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Conclusion

I think one of the best things about taking this course was the flexibility. I allowed myself to be challenged and most importantly, I read so many novels. Personally, I have long grown distant to reading, ever since English in high school. I will say some weeks got difficult but having read the number of texts I have contracted for, I feel so accomplished. The biggest hardship for me was finishing a lengthy novel within less than a week as I also work almost full-time from Friday to Sundays. As well, I will admit that I am a slow reader. 

In particular, I surprised myself on some days as I began to immerse myself in works that I would never have thought of reading before. I am thankful that I allowed myself to be challenged and be open to reading new styles of writing. Some books I unexpectedly enjoyed are: “Combray,” Mad Toy, Agostino, The Time of the Doves, and Money to Burn.

I quite liked the overall structure of this course. That is, watching the lecture beforehand and coming to class for the discussion of the books. I thought this allowed us to be much more productive and utilize our time wisely. Furthermore, I also found it extremely thoughtful how the topics for Monday and Wednesday classes for compulsory texts varied in what was discussed. This incentivized more people to attend both.
Another aspect I liked was responses to each other’s blog posts. Although this was mandatory, I found that this sparked more discussion and even if there were no replies to comments, it sparked more ideas. I truly loved seeing what other people took away from the novel and the different perspectives that arose from reading the same text.

Something I thought was difficult at the beginning of the course was figuring out the structure for each of the weeks. However, once I found a routine that worked for me, I found myself relying on the schedule I set for myself and following it to be successful.

For some weeks, I was anxious about the short quiz even though I completed all the work. This was mainly for the texts that I read but did not fully comprehend. Even though I had read the full book, watched the videos, and taken notes, I was afraid that I may have lost a super important detail that would be tested on the quiz. I also was worried that I may have misunderstood what was going on. Yet, I understand the purpose of the quizzes, I just hope there was a way to make it less-anxiety inducing. 

Overall, I loved the structure of this class! Yes, it is a lot of work, but so worth it. Thank you to everyone! I enjoyed listening and discussing the different texts with you all!

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Debré

Debré – Custody and Social Roles

I actually quite liked this novel and I think it has a lot of things to unpack! For some reason, it was one of the reads that really got me comfy (I’m talking about a cup of tea, snuggled into bed, the whole combo). Gradually over the course, I think I made time to read the (almost) weekly books whenever I had the chance to. However, for this novel, I actually ended up reading little by little before bed every night. So, I guess that is why I found it to be such a nice read.

Anyways, one of the things that stood out to me the most is the dynamic between the narrator, her son, and ex-husband. With the custody battle, personally, I feel like females tend to be more at a disadvantage? Not sure if that’s the most accurate word. Naturally, our society puts so much weight onto mother’s shoulders. Something I recall from another class is how when fathers take care of their children, they are seen as dedicated to their careers AND their family. On the other hand, when women take care of their children, it is almost always seen as expected and a sacrifice that is made without any “special” recognition. 

A quote that I would like to highlight is “incest had never occurred to me. It’s such a rich crime, the basis of so many things, in mythology, in psychoanalysis, in literature, it’s the foundation, the order of the world, of families, of civilization, the great taboo. It’s got quite a ring to it, incest. A real man’s crime” (21). I am unsure if I am taking it too far but my question for this week would be: What does the author mean by “a rich crime”? Is it the idea that only people who have it all consider partaking in this crime? Especially since they are the ones that have nothing to lose?

Another part I would like to talk about is “she says she’s always like this at first, then it gets better, “once the relationship’s more stable”” (140). In one of the relationship courses I am in, we covered the concept of disillusionment this week, sort of perfect timing if you ask me. Anyways, it embodies destiny beliefs where people think certain things such as if you get married, our conflict will be resolved. Overall, these are some of the thoughts that I had while reading and what I was reminded of.

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