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An Ineffective Spread of Hope to Combat “Hell Joseon” – Fight for My Way

An Ineffective Spread of Hope to Combat “Hell Joseon”Fight for My Way

A. Background

This paper takes its outset in “Hell Joseon”, a term that means South Korea nowadays is a hell to live in. This paper explores how “Hell Joseon” comes to light in real life and the drama Fight for My Way ,마이웨이 (KBS2, Lee Na Jeong, 2017). It agrees that people in South Korean society need hope to combat “Hell Joseon”, and media influence is a common means to spread hope. The drama Fight for My Way is a typical neoliberal fantasy to spread hope among society. However, its ridiculous plot and wrong information provided made it ineffective to achieve the goal.

B. “Hell Joseon in Real Life

To begin with, “Hell Joseon” is often used by the youth in South Korea on the internet starting from 2010. Joseon is the name of the dynasty in South Korea from 1392 to 1910, the year when the Japanese colonization started. The idea of colonial legacy and neoliberalism coexist, and are compressed to form this modern society of South Korea (Schoonhoven 2017). “Hell Joseon” addresses every position within South Korean society. It implies the discrepancies between the rich and the poor, men and women, and people of different social class and their social mobility, and more (Schoonhoven 2017). We will discuss the negative influences that “Hell Joseon” brings to South Korean society in social, economic and environmental aspects.

Socially speaking, the problem of social disparity in South Korea is aggravating. Education is one of the greatest reasons, that one’s education level correlates a lot with his or her family financial condition. Nowadays, a successful student must be more than a “hard working social conformist” (Abelmann, Jin and Hee 2016). The student can receive better education from well-known educational institutions, such as SKY[1] or overseas universities, if his or her family is willing to pay for a high tuition fee. To a large extent, better education guarantees the rich student a better occupation in the future. Since the large multinational corporations (MNCs) in South Korea tend to recruit SKY and overseas graduates for their fluency of English or other languages. As a result, the rich students have more job opportunities, whereas the less well-off have a low social mobility. It intensifies the problem of generational poverty, and leads to more social discontent and lower working incentive (Joon 2001).

Economically speaking, the South Korean economy is mostly monopolized by huge conglomerates[2] (Jaebeol), such as Samsung C&T Corporation, Hyundai and LG. Although the government has established the Ministry of SMEs and Startups in recent years, the government policies still inevitably lean to the Jaebeol through investing into their businesses (Lim Won Hyuk 2012). Small businesses have low incentive to grow. As a result, the South Korean economy is very concentrated. The job market is dominated by huge corporations, who seem to provide a steady career path and stable salaries, creating an imbalance in the job market (Cho 2003). The youth get pressurized when they fail to get or secure a job from these corporations. In recent years, students rather defer graduation and seek for low-pay internships for more job experiences, than graduating on time and look for a full-time (Joon 2001). All these lead to confusion of students to their future path and an overall gloomy atmosphere.

Environmentally speaking, the young are struggling to find a shelter due to the surging property prices. The property around Gangnam (south of the Han River in Seoul) has soared 100,000-fold in the recent thirty years (Lowe-Lee 2007). While the original land owners become very wealthy, it becomes extremely difficult for the young generation to purchase their home. Most of them can only afford to rent a small apartment around the city border, or a room in a shared unit. Lacking a shelter, which is a basic living element, to live in makes the young generation insecure about their future and meanwhile postponing their plan in forming a family, which is the keystone of society.

The suicide rate in South Korea is the highest among OECD countries[3]. According to the Korea National Statistics Office (NSO), suicide is the second greatest leading cause of death among youth aged 10–19 in 2008 (Lee Seung Yeon 2010). In fact, it is not normal for being this costly to live in a society, where the teenagers feel the urge to sacrifice their life to make them feel comfortable. Society must alter this gloomy atmosphere to avoid teenagers from continuously paying a huge cost to survive.

In recent years, the Korean entertainment industry has been prosperous. K-TV shows and dramas become a great means to spread hope to fight against the depression in society. Now, we will take a look at how the drama Fight for My Way portrays and attempts to fight against “Hell Joseon.

[1] The three most prestigious universities in South Korea, i.e. Seoul National University, Korea University and Yonsei University

[2] A corporate group that engages in two or more entirely different businesses. For example, Samsung C&T Corporation engages in trading, clothing and technology industry

[3] OECD, “Korea’s increase in suicides and psychiatric bed numbers is worrying, says OECD” Date Accessed Nov 25, 2017 https://www.oecd.org/els/health-systems/MMHC-Country-Press-Note-Korea.pdf

C. “Hell Joseon in Fight for My Way

In FFMW, “Hell Joseon” is mainly revealed in three aspects, social, living and working environment.

In terms of social, the difficulty for a university graduate to land a job nowadays is revealed in the drama. Ae-ra, who is the only university graduate among the protagonists, cannot even land a decent job. During university years, she was well-known for her eloquence. Every friend of her expected her to become a famous anchor. However, after graduating, she works as a department store employee who greets customers at the information desk. Her supervisor, who does not treat her well, asks her to kneel to apologize to a VIP customer even she did not do something wrong. We know Ae-ra does not come from a middle-to-high-income class. Even after graduating from a university, she still stays in the lower-income class with low social mobility.

In terms of living environment, the protagonists (Dong-man, Ae-ra, Joo-man and Seol-hee) all live in a moon village (달동네). The term “moon village” implies its elevation and proximity to the moon. A moon village is often a small and uphill community around the city border, making its rent cheap (Lowe-Lee 2007). Ae-ra and Seol-hee rent a shared apartment. Whereas Dong-man and Joo-man both live in a studio apartment; a room that serves as dining, living and bedroom, attached with a separated bathroom. To a large extent, the situation reflects the reality; where a lot of university students or young adults who grew up in other places in South Korea will leave their hometowns and go to major cities for work or study purpose (Schoonhoven 2017). They usually rent a small apartment and live by themselves, or share a unit with a roommate. With the rocketing property prices, it is almost impossible for these young people to purchase their own flat. For the less well-off young generation, renting a small space is their only way out.

In terms of working environment, most protagonists suffer from poor treatment by their bosses and customers. Dong-man, who works as a pest exterminator at the beginning of the drama, is treated poorly by his supervisor. He often gets yelled and hit on the street, which makes him ashamed and embarrassed. Dong-man’s supervisor, who does not get along with him, often asks him to resign himself. Ae-ra, who works as a department store employee, often suffers from unreasonable customers and seniors. Seol-hee, who works as a customer representative in a home shopping channel company, is an insignificant employee. No one pays attention to her; her manager always calls her “Seon-hee”. No matter how hard they work, they are always too far from their dreams.

As the plot develops, FFMW portrays positive and successful results after the protagonists work hard to achieve their dreams, as a means to spread hope. However, why is “hope” necessary? Why does it try to spread hope even it is false and fantasied? We will explore the reason why spreading hope is important in “Hell Joseon”.

D. The Role of Hope in Hell Joseon

Hope is a fundamental element that the young generation needs. It is the young generation’s last line of defense to survive. It is also the last element that the Chil-po generation[4] gives up. In other words, if the young generation lose hope, suicide will become their last way out to accuse society’s unfairness (Lee Seung Yeon 2010).

In Korean society, the idea of neoliberalism is rooted, which demands that individuals to become self-managers who possess the necessary skills and qualities to succeed (Walkerdine 2003). People should be responsible for their own self and work problems out on their own.

FFMW is a typical neoliberalism fantasy, which tries to distribute hope in a time when people must rely on factors apart from diligence to succeed, such as social ties, socio-economic status and education background. FFMW spreads hope by portraying the four protagonists’ self-endeavor that make them successful. It tries to give encouragement to the audience to alter the negative and gloomy atmosphere in society.

In the drama, Dong-man, Ae-ra and Seol-hee were previously looked down and seemed their third-rate life will persist for a long period. However, they eventually succeed with continuous passion and endeavor. FFMW portrays a scene of how happy and successful one can be if one is able to do the things he or she desires. It tries to deliver the message of persistence and hope to keep the audience dreaming. As a result, they can recognize their own value and strength, knowing that no one deserves a third-rate life even he or she is already looked down by others for long.

[4] Chil means seven; po means give up. Chil-po are people who give up Chil (seven) living elements, including courtship, marriage, childbirth, employment, home ownership, interpersonal relationships and hope due to social and economic pressure. The general term is N-po generation, where n can be any number.

E. What Makes Fight for My Way Ineffective to Spread Hope?

Although being a neoliberal fantasy with encouraging plots, the drama is believed to be ineffective in terms of spreading hope. The greatest reasons are due to the ridiculous plot and some wrong information the drama has given off. We will look into this from the perspective of each protagonist.

Regarding Dong-man, his possibility of resuming taekwondo or mixed martial arts (“MMA”) after ten years of suspension is questionable. Although Dong-man might have kept working out during the past ten years, doing exercise on a daily basis is certainly different from the way of professional training of an athlete. It is extremely difficult for a half-retired athlete to maintain his body build as a full-time athlete, who has a very strict diet and training routine, not to mention the suspension period is very long.

Furthermore, the friendship between Dong-man and his coach, Jang-ho, is too ideal. Jang-ho supports him no matter what throughout these years. A few years after Dong-man quit taekwondo, Jang-ho started to run a food truck around the community where Dong-man lives in, since he could not make a living with his taekwondo school. Jang-ho indeed is a very loyal friend of Dong-man. However, doesn’t he have his own life? His entire life revolves around Dong-man. In episode 6, Jang-ho seeks help from the Karels, the three-generation family of Brazilian jujitsu fighters, to unconditionally help with Dong-man’s comeback. Is it possible for Jang-ho to make a living and sustain the taekwondo school at the same time by solely running a food truck business, just to support Dong-man? It is definitely a no in reality.

When it comes to Dong-man’s love life, he struggles between Hye-ran, his ex-girlfriend who is a well-known TV anchor, and Ae-ra, a very close friend of him. After the divorce with her wealthy husband, Hye-ran tries to get Dong-man back by moving to the unit above his. Nevertheless, such love line is ridiculous. Why would a famous and pretty lady, who dumped Dong-man before her marriage, try so hard to get him, a poor and jobless young man back? Whether all these will ever happen in reality is questionable, including the love story of Dong-man and his success. The effectiveness of the drama to spread hope is low, since the lover story of Dong-man will barely happen in the reality.

Regarding Ae-ra, her story to a certain extent gives off a wrong message to the audience. In episode 5, Ae-ra asked a VIP customer, who supposedly stole a watch from the department store, if she forgot to pay for something. The VIP customer is offended and Ae-ra is asked by her manager to kneel to apologize to her. Suddenly, Dong-man appears and pulls Ae-ra away, saying “she will quit from now on”. Of course, we know this is the romantic element of typical Korean dramas. However, the message sent to the audience is wrong. The scene is implying that it is fine for people to walk away whenever they are misunderstood or when they encounter other obstacles at work. In fact, it is absolutely not responsible to leave our job or resign whenever we want, given that employees also have to bear legal liability. Moreover, Ae-ra’s financial condition is a concern. After her resignation, Ae-ra starts to look for a job as a TV anchor to achieve her dream. During that period, she cannot even afford the rent. We are glad to see Ae-ra chasing after her dream. However, paying 100% effort towards your dream does not guarantee success. It is not justifiable if one chases his or her dream without considering their financial wellbeing and reality. The story of Ae-ra may be supplying a wrong message to the audience, especially those who are looking for ways towards their dreams.

In episode 14, Ae-ra is struggling to decide between which interview she should attend, for being a KBC TV anchor or MMA announcer, which happen at the same time. As we see throughout the drama, Ae-ra has always been preparing to become a TV anchor by practicing as a news reporter and doing proper pronunciation exercise. But she eventually chooses the interview of MMA announcer. It is unexpected and unbelievable since she does not seem to possess a deep knowledge on or interest in martial arts. During the interview, Ae-ra was only asked the reason why she wanted this position but nothing else about martial arts. Still, she gets the job eventually. It makes the ease of getting this job questionable.

In fact, to become an MMA announcer, people usually choose a local sports broadcaster as their starting point, then they are promoted to national broadcasting companies. The association or host of the fight will pick their ideal announcer from these broadcasting companies and hire them for the fight. Again, we can see the story of Ae-ra is portraying wrong information to the audience, making her success dubious and the drama’s effectiveness of spreading hope low.

Regarding Joo-man, who is the only less fantasized character in the drama, shows the audience a more reliable reference to become success. Joo-man is a “N-po generation” (N포세대), who gives up home ownership and marriage with Seol-hee due to social and economic pressure (Schoonhoven 2017). The audience do not know Joo-man’s dream, as it is not mentioned throughout the drama. But being a purchasing manager at a home shopping channel company allows him to taste different cuisine, and Joo-man seems to enjoys his work. What Joo-man does is more approachable and accessible by typical teenagers or young adults, who are or mostly will become a white-collar. Joo-man tells the audience that being a white-collar does not necessary mean boredom, but can be as exciting if you are enjoying it. Joo-man is the type of character who gains promotion and recognition step by step by his self-endeavor, allowing the audience to put themselves into his shoes.

Nevertheless, Joo-man’s love life with Seol-hee offsets the hope by being too much of a typical and unrealistic K-drama romance. In episode 15, Joo-man wants to reconcile with Seol-hee after their breakup. He told Seol-hee to shoot at him as he was wrong because he cheated. He will unconditionally wait for her until he is fifty years old, a line that often appears in other K-dramas. It supplies a positive message for the audience who are going through a similar stage, but meanwhile being a cliché K-drama romance, making their story in FFMW ineffective to spread hope to the audience.

Regarding Seol-hee, the innocent girl among the protagonists. Her story at the beginning is relatively inconspicuous. We know she likes cooking and blogging. One time she uploads the photos of her own brewed plum juice on her blog, someone comments and asks if she is willing to sell her plum juice. That marks the start of Seol-hee’s interesting path of selling plum juice online. Later, she resigns from her job and receives numerous of order every day.

However, food safety is a serious concern of selling beverages online. It can be much more difficult to start a beverage business than it appears in the drama. According to South Korea’s “Health or Functional Foods Act”[5], plum juice is regarded as a “fermented vegetable-extract product”, which is included in the established list of 37 generic health or functional foods. In South Korea, sellers or distributors must get an official license and government’s approval to sell these foods. Seol-hee starts selling plum juice in episode 15, yet receives the license in episode 16. Moreover, it is thought to be highly difficult for Seol-hee, who brews plum juice at her home, to gain government’s approval on the note of food safety. It is hard for her to monitor the quality of her plum juice, given the great variation of humidity and temperature at her home, where the plum juice is stored and packed. Unlike the simple procedures shown in the drama, starting a beverage business in real life can be much more complex than it seems. Once again, Seol-hee’s success becomes not convincing and lowers the drama’s effectiveness of spreading hope.

In general, the successful career and love stories of the protagonists in FFMW barely make sense in reality. The feasibility of their way to become successful is low, thus leading to a low effectiveness for the drama to spread hope among society.

[5] ChemLinked, “South Korean Health/Functional Food Legislation” Date Accessed Nov 25, 2017 https://food.chemlinked.com/foodpedia/south-korean-healthfunctional-food-legislation

F. Conclusion

In conclusion, the social atmosphere within South Korea has been negative and depressing in recent years, despite its glamorous and innovative upside shown on the world stage. South Korean addressed their capital city as “Han River Miracle” in 2000s, but “Hell Joseon” in 2010s (Rhee, Chi, Kwon 2013). It shows that they need encouragement to relax and reduce their everyday pressure. With the success of entertainment industry, media influence became a major tool to broadcast message to the public, including hope. The drama Fight for My Way in 2017 has well illustrated some problems that the young generation in South Korea is facing, the struggle of protagonists and their way to success. However, the messages and information it provided are mostly inaccurate and unrealistic, making it ineffective to spread hope. Therefore, Fight for My Way is only a means to relax; as it failed to provide a real-life scenario.

After all, giving false hope does not combat “Hell Joseon”. It should depend on the government to improve the depressing situation, for example provide further support for SMEs and individual business, diversify the economy, and increase housing supply. To address people’s depression and discontent, it needs to pay attention to its fundamental social issues on its inside, which to a huge extent can determine and hinder its future development.

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Episode 14 Synopsis and Analysis

Instead of attending interview of KBC, Ae-ra goes the octagon for the interview for MMA anchor. After the interview, one of the interviewers casually tells Ae-ra, “You’re hired”. The sudden appearance of Hye-ran did not alter the decision. Ae-ra will be announcing the upcoming match between Dong-man and Tak-soo.

That night, the department where Joo-man is in goes out to dinner together. Joo-man calls for more coals for the grill. Accidentally, Joo-man’s boss knocks the coals out of his hand.

They fly across the table towards Seol-hee, but Joo-man manages to fling himself across her so that the coal hits his back instead of Seol-hee. Joo-man’s back is badly burned.

In the octagon, Ae-ra finishes her first speech perfectly. Dong-man’s fight begins. During the fight, Tak-soo says the one thing that could make Dong-man lose his temper, that Dong-man prefers to fight on his feet because his sister can only sit. Dong-man is furious. He throws Tak-soo to the floor, and their heads knock together hard. Dong-man injured badly. His eye gushing blood from a cut. He insists that he’s fine and tells them not to stop the fight, but the doctor signals to the referee that it’s over. Dong-man is begging to be allowed to finish the fight.

Tak-soo faces the reporters and brags that he was leading the fight, saying that Dong-man’s injury proves that he was lacking. Coach Choi rushes over to fuss over Tak-soo’s bruised head, then he sees blood coming from Tak-soo’s nose. Then he slumps to the ground.

Outside the arena, Dong-man hugs Ae-ra and apologizing for scaring her. He insists that his injury isn’t bad. But He listens as Ae-ra’s voice fades until it disappears. He cannot hear her anymore. In voiceover, Dong-man says that the storm passed, and the world grew dark. Overcome by fear, Dong-man screams, “Why is it so quiet? Why? WHY?!

Episode 12 Synopsis and Analysis

Dong-man asks Ae-ra if she wants to sleep over tonight, making Ae-ra surprised.

They run right into Landlady Hwang and her son, Nam-il. She tells Dong-man and Ae-ra to play like children and not adults, and go back to their own homes.

Joo-man helps Ye-jin carry a heavy box into her apartment. He drops the box on his toe and hurt himself. Suddenly Ye-jin’s mother knocks on the door. Ye-jin shoves Joo-man into her closet promising to let him out when her mother leaves.

Landlady Hwang and Nam-il follow Dong-man and Ae-ra downstairs as Ae-ra grumbles that the landlord has no right to dictate what they do. Landlady Hwang said they neither have the right to trespass on the roof. Ae-ra whispers to Dong-man that she’d shower and come back. Ae-ra tells Hwang that being told not to do something only makes a person want to do it even more. Nam-il laughs says that he can see the resemblance, and why his mom decided to stay here.

Dong-man runs around his apartment and cleans up to prepare for Ae-ra’s visit. Meanwhile Ae-ra gets changed and heads back to Dong-man’s place.

Yet, It turns out they just sit on Dong-man’s bed drinking soju. Finally, Ae-ra leans over to kiss Dong-man. Dong-man confesses that he really likes Ae-ra. He says that he’ll just hold her all night and lies down, pulling Ae-ra into his arms. He kisses her forehead and hugs her close, and they fall asleep curled up together.

Ye-jin’s mother falls asleep on her couch, so Ye-jin sneaks into the closet to find Joo-man fast asleep on the floor. She sighs when she sees his still-bleeding toe. Suddenly she hears his phone ring. It’s Seol-hee.

 

The next morning Seol-hee comes to look for Ae-ra, telling that Joo-man didn’t come home last night. Ae-ra decided to go to Ye-jin’s place with Seol-hee to look for Joo-man.

Ae-ra drags Seol-hee to Ye-jin’s building. Ae-ra says that as the girlfriend, Seol-hee should not have been afraid.

Seol-hee tries calling Joo-man again. The vibrating wakes him from where he’s sleeping on Ye-jin’s closet floor. Joo-man checks his phone and sees forty-two missed calls from Seol-hee.

Ae-ra and Seol-hee wait outside, since Seol-hee isn’t sure that Joo-man is here. Seol-hee tells Ae-ra that she’s always had the same dream—being a good mother. Ae-ra agrees that it’s a wonderful dream, and that Seol-hee can just find someone else to share it with. But Seol-hee says, “He’s my world”.

But as they cross the lobby, they run right into Joo-man on his way out. He explains that he just fell asleep. He says that nothing happened, but then Ye-jin runs up with his sock.

Joo-man swears that he didn’t cross a line. But Seol-hee says it, “Let’s break up” and walks away.

As they wait for their bus, Ae-ra takes Seol-hee’s hand and thinks back to her own childhood, when nobody else wanted to be the tomboy’s friend, and her dad didn’t know how to do it, but sweet-hearted Seol-hee had taken care of her.

Dong-man is shocked when Ae-ra tells him about Seol-hee and Joo-man’s breakup, though he gets stuck on whether Joo-man slept with Ye-jin or not. On the way home Dong-man tells her that he’ll have to fight Tak-soo one day.

Ae-ra is firmly against Dong-man fighting Tak-soo again. Dong-man promises that he won’t lose, but Ae-ra says that she likes him so much that if someone were to shoot at him three times, she’d take two bullets.

Dong-man’s father comes. He wanders around Dong-man’s apartment criticizing everything, Dad asks why he’s home during the day, guessing that he’s unemployed. Dong-man says that he’s working, but he avoids telling Dad about his fighting.

Dad starts the When I was your age I worked hard lecture, but Dong-man snaps that Dad never paid for his tuition or rent. Dad says defensively that he raised his children with all his strength, but Dong-man asks angrily if he should live like that, and have a child who will resent him for being poor.

Back home, Joo-man opens a package of health supplements that Seol-hee previously ordered for him. Seol-hee comes and asks him to pack up her things. She tells Joo-man that cheating is cheating, and that degree doesn’t matter. She leaves him sobbing on the stairs.

 

Dong-man asks Joo-man why he let himself be swayed when he loves Seol-hee so much. Joo-man has nothing to say for himself.

Dong-man’s mother calls him, nearly frantic because his father just spent a lot of money at a bar and isn’t answering his phone. Dong-man goes to the bar, where he finds his father with his new boss. The boss talks down to Dad and says that he brought him in over all the younger men in his department because of his connections, but that he’s disappointed that Dad has too much pride to use them. Dad sits stoically, saying that he’ll try harder, and it reminds Dong-man of his own boss at his exterminator’s job who would abuse him.

 

He follows his father home at a distance, thinking that Dad has never kept the same pace as his family. Dong-man realizes that his father’s different pace was always for the good of his family. Dong-man calls out to Dad and suggests a drink.

The next morning, Dong-man brings his dad to the training site. Coach says that he worked hard morning and night, and Dong-man replies that he knows Dad doesn’t approve. But Dad tells Dong-man not to live like him, surprising his son. They relocate to a park, where Dad says that it’s too late for him to be a pilot, but that Dong-man is still young enough to chase his dream.

Ye-jin takes her aside to apologize for what happened. But then she ruins it by adding that her feelings for Joo-man are sincere and she wants to try dating him. Seol-hee keeps her cool, telling Ye-jin to do whatever she wants because they’ve broken up. But then Seol-hee picks up a full glass of water, and this time she actually does throw it in Ye-jin’s face.

While Ye-jin splutters in shock, Seol-hee says that she hopes that one day, Ye-jin will be in her shoes. She hopes that those eyes that claim to be innocent will overflow with tears. Ye-jin gasps that Seol-hee is mean, but Seol-hee just says calmly that Joo-man liked her a lot, unlike the vague excitement he feels towards Ye-jin now.

As scenes of their romance flash across the scene, Seol-hee says, “He was crazy about me.” She tells Ye-jin that Joo-man remembers all of the passionate moments they shared, adding that if she dates him, she hopes that those memories haunt Ye-jin.

When it’s time for Dad to take the bus home, Dong-man runs over to give him a bag and asks him to call and talk once in a while. Dad gets on the bus, not giving Dong-man another look, but he opens the bag to find some cash.

Dong-man runs straight to Ae-ra, telling her that he’s going to fight Tak-soo. He says that nobody can beat someone who’s having fun, and that if growing up means your dreams fade, then he’ll give up on growing up. He says that it’s pointless to pretend to be grown up for others, and that if you save it, you lose it. He looks her right in the eyes and tells her, “I love you.”

He covers Ae-ra’s face with kisses, then he yells again, “I love you, Choi Ae-ra!!. That marks the end of this episode.

 

Episode 7 Synopsis and Analysis

Round 7: “Who on earth are you looking at?”

Dong-man walks into Ae-ra’s ward and sees Moo-bin kissing Ae-ra. Dong-man slams the hospital door and leaves the room, then turns back when he calms down. Moo-bin asks if Dong-man likes Ae-ra, who looks desperate for Dong-man’s answer. Dong-man says, “I’m her guardian!”. Ae-ra feels relieved, and meanwhile looks disappointed.

Dong-man tells Ae-ra to keep her distance from Moo-bin, since he knows Moo-bin is a fraud. Ae-ra tells him that as a friend, he should congratulate her instead, because she and Moo-bin are now officially dating.

Ae-ra apologizes to Moo-bin for making that sudden announcement, but Moo-bin says she can’t call it in now, and he asks for those ten dates again.

After Ae-ra says goodbye to Moo-bin, she and Dong-man stop to eat at Coach Hwang’s soondae truck. She confesses she wants someone sweet and forward, and Moo-bin just appears at the right time.

Ae-ra looks into announcing school, where she is told that she should take the premium classes, where one of the teachers is Hye-ran.

After the interview at school, Moo-bin picks up Ae-ra for their first date. He seems to know Hye-ran, so Ae-ra asks Moo-bin if he’s a fan of Hye-ran. Yet he says that Hye-ran is a VIP at his father’s hospital. He then stares at Hye-ran’s face, then says that “it” is healing well while pointing at his own nose.

Dong-man’s enemy, Tak-soo, reads an article from a gossip magazine about the Brazilian jujitsu fighter (the one they hired to fight Dong-man) was recently in Korea. It is speculated that Tak-soo was involved in the Brazilian’s fight with Dong-man.

Tak-soo tells his manager Tae-hee to sue the magazine. But Tae-hee says they can’t sue them when it is the truth, and the best thing to do is to find a bigger story to overshadow this one.

Before their date, Moo-bin stops by his hospital, explaining that the chief director is visiting from Japan so he needs to quickly greet him. She waits inside the hospital, and meets the two guys whose cars she destroyed after the wedding. They offer Ae-ra their apologies, and say that they should make up since they will meet Ae-ra as Moo-bin’s partner at the hospital event tomorrow. Yet, Ae-ra doesn’t know about the event.

That evening, Dong-man helps Coach Hwang with the soondae truck. He calls Ae-ra to ask her where the salt is that he lent her last year as an excuse to interrupt her date.

Ae-ra tells Dong-man that they’re at the drive-in. Dong-man is thinking about all the things couple do at drive-ins that makes him panic. Dong-man looks up drive-ins online and drives to the drive-in using the soondae truck to “rescue” Ae-ra. Yet, Dong-man is spotted by the security guard at the drive-in, allowing Moo-bin to sneak away.

 

Dong-man met Hye-ran on the ride home. She waits outside his building with groceries to cook him dinner. He tells her that he does not like carbonara she’s planning to make—he only ate it because she liked it, emphasizing that there’s a lot she doesn’t know about him.

Moo-bin drops off Ae-ra near her home, and Dong-man watches Moo-bin helps Ae-ra out of the car. Moo-bin presents Ae-ra with a new pair of heels, saying that it symbolizes that they’re officially dating.

Moo-bin angrily tells Dong-man to respect Ae-ra’s boundaries, but Dong-man counters that he’s not just any old guy friend to Ae-ra but her protector.

Moo-bin ignores a call from someone saved in his phone as “Chief,” which Ae-ra notes that he’s done several times tonight. She says he should go if it’s work, and he starts to say something about tomorrow but stops himself.

Later Dong-man sends Ae-ra a text explaining that Hye-ran was waiting for him, anxious for her to understand that he didn’t call Hye-ran first. Ae-ra calls him back to confront him about his weird behavior tonight, but she hangs up when he just rambles.

Another present from Moo-bin with the shoes is a memory book, which is about the cute little stories that happened since they met. Seol-hee says that this is the sort of guy Ae-ra should be dating, a guy who likes her more than she likes him.

 

At work, Joo-man’s boss tells him that the family of a kimchi brand specifically chose him to be their launching manager. He and Seol-hee jump and squeal over his good fortune. Seol-hee is sure that this will mean a promotion if all goes well.

Ae-ra decided to go to Moo-bin’s hospital event. She gets dressed up and wears the heels he bought for her.

 

The woman stomps over to scream at Coach Hwang for setting up his soondae truck in front of her family’s restaurant. She and Dong-man stare at each other, then he suddenly recognizes her—it’s Bo-ram, his old girlfriend and former school beauty, now looking frumpy.

 

Ae-ra arrives at Moo-bin’s event and waits for him outside. She sees him accompanied by a pretty woman. Ae-ra stops him and the other woman asks who she is in Japanese. Moo-bin answers that she’s just a patient of his. Ae-ra sees that the paper in his hand is a wedding invitation—for Moo-bin and this woman.

Moo-bin insists that his feelings for her are real, and that everything he said about her being a goddess was sincere. But he was not planning on calling off the engagement, nor did he have planning on breaking up with Ae-ra, because even after he’s married, he can still focus on her whenever he is in Korea.

 

Moo-bin promises to do everything he can to make her feel like a princess. He says that this is why he asked her to go on ten dates with him, which now feels to Ae-ra like pure manipulation.

Meanwhile, Dong-man and Bo-ram catch up, and she reminds him that she had been dating Moo-bin at that time, since he would become a doctor and she only dates the best. Moo-bin knew that Dong-man had a job pumping gas, so he stopped by his station to show Bo-ram how far the guy she liked in high school had fallen. Bo-ram had realized that Moo-bin was only dating her so he could feel superior to Dong-man.

Moo-bin confesses to Ae-ra that he’s annoyed that Dong-man is always happy even though he has nothing. Ae-ra argues that no matter how Dong-man acts, he’s better than a piece of trash like Moo-bin. She kicks off the shoes he gave her, saying that Cinderella stories aren’t popular anymore, because the world is filled with dumb but hardworking women who can succeed on their own. Ae-ra walks away barefoot, declining a call from Dong-man.

Dong-man races to find Ae-ra, thinking of what Bo-ram told him: that Moo-bin was trash to the end, and even sent her a wedding invitation out of spite. When he finally finds her, he demands that she take him to Moo-bin so he can beat him up. But Ae-ra is exhausted so she asks him to just sit with her.

Dong-man inspects her carefully, making sure that she was not hit, but she says that she just yelled at Moo-bin then left. Dong-asks why she is shivering and upset, then he kicks off his own shoes for her to wear.

 

Ae-ra says that Moo-bin looking down on her doesn’t make her pathetic, as long as she doesn’t think of herself that way. But when Dong-man gets angry again she starts to cry for real.

Dong-man takes off his sweatshirt and covers Ae-ra’s face, which allows her to cry without anyone seeing her. He hugs her to his chest. But she tells him to stop doing things like this. He yells back for her to stop making him angry: “Stop running around and making me crazy! Just stay holed up in your house! Or don’t date any guys!”

She asks him to stay out of her love life, but Dong-man counters that he wouldn’t have to get involved if she didn’t keep messing it up. This episode ends with Ae-ra’s confess.

“I’m saying you make my heart flutter!”

“My heart flutters every time you do that. It flutters—there’s something wrong with me”.

Making us wonder what will happen next.