Vacationing like Fitzgerald

“I have found that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain

A little less than two weeks ago, my friend Haley and I made a spur of the moment decision to spend two weeks traveling together. I’d mentioned that I wanted to visit Spain (a country where I speak the language, finally!) and wanted a travel buddy. Although traveling with someone you’ve only known for 2 months is pretty ambitious, we were excited to get going; besides, having a travel buddy means having a built-in photo taker! Pretty soon, we were booking tickets to France and Spain for the following week!

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We began our journey with a 3-night stay in Nice – the heart of the French Riviera. Getting off the plane and walking into the heart of Nice, I was blown away. Everywhere I looked I was bombarded with pastel-coloured buildings, palm trees and posh people. The balmy 20 degree weather (it didn’t last) and the backdrop of beautiful beach coastline didn’t hurt either.

To be completely honest, France has never been at the forefront of my travel bucket-list but when Haley and I were making travel plans, I thought it might be fun and asked my cousin for suggestions…I’m so glad that I did!

“See the world. It’s more fantastic than any dream made or paid for in factories. Ask for no guarantees, ask for no security.” – Ray Bradbury, Fahrenheit 451

After spending almost a week in the French Riviera and in Provence, I can easily understand why this part of the world was so beloved by some of the most influential talents in the world. The fact that people like the Fitzgeralds or Picasso summered here makes it even more appealing.

Not only is this part of France absolutely beautiful, the food is fantastic and the people are relaxed and friendly. At this time of year – the off season – nothing was crowded and we were able to meet the pace of the other (largely retiree-age) travelers. At one point we were asked “Are you 21 or 81?” but honestly it was nice to get away from the hustle and bustle of a big city and just relax by the water.

Although we were traveling in the off-season, I actually enjoyed it! Some stores and restaurants were closed but all the cities we visited still had a fair number of people and I can’t imagine having to deal with the crowds during the late summer (their high season). Despite having to deal with thunderstorms and torrential downpours on certain days, we also got to experience 20 degree weather in October which would be unprecedented in Denmark.

I’m still alive and still walking around with a camera attached to my neck – here are some overall thoughts about Southern France as well as each city we visited:

Sweet:

– The colour! The pastels everywhere were so romantic.
– The French people! They get such a bad rap among other Europeans but Haley and I found it so refreshing how many French people engaged us in conversation despite their limited handle on English.
– A lot of museums were free or had discounts for students!
– One we got to the cities, it was very easy to travel everywhere by foot.

Salty:

– In many museums, public transit, signs, etc. everything was written in French.
– The French we encountered spoke English much less fluently than I thought they would. They try so hard anyway though that I loved them all the more for it.
– A local baker told us that the area was famous for having 300 days of sun each year but we got a fair share of the rainy days (thunderstorms and downpours!) during our stay

Nice
Nice

Overall impression: Nice

– The pastels!!!The intricate balconies!!! I basically walked around with my jaw open and my head staring up at the buildings around me
– Very slow-paced even though it was the biggest city we visited (besides Cannes)
– Love love loved the MOMAC museum – especially the current exhibitions!

Overall impression: Antibes

– Felt like walking into a fairy tale (the old town) or a Fitzgerald novel (because, duh)
– The locals were so fantastic!
– The yachts though…one was so large we thought it was a building at first
– Looking out over the ocean and seeing a mountain skyline breathed life back into me

Overall impression: Avignon

– This felt like the oldest city out of all the ones we visited
– The Papal Palace reminded me of my childhood vision of what a palace should be
– Everything was very concentrated around the palace but it was so interesting to learn about how Avignon evolved through the Great Schism, the Revolution and other historical events (awesome for history buffs like moi)

 


Itinerary:

  • Nice
    Old Town 
    Promenade des Anglais – originally built for the wealthy English
    Place Masséna – main city square

    Marche Aux Fleurs Cours Saleya – flower & artist market
    St. Nicholas Orthodox Cathedral – Russian cathedral
    Avenue Jean Médecin – main shopping street

    MOMAC – Museum of Modern Art and Contemporary Art
    Basilique Notre Dame – cathedral
    Musée Matisse + Roman Ruins 
  • Antibes
    Vieille Ville – Old Town
    Waterfront, Port –
    essentially luxury-yacht-central
    Le Nomade –
    really cool sculpture on waterfront

    Marche Provencal –
    local farmer’s market
    Picasso Museum – incredible collection donated by Picasso and his family
    Cannes – as in the film festival; day trip with dinner on the beach
  • Avignon
    Old town

    Palais des Papes – palace for French popes during Great Schism
    Jardin du Rocher des Domes – palace gardens
    Pont Saint-Benezet (Pont d’Avignon) – famous bridge featured in French nursery rhyme
    Notre Dame des Doms d’Avignon – Avignon cathedral, adjacent to palace

    Avignon Les Halles – local market

Love Letter to My Sorority

“One woman is a tiny divine spark in a timeless sisterhood tapestry collective.” – Jan Porter

As most of you who attend UBC (or follow my social media) are aware, this past week, UBC Sororities held its yearly recruitment. This essentially means that yesterday I gained 35 new sorority sisters!

If you can’t tell from my numerous social media posts, I’ve been struck with a serious case of FOMO (fear-of-missing-out). Unluckily for them, my close friends and two littles have been dealing with the worst of it – my questions, my requests for snapchats and daily updates, etc. I knew when I left that I would miss everyone but the severity to which I did only really hit me this weekend.

So, I decided to take the time to examine what it was that I miss so much about being home among my sisters – what it is that makes being an Alpha Gam so significant to me.

You might be surprised to hear that my 50,000+ people campus feels small. This stands as a stark contrast to my experience on exchange where my life revolves around a growing but small network of people. At home I always have someone to hang out with, something to get involved with, someone to be inspired by. It’s amazing how a short discussion with a sister between classes – even just a smile and a wave – can make my day that much brighter. Being in a sorority means having a network and a support system to fall back on. Suddenly being separated from that network has shown me how important it has become.

Meeting Alpha Gams in Denmark!
Meeting Alpha Gams in Denmark!

Even so, Alpha Gam makes the world a smaller place. The fact that I can form fast friendships with Alpha Gams from different chapters  – and that there are so many consistencies in character – is impressive in and of itself. Being an Alpha Gam abroad means that there are sisters to visit all over the world and sisters to get travel tips from. There’s always someone forging the path ahead of you and that has been a comfort as I adjust to my life here.

For me, sisterhood has meant so many insignificant things adding up to something significant. This is what I miss most in my daily life. Having someone to sit next to in most of my classes. Study guides swapped before back-breaking exams. Someone to rant to. Textbooks sold extra-cheap. Shameless social media stalking of cute guys. Online shopping when we should be studying. Editing each other’s tinder profiles. Outfits examined and analyzed for everything from dates to formals to hiking trips to adventures. Obnoxious comments on social media. Coffee when you need it the most. Conversations about whether it’s too late at night to order pizza. Serious debates about the Bachelor. Movie nights crying over romcoms wondering why the men around us can’t be more like Channing Tatum (She’s the Man version, obviously).

“A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life.” – Isadora James

It’s true that I’ve made some of my best friends through Alpha Gam but I’ll be the first to admit that not everyone in my chapter is my best friend – even my close friend. What’s incredible is that despite this fact, I can get along with anyone in my chapter and never feel uncomfortable no matter who I’m with, or what situation I’m in. I know that if I needed support, any woman in my sorority would drop everything to be at my aid – I’ve experienced it first hand.

Unsurprisingly, Copenhagen isn’t all that diverse; I didn’t realize how important the diversity of my peers was until I missed it. It is one of the characteristics I love most about my chapter. There’s women from every walk of life and every background. Women studying to be businesswomen, teachers, scientists, artists. There’s never a shortage of perspective or differences of opinion. Since joining my sorority, I constantly examine myself to see if I’m living up to the standard set by the women around me – they are #goals and inspire me to be the best version of myself. Because of these women, I’ve become involved in things I didn’t think I would.

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My pledge class, 2013

My sisters fill so many roles in my life. They are friends, mentors, tutors. They are competitors, jesters, co-conspirators. They are mentees, fellow geeks, confidants, therapists, organizers, defendants, motivators, my cheer squad, and so much more.

Three years ago, I came to UBC as an eighteen year old girl – key world being girl. Everyone grows up when they go to university but I’ve been lucky enough to become a woman under the watchful and nurturing eyes of my sorority. It’s hard to believe that in about 8 months, I’ll be leaving behind the security of the friendships I’ve made. I know that who I am today has been shaped by the people I’ve been surrounded by these last few years – I’ll always have them when I need them. As I get closer and closer to graduation, I’ve never been prouder to be a sorority woman – an Alpha Gamma Delta woman.

To my best friends, my littles, my sisters reading this – I miss you all so so much and I love you even more. There’s nothing I look forward to more than finishing off my senior year surrounded by all of you. 

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