{"id":32,"date":"2023-04-03T19:26:09","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T02:26:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/span312blogdc\/?p=32"},"modified":"2023-04-03T19:26:09","modified_gmt":"2023-04-04T02:26:09","slug":"week-12-indiana-papi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/span312blogdc\/2023\/04\/03\/week-12-indiana-papi\/","title":{"rendered":"Week 12, Indiana, &#8220;Papi&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Rita Indiana\u2019s <em>Papi <\/em>was a thought-provoking read. In terms of difficulty, it was one of the \u2018lighter\u2019 reads\u2014comparably bigger fonts, very colloquial narration, and manageable length. However, this book made me reflect on my relationship with my father and family in general.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cPapi\u2019s there, around any corner. But you can\u2019t sit down and wait for him cuz that\u2019s a longer and more painful death. It\u2019s better to make other plans, to just stay in your PJs and watch cartoons from six in the morning until midnight, or even go out for a stroll, which is a game Mami made up for herself called if-Papi-wants-you-he-can-come-find-you\u201d (1). <\/em><\/p>\n<p>This was such a sad and powerful quote that got me really interested in the book right from the get-go. Being introduced to the character Papi through this context, I had so many initial questions regarding the character\u2014such as \u201cwhat does this \u2018Papi\u2019 do, to not always \u2018want\u2019 to be with his daughter?\u201d I even questioned if he was alive or not. However, after getting to know much more about Papi, his unique traits, his unrealistically never-ending list of possessions, and his twisted (?) love life, I realized that he just wasn\u2019t an ordinary\u2014nor a good\u2014father; at least in my opinion. He definitely was portrayed as what Professor Jon described as a \u201c<em>macho <\/em>man lifted straight from the stereotypes of Latin American and Caribbean pop culture masculinity\u201d (Indiana Lecture, p.1).<\/p>\n<p>In the lecture, Professor Jon stated, \u201cSo that narrator has to come to terms with the loss of someone who was never quite there (for her) in the first place\u201d (p. 1). This got me reflecting on my relationship with my dad. For quick context, I have been separated from my dad since kindergarten, as my mom and I came to Canada for my education and my dad stayed in Korea to work; my parents are still together, but our family just lived separated. Growing up without a \u2018father figure\u2019 throughout my daily life while still \u2018having a father\u2019, there were many aspects of the narrator that I was able to relate to. However, I was still able to visit my dad when \u201cI\u201d wanted to (a big difference with the narrator), and my dad supported both my mom and I to his best ability. So for me, when I have to \u201ccome to terms with the loss of someone who was never quite there [for me]\u201d but still present more or less in my life, I think I will feel a big sense of loss and sorrow (Indiana Lecture, p.1).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Q:<\/strong> I wonder how others felt while reading about the father character (Papi). Did you feel uncomfortable? What sort of emotions did you have towards Papi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rita Indiana\u2019s Papi was a thought-provoking read. In terms of difficulty, it was one of the \u2018lighter\u2019 reads\u2014comparably bigger fonts, very colloquial narration, and manageable length. However, this book made me reflect on my relationship with my father and family in general. \u201cPapi\u2019s there, around any corner. 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