January 14, 2009

nothing much happened during these two days….lots of group work in class
we had two very interesting lectures, one on the studies of masculinities and one on power and empowerment.
The guest lecturer on masculinities was really fun (he started out reading from a script, but the discussion part was great). His field studies/research in Ecuador really put things into perspective. I didn’t realize how important it is that masculinities is included in gender research. The shift from Women in Development (WiD) to Gender and Development (GAD) makes so much sense now.

I did my laundry for the first time :P sooo proud of myself :P
there is a way to cheat the washing machines so you don’t have to pay…but I think A is right…if everyone does that..the whole system would fall. It wouldn’t be good for anyone.

wow…what a start to a day…

I couldn’t sleep last night…and I totally thought my class was in the afternoon today. So I overslept and was late for an hour. Today was a really great guest lecturer too…I felt soooo bad. I don’t think I’ve ever actually overslept and not gone to class before….

Then after class, my dearest fellow Canadian, L, tells me that she got an email saying her grandpa just passed away. Oh god…I had no words to comfort her…my best wishes to you and your family my friend. I’m agnostic..so whoever is out there…please let this family peacefully overcome these times.

To myself

Dear me,

Happy Birthday! Wow, 21 sure sounds like I’m getting older…which means I can’t play the innocent card so much anymore :P (I’m just kidding…)

I’ve been thinking about what a friend said to me many years ago recently. I was in grade 7 (in Hong Kong, grade 7 feels much more grown up because we had just entered high school). It was after school and I was taking the bus home with a friend. I don’t remember what we were talking about, except one sentence my friend said: “I like being friends with Heidi more. You (i.e. me) think too much.”

Last time I met this friend (2 years ago), I had a feeling that this sentence probably still held true.

I must say, on this day that I’m 21, I’m glad most of my friends like me because I think.

Keep on thinking until the day you die Tiff

With love,

to myself

I debated for a while if I should share this (though most of you probably can’t read it). I always tear up when I read it.

Dear Tiffany,

今天花了差不多二小時看完你的網頁
(有很多生字還未查字典,所以要靠估)
才知道你去挪威的旅途上遇到那麼多阻礙
多謝老天爺的保佑你終於可以平安到達
又知道你這幾天認識了不少新朋友
本來埋怨為什麼不遲幾天才起程
但回心一想這也是值得的
因為開課後大家都會很忙
或者沒有那麼多時間來溝通
朋友間的話題可以很廣闊
但涉及宗教政治、極端主意思想的話題時
便要很小心去處理和回答
因為大家還不大認識對方

希望你像一條經得起風浪的小船
今天離開避風塘到外面的海洋遊歷
更希望你能滿載著寶貴的知識、豐富的經歷
和愉快的回憶回來
雖然我再不能幫你煮食、洗衣、做家務
來節省你讀書和休息的時間
但你要小心照顧自己的健康,注意飲食和休息
爸爸和我永遠都會支持你
永遠都是你最忠實的 Fans
如果小船需要補給糧餉、外面遇到翻大風浪
或者維修再整裝待發
歡迎小船任何時候回航
爸爸和我在避風塘等你和祝福你

Love you and miss you so much
Mom

Mom, Dad…because of you, I can do anything.

January 18, 2009

We watched a movie and talked until late in the night on Saturday…
it was hard to get up for the walk on Sunday :P but I did. The other two lazy bums couldn’t get up…:P
but M (from my class) and I had a really nice walk to the large lake near the school. The lake was all frozen so we spent lots of time playing on the ice….writing names, building a snow octopus, falling down, making turns. Lots of norwegians and children were on the ice skating (and wind skating).

It was very nice … many good conversations about Zimbabwe and M’s life. Long walks are really the best way to get to know someone :)

Photos on facebook

the rest of the day was spent making lunch/dinner and researching for my term paper.

F came back…and surprisingly, he was very talkative and nice this time :) He had just come back from Tumse (??) …a place up north in norway where there is pretty much no sunshine right now…but it’s very famous for space and satellite research. F’s brother goes to the University in Tumse

January 17, 2009

Went to Oslo today with D, M, and L. (D and M are from France…J introduced us :)
Unfortunately, J over slept and we didn’t manage to meet up in Oslo….he apparently went on his own and didn’t find Oslo very interesting….

I thought Oslo looked beautiful. Definitely didn’t have enough time to explore..plus the weather wasn’t super nice. Pictures will be up on facebook.

(Words are patient…Austrian saying….= procrastination :P)

We had lunch at a kebab place in Grønland, Oslo. This is the place where immigrants gather….cheap ethnic food. (and tasty!) unfortunately, I didn’t manage to find a chinese store to buy ingredients for tang yuan (chinese new year food)…:( I’ll just have to make coconut cake.

D knows chinese!! (he has a chinese girl friend..and apparently he loved beijing when he visited last year :)

January 15, 2009

I went to the student pub/dance place samfunnet (silent t) for the second time…this time it was a big event….”erotic night”. no…most people don’t dress up, neither did I…but some people went waaay over board…it was very interesting seeing people (mostly norwegians) get reaaally reaaally drunk and then go to the dance floor. One beer was enough to get my head buzzing a little…so I was in my own little bubble on the dance floor. Everyone keeps complaining about how expensive alcohol is (people actually go to Sweden or Denmark to buy alcohol…)…but it doesn’t affect me :P
met a few new friends…met a student from Hunan, China. He invited me to a chinese new year party!

My friend V from class stayed over at my place for the night (she lives in Oslo). It was fun to talk like that before sleeping. She grew up in Norway, Hong Kong, and Singapore….amazing.

Today is rest day…worked on my term paper and group project. Nice and relaxing. Went to get my resident permit stamped!

January 12, 2009

A’s birthday today!! Lauren bought some cake mix and she and I made a chocolate cake for A. We went over to his place…and he cooked up a storm. His roommate (Ju) was baking a chocolate brownie cake from a cake mix too :P
His room mates (A, H, and Ju) all gathered with us and celebrated his 27th birthday. It was really fun :) lots of jokes and laughter. His room mates are all norwegians too…soooo friendly.
H keeps making jokes (probably?) about needing to be more masculine….:S I originally thought he would be very nice (my intuition)..but I’m not comfortable when people always try to conform to gender norms (maybe I’m talking like this because of my class…^^||)
but I noticed it when we talked about snoosh (I think that’s how it’s spelt)..it’s a tobacco bag thing you put between your upper lip and teeth…very common and popular. A said it was a very feminine thing..unlike tobacco chewing or smoking (tons of people smoke here in norway…). Supposedly..there are “feminine” flavours (I forgot their examples)
either way…it was a really nice evening

January 10, 2009

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6 hour hike/walk (to and back)!!!! to a beautiful seaside town called Drøbak

I went with J and Y, unfortunately L couldn’t come due to pain in her hip….

walking there, I kept taking so many photos because everywhere you look, everything is so beautiful. Especially today, everywhere was mist, so it seemed all the more magical. We didn’t see the sun peek out until around 11 or 12! Drøbak is a popular Norwegians summer town…so in winter, it’s not so hot. But it was lovely to see the “sea”…in reality…there’s like an island right across the channel…but at least it smelled of sea..and it sounded little bit like the sea. We were joking that if we built a sand castle with the sand, it would be 10 cm high and we would have used up all the sand on the tiny beach :P

We walked around the sea wall for an hour..it was fun to just meander. Then we walked all around town (which took 15 min from one end to the other :P) and settled on a small, quaint cafe/restaurant for food. I couldn’t resist the chocolate cake (neither could Y!)…only J had a proper meal :P. God norwegian food is expensive!!! one cup of tea with a not very sweet but tasty chocolate cake cost me 82kr…which is like 13 or 14 cdn….er…I think I just won’t do any more conversions…we sat for a while…and it seemed like the sun was going down!! we still have 3 hours of walking to get home…@_@ (it was only 3:30 pm ….) so reluctantly we got up…we all hoped that the buses would run today so we could just catch the bus home (especially since we had to go over a big hill before we got to the flat part) alas…no buses on sat and sun…..

we started walking..everyone was so tired and full of food that nobody talked for a while…Y suggested we sing..so we started singing kids songs :P…it all sounds so different in german, czech, and english/chinese

it was all dark by the time we were close to our residences..the full moon was beautiful. And Y and J made fun about my fear of ghosts all the way back……………………..

we got home…I took a shower and passed out with loud heavy rock music on (Janne Da Arc :P)

J came over…we were all going to go to the sauna since we were dead tired…but we were so tired that we didn’t want to go to the sauna :P we ended up chatting late into the night….Y seemed like he didn’t want J to go back ….he kept forcing us to watch parts of bad late night movies on tv :P we gave up after 15 min…

January 9, 2009

We had our presentations today…seriously, the students in this class are either not putting much effort in, or they really don’t have much presentation skills. It’s really hard to believe this is a master’s level course…I mean the things we are learning are great…but the effort people put in is really minimal.

Sometimes I feel like the classes drag on for way too long. L and I both agreed that some of the topics could have been taught in half of the time taken. Maybe it’s just January block classes. I really hope so…

That being said, I’m having a lot of fun trying to understand the cultural differences and meeting new and exciting people from around the world.

some of the differences I noticed:

– there is a lot of respect for people coming from poorer countries. in fact, i don’t feel any difference at all in the way people participate in discussions etc. In Canada, although we try to be accepting and all, there is still this strange tension when discussion issues about development. We can’t really freely discuss because it’s so sensitive and we try to not offend anybody. But atmosphere here is so relaxed that it seems like we can discuss anything and nobody will be offended. I have no trouble using development without quotation marks here.

Norwegians may appear cold and shy at first…but once you get to know them…they’re super nice. At least the ones I’ve met so far. It’s also such a great chance to meet people from other countries…so far, as far as I know, there are students from Ethiopea, Zimbabwe, Nepal, New Zealand, China, Canada, Norway, …..etc etc in my class of less than 20 people…it’s amazing how much people know and have experienced. And I’ve only just talk to them for a short time!

The instructor really isn’t that inspiring…I wish he was better at facilitating discussions….thank god for guest lecturers..

it’s insane to think that I only have 17 days till my final paper is due….I’ve only just started!!

The readings are insanely long and a lot…but the assignments are quite simple. Group work…so lucky that I have a good group this time…some group members never showed up for the presentation in other teams!

It seems like I would be able to get a bank account if I get a tax number…if only I can get my resident permit stamped @_@

I had a really long chat with my Czech room mate Y tonight. Strange guy…we seem to have totally different opinions on lots of stuff (state/private, Israel/Gaza etc etc)

speaking of Gaza, Oslo had a huge (15,000) protest yesterday…a march for peace. One of the Norwegian friends of A was so angry about this one politician in Norway who is for Israel. Apparently all the politicians and parties in Norway are for Palestine.

going to go check out the student bar/dance place tonight…and then a long hiking trip for tomorrow!

my cooking really sucks :P but I’m enjoying experimenting in the kitchen. I’ve barely used any oil or salt in my days here :P I try to eat vitamins when I remember…for those who always pester me to eat them!

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