If you appear unsure, you’ll be seen as unsure. Walk into a room with confidence.

I’ve been to so many networking events, and met many interesting people.

What separates the best, from the rest, is how you convey yourself. Your body language determines how well you are perceived. If you cross your arms, you appear to me as being close minded. Watch how Steve Jobs, just youtube it.

Then watch this video:

It takes a lot of practice to be good at something, and networking and interviews are no different. Next time you ask yourself why you didn’t get that job, or couldn’t connect well with that key person. Ask yourself how you could do it better next time, write it down, and make a conscious effort to improve yourself. Greatness comes from consistent actions to improving yourself first.

And like Jeffery Gitomer says: “If you don’t understand yourself first, how can you hope to understand anybody else?”