As a white, middle-class, Californian male, it would be obscene to say that privilege has had no part in shaping my identity. Both of my parents attended university, and while I was was growing up they worked well-paying jobs. In a world of growing divorce rates, I’ve been lucky enough to see my parents not only love and support me, but also do so to each other for the past twenty-one years of their marriage. I also consider myself lucky that they’ve kept me educated. From pushing me to do well in school and attend university, to playing National Public Radio in the car every morning (even when I begged them to change it!), my mom and dad set learning as an essential, lifelong practice.
The older I grew, the more prevalent it became to me that I was privileged. In the graphic memoir Persepolis, by Marjane Satrapi, the protagonist Marji goes through a similar experience when she makes the realization, “I finally understood why I felt ashamed to sit in my father’s cadillac,” (Satrapi, 33). Marji begins to understand class inequality the same way that I understood my born socio-economic advantage. After this realization, people like Marji and I can’t help but wonder how they can understand or help people with problems that they themselves haven’t personally gone through.
The title of my post comes from a lyric from the popular song “Same Love” by the musical group Macklemore & Ryan Lewis. The song discusses the writer’s passion in progressing towards equality in the social world with an emphasis on eliminating the prejudice that LGBT individuals experience. Although the writer himself hasn’t gone through the harassment and struggles that members of the LGBT community have, he strongly emphasizes the ability and more so the responsibility of social progressives not in this community to support this social justice movement. If this “I’m not the same, but that’s not important” principle is valid across all platforms, then it is quite possible privilege is an irrelevant factor in a person’s ability to help those in need. For Marji and I both then, we should not feel bad about our advantages in life, but more so understand our responsibility to use those advantages to better the lives of those with less.
Sources:
Satrapi, Marjane. Persepolis. New York, NY: Pantheon, 2003. Pritn.