. rather than emphasizing theatre, home videos, or the process of filming, this documentary life narrative captures the act of interviewing as the process of healing between mother and child. while stories we tell is about how narratives of life stories compete and out-perform one another in a complex family setting, haig-brown films her family in order to highlight how filming and life writing can be transformative for family relationships. in this film re-enactments also occur, and the role she gives her mother in shaping part of the narrative in a film about love and motherhood allows for a real sense of collaboration between filmmaker and her subjects (which includes herself). we are made aware in this film that the process is the relationship between the filmmaker and her mother, where filming allows her to both understand better and share with the world that process.