Back to my weekly visits

 

I would like to start off by saying I missed the students a lot. I was so excited to go back on Thursday morning, especially, to see those students who I have been working very closely with.

It was so comforting and lovely to see the students greet me with such excitement and compassion. It was such a warm feeling. Even though I was in the class for two week I realized I get to learn something new about the students every time.

Just before lunch an announcement was made for all the Aboriginal students to attend a lunch that had been arranged. My first instinct “There is no one from our class.” Was I ever wrong. Two of the students got up to go attend the lunch. I was caught by surprise. I did not know I had two Aboriginal students in my class. I thought this would be a great way to connect with these two students. So during a independent activity I approached one of the students. I had asked her how her lunch was. I then started asking her questions about what she knew about her background and culture. She did  not know much. I then asked her about her family. That was not a good idea. She told be about her family dynamic. It was very complex. I felt guilty. I did not think such a simple question would strike up a complicated conversation. The emotions on the students face were devastating.

Thinking back to that moment. I am hesitant to ask an question surrounding family dynamic. I was unable to forget the students reaction all day.

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  1. I know that sometimes we inadvertently bring up areas for students that they are struggling with, including family. It is OK if you have done this, provided you let the student know that he/she is cared for and that if he or she chooses not to discuss his/her family with you, that it is OK. The important thing for that student to know is that you are a safe person who is willing to listen and give support.

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