Things I Love Thursday

Puppy Pepper in the car

my friend's dog (aka possibly best puppy in the world) in the car, hong kong

cookie dough ice cream • Bridget Jones’s Diary • dinner party with friends • playing Apples to Apples in the dark • girls’ sleepover • bacon with maple syrup • food certificate to The Point Grill • the sweet server who struck up a conversation with me • pasta at Anton’s • talk about travel dreams • being safely indoors when it’s hailing • Kana Nishino’s ‘Best Friend’ • hearing an old friend’s voice on the phone for the first time in two years • bringing birthday happiness to a much loved heart • warm, colourful scarves • the people who regularly check up on me • making mulligatawny • tramping through piles of dry leaves • reading poetry

a new format this week in honour of all the recent good changes in my life, including acquiring my third and final co-op term for January — hurray!

Building Your Resume

This is a post I’m writing with international students particularly in mind, though much of what I say is applicable to domestic students, too.

One of the biggest challenges I faced when I first arrived in Canada and applied for jobs was my lack of local experience and local contacts who were willing to be my references. Now, everyone says that all experience is good experience, but in reality, local applicants are usually preferred over those who have just arrived. For one thing, it’s not that easy to get in touch with references who live sixteen time zones away; not every employer is willing to dial internationally, either, when there are a whole host of equally qualified, local applicants. And unless the job is looking for international applicants or you’re absolutely stellar in some jaw-dropping way — which most eighteen-year-olds are not — you’re going to be passed over.

What can you do to get over this obstacle? A few actions that have helped me over the last few years:

1. Start simple

Apply for entry-level jobs. Build up your basic interpersonal, office or administrative skills if you haven’t already got those. Choosiness isn’t something you can afford in buckets when you’re just starting out — think of these initial jobs as stepping-stones to landing the positions that you’d most like. Another great advantage to many of these entry-level jobs is that they don’t ask for (m)any references — always a plus for international students — and it’s the perfect way to start that list of local experience and contacts.

2. Volunteer

Unlike where I grew up, volunteer experience is definitely something you can put on your resume here in Canada. What matters is not whether the position is paid or unpaid, but what skills you gain from the experience. Volunteering provides many excellent opportunities to build those basic skills you need to get a job, and demonstrates a certain initiative and commitment on your part (as long as you keep it up). This is also another excellent way of gaining local references.

That said, do make the effort to volunteer for something you believe in. Volunteering just for the sake of putting it on your resume when your heart isn’t in it only detracts from the whole experience and does a disservice to those you are meant to be helping. AMS Volunteer Connect is a great service that can help you find volunteer opportunities you’re interested in.

3. Start soon

It takes time to build up solid references and to gain the experiences that really will be useful to you resume-wise. Get involved in the activities that interest you. Don’t put it off for later; time flies and you don’t want to graduate with an empty resume, particularly when the people around you are filling theirs.

4. Learn how to write a resume

When I first arrived, I certainly had no idea what a resume looks like, let alone a good resume. UBC Career Services offers dozens of free workshops, resume clinics and advising to UBC students. Take advantage of these while you can and learn what is expected in the local job market.

Fun (and little-known) fact: UBC graduates can continue to access Career Services for free up to a year after graduation. So if you’re struggling in the ‘cesspool of unemployment’, as one of my recently graduated friends put it, don’t be afraid to ask for a little help!

Things I Love Thursday

Most interesting tip learned this week: If you want to melt chocolate, don’t use a double boiler. Steam can affect the quality and workability of chocolate. To melt, place chocolate in a metal bowl and blow dry the bowl. Now that’s something I’ve got to try!

Things loved this week:

♥ The chocolate-tasting workshop given by XOXOLAT (pronounced sho-sho-la) through the AMS Minischool on Tuesday night was delicious and informative. I’ve decided I’m definitely an 80%+ cocoa kind of gal.

♥ One of the awesome things about your parents being in town is that they buy you all the things you really want but haven’t got, like a rice cooker, blender and working toaster. There’s now so much more that I can eat!

♥ West Coast Swing is possibly my favourite form of social dancing right now. I’ve been learning swing for a couple of hours every Thursday night for the last while and it’s my newest way of being happy.

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Tessa Cunningham and Myles Munroe dancing improvised West Coast

♥ Grateful thanks go out to my lovely Speakeasy volunteers who trooped off campus with me into the dark last night to search for my lost phone. After peering at the very, very black ground for an equally black phone, we found it and ended my hour of distress. My brother just got me this new phone, too!

Kana Nishino’s ‘Alright’ is my feel better music on repeat for the week.

♥ Lastly, a picture a friend recently shared of a quote from The Curious Case of Benjamin Button:

I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you're proud of, and if you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.

The joy of being invalidated

People who know me well know that I love to make wishes — on stars, eyelashes, at 11:11 — anything will do. It’s not so much the expectation that something will happen so much as the act of wishing itself that makes me happy. As someone once said to me, it feels good to be honest about what you want.

Erica recently blogged about some care mail she recently received from her mother. Reading it put such a smile on my face, but I’ll be truthful and admit that I also felt twinges of envy and missing-people-sickness. My parents aren’t the type to send me mail.

Just before I could indulge in wallowing for long, though, look what I found!

London postcard of yellow car

Postcard from London

A friend who just moved from Toronto to London thought of me about a month ago. Except I didn’t really catch that thought until today because I get mail so infrequently that I only check my letterbox about once a month. And I only checked it tonight because I felt like wallowing and wanted evidence to back me up. Oops. Guess I’ll be doing a happy dance instead.

Not so secretly, I like it much better this way. This made my day. Thank you. ♥

Spring 2012 Congregation Dates

Contrary to what I told my parents just before they left this weekend (they were visiting for two weeks), the dates for the spring congregation period are up — though the detailed schedule won’t be posted until February — and I can actually start making travel plans.

To my very pleasant surprise, spring congregation will be from May 23–30, which will give me a whole three weeks between finishing up work and school and all that jazz, and actually graduating. Three weeks of no responsibilities to anyone or anything? I am going to love it.