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On being Foreign

It was our second day at the community library today. So far we’ve had meetings with the head librarian and two board members, and determined which projects we will be heading for this summer. I will be in charge of coordinating four inter- district events designed to promote reading, writing, speech- making, and debate skills. We’ve realized that there is a lot of flexibility in this placement– we are in charge of drafting our plans and also to implement them. We are learning much more in this flexible environment, applying our planning skills and exploring new areas of management and leadership.

At home there are five children who stay on the homestead, who come greet us with hugs every day we are back from work. The family is also extremely generous, always making sure we are well fed, that we’ve got the very best, and that we feel at home. Each morning we go for a jog at 6AM, at which time most families have already been up and finished in their gardens. They all greet us as we go by, and we get to practice our newly acquired Lunyole words as we pass by them. Here, everyone says ‘kojeyo’ (hello! how are you), to which one would reply, ‘huliyo! kojeyo?’. Literally everyone does this whenever they meet someone even within earshot. It’s a really friendly culture, I am in love with the people’s kind hearts here..

Besides the kind atmosphere here, it is also very apparent how much love students have for learning here. There is something about the family structures here that has raised extremely obedient and hardworking, rearing children who rarely complain and are always eager to learn or teach.

Even with all these positive impressions I have of this village, this afternoon I felt a twinge of unease that I realize was always there… I have been more stressed out than I’ve acknowledged. The stress is definitely from the stares we get everyday, some friendly, some naive, others more distrustful of us than others. I’ve filled up so many pages of my journal. I haven’t gotten to type up any of my thoughts and records these couple days because power has been down in our compound.

I am living in a small house with three rooms, a living room, a kitchen, and a bathroom. It is in the village of Mugulu beside the village of Busolwe, both in the district of Butaleja beside the district of Mbale. I am starting to form mental maps of where I am in Uganda.

The dirt roads are extremely bumpy. We bike to work, so I get to tone my legs every day for 40 minutes to and from our compound.

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May 15, 2011 (Mugulu village)

Mornings here are so lively. At 5AM roosters started crowing, and you hear crickets and birds chirping away. It’s not as much of a nuisance to be woken up so early, and it was easy to drift back to sleep because the commotion from the farm animals was sort of cozy. Woke up at 7:30 AM, washed up, and now am just sitting here in the living area typing away. We have a lot of space here, it is definitely starting to feel like home. All my anxiety and fear have subsided a little.

Today we plan to walk around, enjoy the sunshine, get to know the kids in the household, and just relax. It’s such a beautiful day, and it’s usually like this. There are no clouds in the sky, and there is so much sunshine pouring into our living area. We’ve all pretty much combined our snack foods and comfort foods in the living area: hedgehog chocolate, granola bars, chocolate bars, nutri- grains, and tea.

I haven’t felt this calm in a while. The other day I noticed suddenly that I felt really good about myself. By that I mean… I didn’t think twice about what I was eating, or what I was wearing, or how I looked in general. I think it’s because there are no advertisements promoting thin- ness, setting unrealistic model expectations, etc. Women here are so much more confident in themselves, and there is very little comparison and judgement.

It is such a joy to have visitors in Uganda culture. Everyone is so accommodating, it’s so lovely. Josephine our hostess came over this morning and we are joining the family for breakfast.

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Settled in (Busolwe, Uganda)



After a six hour drive from Kampala, we arrived in the small village of Busowle, in the district of Butaleja. The ride over was full of scenery that one would imagine when conjuring images of ‘Africa’. It was flat mostly, with majestic clouds and lush greens. Many people walk along the highways, and it was also a common sight to see people sharing a bike as a means of transport. Passing by the strips of villages and cluster of huts really challenged the way I value money and ‘riches’. Many of those people would be ‘rich’ by their own terms: they have food, and they are healthy. They live in a beautiful land, with a rich culture, and tight families. We are brought up to believe that money is the ultimate satisfaction. Here, they value God, family, and self. They are a proud people, engaged in local community building for self development sake, rather than for competition or global power. It’s such a friendly and inviting environment to immerse into.

I realize that my being able to ‘integrate’ into the community is very shallow. In reality, I will not be ‘integrated’ in a mere three month’s time. On the way here, we were often confronted by stares, calls of ‘mzungu’, and beggars, all who were unfamiliar with who we were, where we come from, and why we were here. All they saw was our skin colour, which was ‘white’ to them regardless of our personal backgrounds. They associate white skin colour with money, and that was who we were. We can’t expect locals to see us any other way. What we can expect, and have already felt much of, is respect and guidance from our host families who have gone out of their way to make sure we are settled in and have this opportunity to engage with locals. It will be an experience of sharing of knowledge, and we should focus on that rather than to ‘make our mark’. It is not about ourselves. I believe that will be the greatest affront to our learning experience here, since we’ve been brought up to be so much more self- centered than people are here.

The three girls, Hannali, Stephanie, and myself, reside in a separate house on a homestead property owned by the grandfather of the UBC contact in Uganda. We each have a room to ourselves, and a Western bathroom, as well as access to electricity. This has all been much too generous, and we graciously accept their hospitality with thanks. In my heart I feel like we are cheating this ‘African’ experience, because we have so much luxury compared to those around me. I know when I am back in Vancouver this will have been a major factor to how my perception of wealth and well- being is defined as. Still, it is very comforting to have the privacy and space to reflect as I am now, and to retreat from the constant learning that we are doing in our placement.

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