Monthly Archives: November 2014

#stopthewedding: Life Narratives and Anti Child Marriage Campaign

Whilst browsing through my Facebook feed a few days ago, I came across a Youtube video titled “12-year-old Thea’s wedding to 37-year-old Geir” . This video documented Norway’s first official child wedding on the UN’s International Day of the Girl Child. I later learned that this is an anti child-marriage campaign by Plan, an international organization that focuses on women rights, specifically child marriages. This campaign all started when Thea’s (whose real name is Maja Bergström) wedding blog, which was set up as part of the campaign, went viral online. In her wedding blog, Thea writes about many things, from tasting cakes and picking flowers for her wedding, trying on wedding dresses, to her fear of having sex for the first time.

Child marriage has been (and still is) a prominent social issue in South Asia and sub-Saharan Africa for a long time, and there are numerous women’s rights campaign from all over the world that aim to raise awareness of this issue. However, I feel that some of these campaigns are often overlooked by the public. This video made me question that what is it that makes this particular campaign more effective and powerful than other anti-child marriage campaigns.

In her blog post, ‘Eboliographies’, Angel Wen, who is in my ASTU class, uses the Ebola case in the US as an example to illustrate that people often neglect and dismiss important issues happening in other places in the world, unless these issues are directly affecting them. I feel that perhaps one of the reasons why this particular campaign has gained so much attention is due to the fact that Thea’s blog is written from a westerner perspective and that this incident happened in the West. Plan Norway has shed light on this issue in a Western context to attract readership, which are mostly western readers.

In Conjunctions: Life Narratives in the Field of Human Rights, Kay Schaffer and Sidonie Smith argue that many NGOs and activists would purposely ‘package’ (14) stories from victims in order to attract western readers, in the hopes that they would “identity with, contribute to and become advocates” for their campaigns (14). In her blog, Thea writes about the preparation for her wedding in a western perceptive. It is clear that cake tasting and wedding dress fitting don’t usually happen in ‘real’ child-marriage cases in South Asia and sub-Saharan Africa. I found it interesting that Plan chose to purposely set up a fake blog instead of using real child bride stories to raise awareness of this issue. Does this mean that western perspectives and experiences are more powerful and provocative in gaining response than ‘real’ child bride stories? Perhaps putting these issues in a Western context do make it easier for western audience to connect and identify with the cause more effectively.

Needless to say, Plan Norway’s anti child marriage campaign was a huge success. Thea’s wedding blog became Norway’s most read blog during the course of one day. On her wedding day, several hundred people gathered outside the church and around 400 people were inside the church protested against child marriage. This campaign has also reached out to more 3.5 million people via Facebook and Twitter (Plan Norge).

 

More information:

“12-year-old Thea’s wedding to 37-year-old Geir” Youtube video: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrPkpa-NL1I

Thea’s (Maja Bergström) wedding blog (in Norwegian): 

http://theasbryllup.blogg.no

A (close enough) translation of the blog through Google Translate: 

https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=auto&tl=en&js=y&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&u=http%3A%2F%2Ftheasbryllup.blogg.no&edit-text=

More about Plan Norway (the international organization which started the campaign):

https://www.plan-norge.no/english

http://plan-international.org/girls/child-marriage.php?lang=en

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Work cited:

‘Plan Norge’. Plan Norge, n.d. Web. 16 Nov. 2014.

Schaffer, Kay, and Sidonie Smith. ‘Conjunctions: Life Narratives in the Field of Human Rights’. Biography 27.1 (2004): 1-23

Wen, Angel. ‘Eboliographies’. The Chameleon. UBC Blogs. WordPress. 22 Oct. 2014. Web. 16 Nov. 2014.

Image: http://cdn29.elitedaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/524.jpg

How does Facebook define you?

For the past few weeks, our ASTU class have been working really hard on our literature review assignment, which I chose to look at the construction and presentation of identities in the blogging world. I concluded that blogs provide space for personal reflection and validation, but the mediated culture in which mass media emerge from could lead to the misrepresentation in personal identities. In the blog post, I am going to talk about this idea in the context of social networking sites, and in particular, Facebook, as I didn’t get the chance to put it in my paper.

Facebook.com is one of the (if not, probably the) most popular social networking sites. In our ASTU lecture a few weeks ago, we discussed Facebook as a form of life narrative, and Dr. McNeill accurately described Facebook as a ‘complex shaper of contemporary identities’. Facebook users have total control over how they want to be represented online, by filling in the personal profile, liking pages, and uploading photos and videos. They can also adjust their privacy settings to decide who can see their content. Self-identity on Facebook is highly constructed and controlled by users. We want to present our online identity as accurate as possible to our physical selves, while leaving out flaws that others may disapprove.

Are we defined and controlled by Facebook?

However, Facebook, the software itself, has a significant influence in the construction and presentations of identities. Facebook users profile is actually structured and designed in a way to promote particular social values and corporate interests. For instance, there are only two options: ‘Male’ and ‘Female’ in the Gender section. This makes it difficult for users who may not identify themselves with either of these options. This not only limits the opportunity to present an accurate sense of self, but also implicitly promote certain social norms and values. Furthermore, the life event section on Facebook offers users to add experiences to the timeline. The  ‘weight loss’ section in one of the life events categories ‘Health and wellbeing’, shows that Facebook promotes society’s expectation of body image. I agree that this could be empowering to some users, however, it could also be harmful to the self-image of some users. Our online identities are shaped and defined by Facebook, and our real, physical identities are destructed and dismantled by Facebook.

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Work cited:

http://anthrocyber.blogspot.ca/2009/05/identity-construction-and-self.html

http://networkcultures.org/unlikeus/2012/03/01/identity-on-facebook-even-who-you-are-is-defined-and-controlled-by-facebook/

http://www.refinery29.com/2014/06/69401/facebook-weight-loss-feature

Images from:

http://i2.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article676858.ece/alternates/s2197/Topic%20-%20Facebook

http://blogs.kqed.org/education/files/2011/06/facebook_blank_face3.jpeg