Valentines Day. Christmas. Birthdays. These are all excuses to be materialistic fabricated by very talented marketing. It’s interesting how it is a social norm to buy something for someone on any one of these days
– Roses or stuffed teddy bears for your significant other on Valentine’s Day
– A gift for every close family and friend for Christmas and maybe even a Christmas Stocking to go along with your gift
– A cake for someone’s birthday along with some kind of personalized meaningful gift
Companies make big bucks from these fabrications.
If you want to buy roses on Valentine’s Day you should be prepared to pay double or even triple of the regular price of a rose, but why do you have to get flowers on Valentines? Why is there such a high demand for this one day?
Christmas is that time of year where you are too broke after buying everyone gifts. Take a step back. Realize that Christmas is a Christian holiday that is to celebrate a savior being born into the world. In fact, if you wanted to practice a gift giving holiday we should call it Hanukah, not Christmas. During Hanukah, you have to give a gift to close people in your life for seven days straight.
Birthdays are supposed to be a celebration of how strong your mother was bringing you into this world.
It’s just interesting to take a step back and realize that if everyone consumed like us (in the North American context) that we wouldn’t be able to sustain all of our consumerism. I guess all I’m trying to say is that if you are really close with friends, family or a significant other, you should not need any holiday or excuse to act differently as a consumer. They are special every single day. Super corny, but how much less waste would the world have if you didn’t get all of your Christmas presents last Christmas? Seriously – do you even remember everything you got for Christmas? Do you still use everything you got from your birthday? These Fabricated Materialism days are great for encouraging unnecessary consumption that will most likely end up in a landfill.
For this reason, I don’t give gifts unless I see something practical that someone I know needs.