Sarah Polley wrote, directed and edited The Stories we Tell, a documentary in which she interviews her family members and their friends in order to depict the events in her late mother’s life. In an interview in Studio Q with Jian Ghomeshi, she discusses how she hadn’t done any press interviews while promoting the film in 2012. She claimed that doing interviews would have placed a burden on the “mess of storytelling” that takes place in the film by imposing a perspective before the viewing. Indeed, the film includes many versions of the same events that took place in Sarah’s life, some of these accounts of her mother Diane’s behavior and personality are conflicting.
Interestingly enough, Sarah states in the interview that she did not wish to shape a character of her mother that would eclipse who she once was. The film is successful in not offering fixed notion of who Diane was. This idea of a collective memoir that that refuses to give definitive answers is ironically what irked Harry about the process. Yet it seams obvious for contemporary audiences that a single perspective is neither right nor wrong, and that we do get a better idea of reality when exposed to conflicting perspectives. Each person that Sarah interviews in the film had their own version of the story, and Sarah states that everyone was very attached to their perspective since their lives where all affected in a tangible way by Diane’s actions.
Nevertheless, we do get Sarah’s version of the story, as she admits to having had a lot of say on what made it in the film, and on the many elements of her personal life that the chose to omit from the final cut. Moreover, she also had reservations about Harry wishing to publish his own memoir about the story. The issue that surfaces here is whether the film presents one version of the story, where all of the versions combined become Sarah’s version, or is it in fact a story where every perspective holds equal weight.