ME INC.

Warning: this is a super long conference summary post. I couldn’t help it – like I said, I’m a complete conference addict!

Last Friday, I attended my 4928394th conference – the Me Inc. conference for first and second year Sauder students. The conference informs students about the various specializations  (eg Accounting, Finance, HR) and gives them a better understanding of their potential future careers, and helps students discover what they’re passionate about.

The opening keynote this year was Drew Dudley, the former National Chair of Shinearama. Drew kicked off the conference with a motivational speech about leadership. When he asked the crowd, “Who here is a leader?”, only fifteen or twenty hands were raised. Many of us think we don’t belong in that category, that we don’t deserve to be called a leader because nobody has presented us with a gold plaque saying, “Congratulations! You’re officially a Leader.” In reality, most of us are leaders in our everyday lives; you never know when something you do or say can have a life-changing impact on someone, even if you think you’re not being a leader. Who you are as a person and as a leader isn’t defined by those extraordinary moments, but rather by your ordinary behaviour, those “everydays” where we’re just living our lives as we normally do. It’s no surprise that we think about leadership this way; our education system of having a final exam and two midterms has taught us to pay a disproportional amount of attention to those three days, but doesn’t really reward the ordinary days in between.

So how can you make sure that you’re being an effective leader in your everyday life? Luckily, Drew knew his audience (a bunch of profit-mongering, selfish, stereotypically greedy Sauder students, of course) and offered one key piece of advice: don’t make it your goal to earn money, or fame, or that promotion from Assistant Director to Director. Your goal, both for your ordinary days and for your life overall, should be to add value to everything you contribute to, whether that means putting in 110% of your effort to that fundraising campaign you’ve been planning for weeks, or by helping a classmate if they’re having problems. At the end of each day, you subconsciously check up on your goals and your daily performance. If you make it your goal to get rich, get famous or get promoted, each day your brain will ask, “Did I get a raise? Did I get that promotion? Am I famous yet?” and for most of those ordinary days, the answer will be no. If you make it your goal to add value and make sure that you make the world a better place every day, your perspective on life and your happiness are probably going to skyrocket.

Me Inc also offers a huge variety of workshops for you to choose from, with professionals from multiple careers and industries, such as Corporate Law or Transportation and Logistics. The workshops were great opportunities to hear from actual business professionals and to learn their insights about why they chose their specific career, and how they got there. My personal favourite was Jen Riley, the Communications Director at EA Sports. Like many other business professionals, Jen’s path to success wasn’t straightforward, but was instead filled with plenty of ups and downs, including being a beach bum for a period of time.

 

One of my favourite images from Jen’s presentation

The whole concept of “success” being a squiggly path is completely true if you think about it – and it’s also extremely reassuring, because it means you can mess up and fail a whole bunch of times but you can still end up where you want to be. Jen explained how you never know where life is going to take you next. One year ago, she went on maternity leave, thinking her career was taking yet another standstill, and yet that Friday she stood in front of us proudly launching her new app, Yogify, which she thought of, created, planned, made, produced, promoted…all in one year. Yogify launches tomorrow (Wednesday the 20th) – I recommend anyone from yoga beginners to hardcore gurus to check it out, because I was personally wowed by the app itself as well as the process that allowed it to come to fruition.

The conference also came with a three-course lunch (which was a lovely departure from the usual rez food) where student delegates got the opportunity to talk to business delegates from various industries and backgrounds ranging from delegates from the Big 4 firms to Lululemon to local entrepreneurs. It was definitely an amazing and valuable part of the conference, because being able to have those one-on-one ten minute conversations with business professionals allowed me to gain an even deeper understanding of what my future career might be like.

By the time the conference wrapped up, most of the delegates were drained, so the choice for the closing keynote could not have been better: Will Gadd, an ice climber and general adventurer, had every delegate hooked on his every word as he recounted stories of his pursuits in ice climbing, paragliding and iceberg climbing. The free Red Bull was a pretty good pick-me-up too. Motivational speeches are usually centred around positive self-talk and always being optimistic, so much so that Will argued that most people are experts at being positive – maybe too positive. As someone who’s been in the midst of multiple life-threatening situations before, Will taught us the importance of thinking negatively and making sure to be as careful as possible, and to preemptively get rid of any problems or risks.  Before you do something, make sure you have the confidence and the competence to do it. That being said, don’t be afraid to try something, fail – and then rinse and repeat.

All in all, I personally thought Me Inc. was amazing – if you’re still in your first year, make sure you go to next year’s conference, because it was an extremely valuable and inspiration conference. I thought it was well worth the humble price of $30 (which, by the way, included lunch at the Four Seasons as well as a bunch of free swag from Lululemon and Burt’s Bees, to name a few!)

Don’t forget to be awesome,
Olivia

 

TUNES

Every Teardrop is a Waterfall – Coldplay (I like Coldplay, deal with it)
Colombia – The Local Natives
King of Anything – Sara Bareilles
Son of Man – Phil Collins

I and I Alone

Well, it’s official – I’m a workshop/seminar/conference junkie. I just got back from an amazingly inspiring seminar by Dan Moore, the President of Southwestern Advantage, who talked to us about dreams and success. The seminar was organized by my wonderful Residence Advisor, Desiree, aka the best RA in Vanier UBC.

I’ve attended so many motivational workshops, speeches and seminars that you might think I’ve heard all there is to hear on the topic of “How To Succeed” – but the exact opposite is true. Dan’s workshop today taught me countless valuable life lessons, and I literally could not wait to share a few of them with you.
Firstly, and most importantly, in my opinion, remember the following mantra: I and I alone am responsible for my success. It’s so natural for people to attribute their failures and shortcomings to circumstance; many of us often blame a poor grade on a “bad” professor, for example. It sound corny, but the moment you stop blaming your failures on circumstance, you take full control over your success. Obviously, people’s circumstances vary: a person studying at UBC was likely born into far better circumstances than a child born into poverty. The bottom line is that, ultimately, your future depends on how much effort you put in. You are capable of turning your future around if you are motivated enough and don’t limit yourself.

Speaking of limits, remember Luca Patuelli and his motto “no excuses, no limits“? Dan told us the story of an incredibly inspirational guitar player by the name of Tony Melendez. The thing that separates Tony from other talented guitarists is the fact that he was born without arms. He plays the guitar with his feet and is extremely successful, despite doctors telling his parents that he would never be able to lead a normal life. If you don’t limit yourself to what society deems as “logical”, “realistic” or “possible”, you can open so many doors that you never even knew existed.

Lastly, Dan gave us some advice about how to become more productive and successful, especially with respect to the ever-dreaded school work. The key is to think of school work as exactly that – “work”. On Mondays to Fridays, from 8 to 5, focus all your attention and time on school-related work, whether it’s assessments, studying for a test, or reviewing lecture notes. That way, all your evenings and your entire weekend are free for leisure and, most importantly, sleep! Naturally, you can adapt and change this schedule to your own needs: some people have lectures later than 5pm, for example, or maybe you’re an athlete and have practice during the weekdays. Currently, I’m still a little skeptical about this regime (mostly because I’m a devoted fan of the twenty-minute-nap-between-classes) but I’ve vowed to try it out and stick to the schedule as rigorously as I can.

Dan is presenting another workshop this Friday, this time focusing more on sales and his organization, Southwestern Advantage. The bad news is it’s restricted to Sauderites; the good news is, it’s not too late to sign up on COOL – plus, there’s a free lunch thrown in too!

DFTBA,

Olivia

 

TUNES:

Smooth Criminal – Michael Jackson
Skinny Love – Bon Iver
Postcard from Italy (Beirut Cover)
– Florence and the Machine
Raconte-Moi Une Histoire – M83

two more weeks

Soooo, it’s been nearly a month since my last blog post. Whoops. I promise one of my New Year’s resolutions for 2013 will be to post more frequently.

Speaking of New Year’s, this semester has completely flown by. Tomorrow is the last day of classes, finals (shudder) start in mere days and in just two more weeks – two more weeks – I’ll be at YVR, ready to fly home. As much as I love my new life here (well, not so much the work…and the exams) I can’t wait to get back to Hong Kong to see my family and my friends again, and eat home cooked food and watch Disney movies in sweatpants. Except that last part is pretty much what rezlife is anyway.

I’m absolutely dreading finals. I have five exams in the space of one week, two of which are on the same day; clearly, I have the best luck when it comes to exam schedules. I hope everyone else’s schedules are marginally better than mine.

Good luck to everyone on their finals, and (in case I forget to post for another month) happy holidays everyone! :)

Don’t forget to be awesome,

Olivia

 

TUNES:

Ne Me Quitte Pas – Regina Spektor
Tired – Adele
Come On! Feel The Illinoise! – Sufjan Stevens
Make You Happy – MIKA
Angels – The xx
Toxic – Britney

 

midterms: round two

As usual, it’s been a while since my last post. Since then, a lot of things have happened: a President has been re-elected for a second term, Vanier had its second open mic night/coffee house, and those dreaded midterms are coming back for a second round.

Luckily, I actually did relatively well on my first few midterms, especially considering I had three on the same day. Therefore I’m obviously perfectly qualified to give out some useful, albeit somewhat belated, study tips. Right? Right.

Before the exam:

1. DO study well beforehand; DON’T cram it all an hour before your exam starts.Chances are you’ll remember the material better because you’re actually learning it in the long term and committing it to memory (which could be useful for finals).

2. DO study in a well-lit area – poor lighting hurts your eyes and probably your concentration too :c

3. DO try to study without distractions; DON’T listen to music if you know you’re going to just end up singing/dancing along. If you’re surrounded by distractions, like music, friends or that brand new bottle of nail polish sitting on your desk, begging to be used, force yourself to go somewhere else where you can actually focus. Some people can only focus when there’s music playing in the background, but try to study in an environment similar to the one you’ll be sitting your exam in.

4. DO get a reasonable amount of sleep; DON’T pull an all nighter – sleep helps commit the things you’ve studied to long term memory, so make sure you sleep enough, or at least take a nap at some point, instead of relying on that venti gingerbread latte.

 

During the exam:

1. DO pay attention to the time; DON’T waste time on questions you can’t answer – time management is always an issue in exams. Usually your professor will explicitly state how many marks each question is worth so you can roughly gauge how long to spend on it – make sure you follow these guidelines so you don’t end up wasting half an hour on a question worth only 10% of the mark.

2. DO move on from questions you’re not sure about; DON’T panic – after you move on, you can focus on other questions – but your brain is still working on that question you passed.

 

Remember, everyone has different ways of studying, so take these suggestions with a grain of salt – but hopefully they help! Anyway, those are enough tips for now (since when did this become an advice blog amirite) – in my next post I’ll tell you all about my adventures :)

Don’t forget to be awesome,

Olivia

 

TUNES:

I Wonder – Kanye West
Basic Space – The xx
You – Tally Hall
Lorelai – Fleet Foxes

 

 

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