Posted by: | 15th Jul, 2011

Confessions of a Blogophobe

Confession #1: I am not a good golfer.

Last year, I signed up for ladies group golf lessons with my mom at the local golf course. As the others confidently took swing after swing at the driving range, I carefully lined up each shot, running over all the steps in my head. Feet shoulder-width apart, bent knees, straight back, butt out, arms stretched out to form a ‘V’, etc. etc. And invariably (excepting a few lucky shots), the ball would dribble a couple meters in front of me, in the dirt. Before long, the golf pro commented, “You’re an A+ student, aren’t you? You’re thinking too much.”

Confession #2: I am not a good blogger.

So when I read Andrew Sullivan’s article “Why I Blog”, where he mentions the advice he received from his editor, Michel Kinsley, in his early stages of blogging: don’t “think too hard before writing”, this simple comment completely resonated with me in more ways than one. Since my first foray into the uncharted jungles of the Internet, this has been my problem, again and again. Early on, many of my friends were very active on both topical and general websites, posting articles on everything from politics to professional wrestling and welcoming comments on the respective site’s forum. While I was perfectly comfortable commenting on others posts, I more often than not left my own half-written articles abandoned…they were either not interesting, witty, well written, or insightful enough for me to dare to post. So while my friends made a name for themselves, taking a swing at whatever thoughts came to mind, I was left in the dust.

So as I now attempt to make my mark on the Web, yet again, it comes to no surprise that I am suffering from “blogger’s block”. Still, I’m up for the challenge of overcoming overthinking, partly by practice and partly by observing how others use blogs and other social media effectively for their purposes. Bring it on, blogosphere!

Responses

I can definitely relate to your point about “Blogger’s block” I’ve been sitting here listening to music for an hour and haven’t written my blogpost yet.

Haha! I loved your post Jenn. Linking the golf and the blogging was great – I wouldn’t worry about the whole wit thing 🙂
But, yes, I am in complete sympathy. I absolutely can not write (as yet) in that blogging spirit. Blogs to some extent are about spontaneity and getting down those ‘eureka’ moments, as Dean mentioned on Vista. But I’m of the writing style, where pen doesn’t hit page until it’s ‘perfect’. Unfortunately, I’ve never in my life done that kind of free writing process where you just write whatever and go back and edit later. Consequently, the informality of blog writing doesn’t come easy for me at all and i tend to treat each post with the gravity of a mini essay! hardly conducive to the medium at all… But, as you say, I’m ready to take on the challenge of changing…It’s good to know it’s not just me staring for an inordinate amount of time at a blank post box.

You’re not alone. Because we all live inside our own heads way to much we think we have nothing interesting to put on paper.
My angst comes from wondering if what I write is really understood by those who take the time to read it.

I definitely understand this sentiment and am actually very appreciative that we have a topic in this course that we HAVE to blog about (with some wiggle room). I usually hit “topic block” whenever I attempt to do any unstructured public writing. Typically topic block goes like this: “Well I could write about triathlons – no lots of people who are much more talented than me already do that” or “I could write about my vacation, no someone else probably wrote about a much more interesting vacation recently” and so on. Now I figure I just have to pick a social media related topic and jump into it regardless of how uninteresting I find myself. Good luck with your bloggers block and I look forward to reading more of your posts!

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