Why You Should Find a Sanctuary On Campus

Nitobe

On Friday after class, I made the short trip from sleepy Buchanan E to my special place on campus. A slice of verdant greens, carpets of moss, jade coloured water, and cool quiet breezes. Nitobe Memorial Garden. For the uninitiated, it’s right next to Vanier rez and the Asian Library. The traffic sounds are the only intrusive influence here and even their composition is muted and altered; as if the garden has a gentle but impenetrable hand up 24/7 saying, Nothing but peace and joy shall enter here.

Nitobe Garden is a sanctuary that was there for me during 5 years of undergrad, the first year of my masters degree, and now what will be my last year of “higher education”. And every student needs a sanctuary. For introspection, for a healthy break between classes, for an escape from extreme levels of stress, for artistic inspiration, for a pep talk, or for a private moment between friends or loved ones. Find yours and take advantage of what our gorgeous, expansive campus has to offer.

Nitobe Memorial Garden is one, but there are so many others. The Rose Garden with its supernatural views and the UBC Botanical Garden’s winding quiet paths under canopies of towering conifers come to mind. But it doesn’t have to be a sanctuary grounded in nature. It could be under one of The Nest’s protective awnings, or the warm cocoon of the Aquatic Centre, especially soothing during the damp Novembers and Februaries.

Take this opportunity before classes get serious and you sign up for all your clubs and activities to find your sanctuary. Explore the campus and don’t ever let the rain stop you. Being alone in your sanctuary, dry from the rain or wet yet protected in your rain gear, is a blessing:  just you being with you.

Find me on Instagram where I wax poetic on Nitobe Memorial Garden and other special places on and off campus (like garage sales).

Why your back to school nerves are a good thing

Back to school

Leaves fall, school starts.

This back to school thing? I’m a pro.

Five years of undergrad, one year of graduate studies, I’ve finally got it down. Heading into my first class in the Sing Tao building this time last year, ready to start the rigorous Master of Journalism program, I felt terrified. On a cellular level. Almost nauseous from the fear of no one liking me and not being able to do this.

You see, I got very sick in late 2013, couldn’t work, could barely walk, lived in pain and fear I would never live a life again. In September 2014, I was really only six months into my long recovery. I never give up – ever – so I knew I was better, but I had a long way to go and I was scared.

That was then; this is now.

I had no need to be afraid. The true, blue love and support I was given from my faculty and classmates is one of the greatest gifts I have ever been given. And I am a different person because of it. Assertive, confident, ballsy, and wise. I embraced my fears, felt them, lived them, didn’t brush them aside. They were my greatest teachers and they’re yours as well.

It’s okay and very, very healthy to feel nervous about going back to school. New program or same-old. First year undergrad or second year masters. No matter. September is synonymous with the new, change. The air smells different, the leaves look different, your focus changes. You might be afraid to approach your new professor and introduce yourself; do it anyway. You might be nervous about going to a first week party where you don’t know anybody; go anyways. Trust me, it will go well and it won’t be a catastrophe. Your prof will be impressed. You will have fun at the party (however you define and experience fun).

Your nerves – however quiet or loud – are your friends. Let yourself feel them, but don’t let them tell you what to do. Going back to school is awesome and you’ll do awesome.

Spam prevention powered by Akismet