value: health comes first everything else follows after that.
major thing is to do what you are entitled to do.
Achievement: to be one of the few in the field.
all the books are tools for you to use as a resource to determine and evaluate the product.
skl: develop a strength of work habit and logic of thinking for future job requirement. Ability and skills.
walk on you own path and find partners on the way instead of finding partners and then start walking 唐僧开始自己取经,然后途中收徒。
in a group setting, there is no difference in value of contribution. each person has his/her own strength, as long as they try their best to contribute.
The best is to have knowledge in your head. Absorb facts. eventhough some say that facts can be found easily on the internet, it is your own strength to have the facts in your head. especially if that knowledge is going to be used again in the future.
be able to distinguish between good and bad of an object in the belief of majority’s eyes.
Value of jobs:
even though there are no difference between each individual. There is a difference between how much knowledge a person possess. People would choose to socialize with those who are knowledgeable.
If a person wants to have high social circle, they could increase their knowledge.
Personality is another factor: if a person has knowledge but does not willing to share it, there is no point of having that knowledge.
An outgoing personality + knowledge will increase your popularity.
Do not let others to influence your decision. You are you, be yourself, there will be some that see you and some don’t.
Even Though some will attracted to your personality and some will be repelled, try to be a person that most people like. True or False?
In the society, people will do the basics at their entry level, will move up the chain as they are more experienced. Some might choose to stay in one positiob for their whole life, but most people would want to move up and be a director.
Which should I choose? move up or stay in the same position?
The major problem people face in life is financial burdens. Money is the major influence for people to do things. Most family members would do things for you from their own heart, other people would do things only if they get something in return.
However, help those in need if its in your hand to give. To what extend? Family more, then friends, then people you meet, then those on the street. ?
Help only if it doesnt have negative effect on you and on others.
School is where you gain knowledge from. You can use your previous knowledge outside class to do well in class. And that is the best to do.
Socialize if it benefit you. You would not socialize if you find it has negative effect on you.
Everyone wants to make their life easier and not to go the hard way. And that would lead to happiness.
Everyone wants to be happy.