By: Anna K. (Residence Advisor-HMSM)
I’ve thought long and hard on the meaning of life.
… I haven’t found a satisfactory answer to that issue yet, but in the meantime I have made an important conclusion on a mildly related matter, which is: there is absolutely no reason to live an ugly life.
There are two major reasons for this: Firstly, the world is already ugly, so no thank you to more ugliness. Secondly, your life is worth more if it’s more beautiful. In other words, it’s in your personal interest to fill your life with beauty, because then it’s more worth living.
So, qu’est-que c’est, “living beautifully”?
Living beautifully means filling your life with beauty — and because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, this means different things for every person. Beauty is many things: art, music, literature; nature, sport; family, friendship, faith; or numerous other pastimes. What living beautifully fundamentally means is a person filling their life with an activity (or many) that positively nourishes their soul, and brings goodness to their life.
The first step to living beautifully is to surround yourself with beauty. Partake in the activities that you know are important for you as a person. This is often difficult to do, because soulful activities are usually not what society views as most important. For example, going to a concert is typically seen as less important than completing math homework, and same goes with travelling versus earning money. Yet we live and become better people when we spend our time on things that are important to us.
The second, less discussed but quite important aspect of living beautifully, is conducting life in a beautiful manner, through beautiful personal habits and character.
The truth is that in every moment, we choose how much beauty we’re living and spreading. It’s up to us to make our environment pleasant for others, and more importantly for ourselves.
Elevate yourself to a standard where the actions you take, in public and in private, point to an individual who values beauty over ugliness. Independent of others, you can project beauty through anything from keeping your room clean to using beautiful language; from admiring art to eating intentionally; from taking care of your possessions to spending time with good people; from praying or meditating to exercising your body; and the list goes on and on.
All in all, living beautifully is as much an external as an internal challenge. It’s as much about you maximizing beautiful pastimes as it is about improving your behaviour.
This year, I made a promise to myself to make beauty a priority. I have often, often failed at this, but also made some progress: I have gone to (free!) concerts at the Chan Centre, read novels outside school reading lists, visited my family more often, made new memories around Vancouver. I have also continually challenged myself to become a more beautiful person, who complains less, compliments more, speaks well, dresses well, stands tall, is fair and thoughtful, and so on. …I’m certainly still a work in progress, but nonetheless progress I make.
If you’ve ever met someone who succeeds at living beautifully, you know that it really is an amazing sight. It’s a challenge, but I think one worth taking.