The table and chart below show my attentional record and analysis over a 12-hour period on a typical weekday during summer break.

Time stampTasksCategory
07:30Wake up, washroomBio
07:40Pack lunchMeals – prep/cleanup
08:00BreakfastMeals
08:15Get ready – brush teeth, wash face, simple makeup, wear clothesGet ready
08:25Help kid get ready – put on clothes, pack blankets and documentsParenting
08:35Head out to daycareParenting
08:45Dropoff at daycareParenting
08:55Arriaved at home, brew teaOthers
09:00Send a quick email to a counselorAdmin
09:10Help kid do worksheetParenting
09:15Ask ChatGPT about hair stylingPhone
09:25Answer questions to kidParenting
09:30Turn on laptop, check work emails and messagesWork – admin
09:30Choose BGM for the day, play musicWork – admin
09:35Washroom breakBio
09:35Check Chat GPT responsesPhone
09:40Review daily to do list to prioritize weekly tasksWork
09:45Draft an email to respond to colleaguesWork
09:55Respond to kid for worksheetParenting
10:00Start reviewing the edited filesWork
10:35Update the style guides accordinglyWork
10:45Draft an email to the editor for questions and feedbackWork
11:00Online team meetingWork
11:10Check emails and messages, draft emails while listeningWork
11:15Respond to GitHub issuesWork
11:30Check personal messages on the phonePhone
12:05End meeting, lunchMeals
12:30Make teaOthers
13:00Check personal emails and messagesPhone
13:10Review files and send feedback to SMEWork
13:55Washroom breakBio
14:00Meeting with SME to discuss issuesWork
14:55End meeting, draft an email for follow-up itemsWork
15:25Washroom breakBio
15:30Talk to kidParenting
15:35Check emailsWork
15:40Provide feedback for syllabus and course guidesWork
15:50Revise the assessment documentsWork
16:00Head out to daycare for pickupParenting
16:10Pick up kid at daycareParenting
16:30Arrive at home, Prep dinnerMeals – prep
17:00Playtime with kidsMeals
17:30DinnerMeals – prep/cleanup
18:00Wash dishes, cleanupMeals – prep/cleanup
18:30Family time, watch TV, board games, talk with spouseFamily time
19:00Snack time, reading, colouring, facetime with extended family abroadFamily time
19:30Get ready for bed, take a shower, remove makeups, brush teethGet ready

Key Insights

  1. While I spent most of the hours working, I realized that there were constant distractions coming from everywhere – kids, mobile devices, and household chores. Since I work from home while my child is also at home during summer break, I face frequent interruptions: my child asking questions, needing help, or suddenly bursting into my home office. These incidents significantly affect my focus and disrupt my work transitions, completely breaking my workflow and leading to frustration and negative emotions. (It may sound like I’m a bad mother, but this is simply the reality and challenge that many working mothers face when their kids are at home.) Perhaps I need to set clearer boundaries between parenting and work and build a strategy to separate work hours from parenting hours so my time is respected.
  2. YouTube Shorts are the biggest enemy stealing my attention and time every day. I’m not particularly interested in the news, nor do I subscribe to anything personally. However, the endless feeds easily lead me into nonstop scrolling with no time limit. Even though this (bad) habit is not captured in the table above (since it usually happens at night after my kids are in bed), I see it as a critical issue to address in order to protect my attention and mental energy, and to avoid wasting my precious time and focus.
  3. I also tend to constantly check my personal emails and messages on my phone. Through critical reflection, I now realize that most of these messages are either commercial promotions unworthy of my attention, or group chat messages that don’t really require an immediate response. This behavior mostly stems from my fear of missing out, rather than the actual importance or value of the messages themselves. These notifications often create a false sense of urgency, making me feel like I must react immediately.
  4. I have three regular meetings every week, each lasting about an hour by default. According to my record, I tend to multitask a lot during these meetings instead of giving my full attention. Perhaps I could try reducing meeting time to 45 minutes to make them more intentional and effective, while also preventing multitasking. This might also help reduce boredom or frustration, especially when agendas are unclear or when casual small talk drags on endlessly.
  5. I was quite surprised to see that I don’t allocate any time each day for my physical or mental health. I could spend at least 15 minutes on exercise—such as a short walk, indoor yoga, or cycling—during transition times as an investment in my health and focus.
  6. I also found it challenging, or even impossible, to record every single task or incident during family time. While family time with my spouse and two children is important, I often treat it as one big, unstructured block of time before bed. I want to think more carefully about how to use this time intentionally and meaningfully for everyone in the family. Since I have limited time for many different responsibilities, I need to find ways to integrate different roles and create synergy. For example, we could go for a walk after dinner or spend time playing together in the field—something that not only strengthens family bonds but also contributes to my physical health.