{"id":4572,"date":"2017-11-25T12:41:03","date_gmt":"2017-11-25T19:41:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/?p=4572"},"modified":"2017-11-25T12:41:03","modified_gmt":"2017-11-25T19:41:03","slug":"two-types-of-pride","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/2017\/11\/25\/two-types-of-pride\/","title":{"rendered":"Two types of Pride"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How did the emotion of pride evolve?<br \/>\nThere are two paths that led to us standing tall.<br \/>\nOne based on dominance, acquired through fear,<br \/>\nCalled Hubristic Pride- it makes negativity draw near:<br \/>\nHe holds his position by with-holding acquisition<br \/>\ncontrolling rights of others through resource suppression.<br \/>\nThe antisocial ape with his intimidation;<br \/>\nDon\u2019t get stuck in a relationship with someone who is skilled in the art of inflation.<\/p>\n<p>The second path- Authentic Pride reflects positivity and the desired traits in a social hierarchy.<br \/>\nThese people are respected for their skills and success and always willing to lend a hand for others to do their best.<br \/>\nThe friendly, prosocial emotion backing up altruism is much more attractive than the other narcissism.<\/p>\n<p>I once knew a man who was full of self-love, he blinded and cheated his way to above.<br \/>\nConvincing himself he is more than pure gold, he let his personality become rot with mould.<br \/>\nConvinced that he is the ultimate king<br \/>\nwho is going to buy his queen a diamond ring<br \/>\nNow, because he moulded our relationship so near, to one where I couldn\u2019t escape based on fear<br \/>\nAfraid of his manipulations grasping my soul he projected his insecurities on myself<br \/>\ntaking the toll that a million toxic mushrooms couldn\u2019t make.<br \/>\nI shed so many tears for his sake.<\/p>\n<p>Until one day I had enough,<br \/>\na second look at the situation would rebuff and gain back the confidence that he took away,<br \/>\nFrom the broken person I was to the brick wall today.<\/p>\n<p>Hubristic and Authentic Pride<br \/>\nWhen two worlds collide evolution won\u2019t let it slide<br \/>\nBoth are the means of opposite personalities<br \/>\nAnd one adopts the image of a distorted reality.<br \/>\nI\u2019d rather be the one who helps, encouraging mend, than feeling fake strength for chaining a friend, for holding them down, for making them cry, for seeing pain in something weaker than I.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Pride is a self-conscious feeling and it\u2019s easy to tell when someone is concealin<br \/>\nBody language speaks for your reticence even though we try to cover it all up in our defence.<br \/>\nWhy do humans hide what they feel inside? Its futile for we\u2019re all headed on the same ride.<br \/>\nThe paucity of willingness to reveal our thought is an anomaly and psychology<br \/>\nhelps to concentrate on contemplation of oddly-mannered youth with a flick-fired tongue:<br \/>\nMachiavellian and deviant from an age young<br \/>\nWith alacrity growing up to harm others with conceit<br \/>\nAnd then it\u2019s too late to help them make their ends meet.<br \/>\nAbout the social nature we must be benevolent<br \/>\nOr at least innocuous because natural selection isn\u2019t heaven-sent.<\/p>\n<p>So distinguish yourself from the controlling ape<br \/>\nWho will try to dominate through violence and loud<br \/>\nNo need to fear the duplicity of being proud<br \/>\nOne lingering in the shadow \u2013 the other standing out in the crowd.<\/p>\n<p><em>Written by Sandy<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How did the emotion of pride evolve? There are two paths that led to us standing tall. One based on dominance, acquired through fear, Called Hubristic Pride- it makes negativity draw near: He holds his position by with-holding acquisition controlling rights of others through resource suppression. The antisocial ape with his intimidation; Don\u2019t get stuck [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":37966,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[616526],"class_list":["post-4572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-sandy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4572","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/37966"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4572"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4572\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4573,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4572\/revisions\/4573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4572"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4572"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubc.ca\/ubcmhac\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4572"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}