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Working Class Koreans’ Social Relationships and Personal Development – Fight for My Way

Working Class Koreans’ Social Relationships and Personal Development Fight for My Way

Introduction

After the financial crisis in 1997, the middle class identification declined rapidly in Korea (Nam 2013: 255). The society appears many issues relate with social classes, and class also becomes a main reason to influence Korean people’s daily life. In my paper, I argue that an awareness of class issues and desire to arrest the membership in the middle class guided the social relationships and personal development of Koreans. There is a Korean drama called Fight for My Way, which is directed by Lee Na-jeong, broadcasts through the channel KBS in 2017. I will use this drama as a case to properly explain the Korean social class issues and explain how it might influence the working class Korean people’s lives. Firstly, I think classes obstruct the working class Korean people in their career development and create questions for them to deal with the working unfair treatments, and the combination of dream job and income securities. Then, classes also influence people’s value on the marriage market so leads working class people have disadvantages when they decide to have cross-class marriages. Also some Korean people tend to use marriages as tools to help them receive benefits from their higher class’s spouses because it exists a strong relationship between the social benefits and social classes in the Korean society. Finally, I discuss the friendship would be impossible for Koreans who want to cross their social class status. The moral exclusion and discrimination show in the mind of higher class’s people, and the working class people’s self-respect would hurt in the cross-class social contacts.

The Obstructions in the Career Development:

First of all, social classes create obstructions to working class Korean people in the path of career development and cause many problems for them to deal with the work-place politics. Due to the financial crisis in 1997, the increased competition has made Korean workers change their perception of work to be more realistic on their potential future and working conditions (Kim and Park 2005: 37). In this highly competitive labor market, the working class people who receive less education usually become the losers in the game. Their instable employment and underemployment gradually become one of the main social crises in the contemporary Korean society. In the Korean labor market, the low-educated workers are easily falling into an employment status called irregular workers, which means they are the temporary workers (Hur 2001: 4). Even though having the democratic labor movements happen in today’s Korea, these people still do not receive enough protects on basic labor rights and social wages from the labor union. According to the sociologist scholar Jennifer Jihye Chun, she says, “To demand basic labor protections, many of the irregular workers’ struggles are taking the form of protracted public dramas aimed at reclassifying the employer-employee relationship according to cultural norms, as opposed to legal contractual relations” (2013: 820). Hence, many irregular workers’ unemployment is resulted from the involuntarily dismissal in most cases. In the economist scholar Hur Jai-joon’s research, he indicated that the percentage of unemployed non-regular employees was 78.7 compared with the unemployed wage workers during 1998 to 2000 (2001: 3). Therefore, the instability of work becomes a serious concern for the working class people in the Korean society and sometimes they need to pay more attention on dealing with the employer-employee relationship in workplace because the rate of unemployment tend to be higher than other formal workers.

Some similar existed working problems among the working class Koreans can be seen from the recent Korean drama Fight for My Way as well. In this drama, the two main characters, Choi Ae-ra and Ko Dong-man are both working class Koreans. Both of them have faced failure in their own career fields because of their social classes. The classes make them receive unfair treatments that to compare with their working competitors. For example, between 44 and 50 minutes of episode 3, Ae-ra receives an unfair result during the interview process. In the drama, she has a dream about being a host when she is a child. Then when she is at a working age, she strives for gaining an opportunity to be an announcer in the department store. In this clip, Ae-ra has a competition with another professional graduate who also wants to get the job opportunity but she fails at the end because her competitor has a close relationship with the manager. When Ae-ra knows the result, she asks the manager: “ Since the result is like that, why did you find me at first in the beginning? ” Before the competition, she has already been chosen as the substituted announcer in the department store. However, on the next day, she finds her position is replaced by the other girl so the manager decides to use an interview to solve the conflict. Even though everyone thinks Ae-ra has done a better job than the other girl in the interview, the girl wins the announcer’s position and Ae-ra returns back to her previous position in the department store. Therefore, from Ae-ra’s case, the problem of social class can be reflected in the Korean working places and then to influence the career development of working class people. The unfair working treatments usually happen among the working class people in Korea.

Another example of Ko Dong-man also can show a realistic issue on income security for working class Koreans in the drama. Between 24 and 26 minutes of episode 3, Dong-man tells his coach that he wants to practice boxing again for money. He says: “Having a dream should based on having money and then it is able to express his intention”. From his saying, he worries about his future. He has a dream about boxing and he also realizes the importance of money so he wants to continue his dream with the realistic concern of earning money. The job security and income level are the most important issues in choosing job especially for the relatively lower education workers (Kim and Park 2005: 47). Between the dream and the realistic needs, he chooses the second one at the beginning. He is sensible to share the family’s responsibility from having a stable income. Due to his working class’s status, it brings limitations to his career path so he needs to make a choice between the dream and the reality of having job securities. Hence, from Dong-man’s example, it shows the income security becomes a conflict for working class Koreans to pursue their dream careers.

Overall, the class differences can lead working class people lose job opportunities to present their talents. The sociologist scholar Nam Eunyoung says, “After the financial crisis in 1997, the middle class identification declined rapidly in Korea. Many non-regular workers had to work in unstable, low-paid and poor working conditions without proper fringe benefits and insurance ” (2013: 255). The labor unions are not also enough effective to improve the economic and social status of these workers in the companies (Shin 2013: 222). Based on these general working conditions, working class Koreans are difficult to match their dream with the actual careers’ situation. They need consider the job and income securities as their first priority. As non-regular workers, they are easier to receive worse working conditions than the other workers and get depressed from achieving the dreams. The examples can show in the drama Fight for My Way: managers would firstly consider the benefits of employees who have special relationship with the firm’s director in the Ae-ra’s case; and Dong-man has to give up his boxing dream to exchange income security. The unfair treatments that are based on different social classes exist in the Korean working environment. Thus, this trouble environment can form a cultural norm in the Korean society so these working class people are hurt from the general acceptance. Their underemployment shows the unfair treatments in the Korean labor market, and the working environment is also harsh for them. I think the drama Fight for My Way successfully brings out this social issue on the working class people’s career development, but creates a positive intention that to encourage more of them to cross the obstructions to pursue their dreams even though the reality is harsh, particularly both Ae-ra and Dong-man have achieved their career’s dreams at the end of drama.

The Obstructions in the Marriage Market:

Moreover, classes influence people’s value on the marriage market as well. Korean traditional values can be reflected from the culture of arranged marriage, and to show a high degree of authoritarianism in the Korean society (Peterson et al 2011: 623). Korea has ancient traditions on marriage, which means the parents would arrange marriage for their sons and daughters.  When they choose a potential candidate, they will look at the person’s economic, educational, family and regional background to match with their children suitably (Ibid.). Thus, the parents’ expectations represent the quality of their children’s marriage in this arranged marriage custom. Then the tradition may also help to “identify the relative standing of both families within a social class hierarchy” (Ibid., 628). In the arranged marriage, social class is a very significant element to evaluate people’s marriage in Korea. People who come from different social classes are not expected to get married by their parents so class can be seen as the standard of marriage in Korea. In today’s Korean society, this type of expectations continually exists in people’s mind as well especially for Korean parents. They wish their children to find spouses based on the similar family background. For the Korean youths particularly who are in the working class, if they want to change their status of class, they would tend to find higher class’s spouses who can bring potential material benefits to them, so class is also important in their rule of having marriage. Hence, social class has a great impact in the marriage market in Korea.

In the drama Fight for My Way, class difference also creates troubles in the Ae-ra’s loving relationship and the relationship between the couple of Kim Joo-man and Baek Seol-hee. For example, in the episode 7’s clip between 47 and 50 minutes, Ae-ra breaks up her dating relationship with Moo-bin because Moo-bin lies to her about his Japanese fiancée. Ae-ra comes to see Moo-bin at his workplace, which is a hospital, but she unexpected sees he stays with his Japanese fiancée in front of the hospital. Moo-bin explains he will get married soon with this girl who is his director’s daughter. He tells he still loves Ae-ra and he can provide money to her for keeping their relationship in future. He says to Ae-ra, “You’re more humorous, courageous and having a beautiful face like a goddess. You are my 100% ideal person”. Moo-bin likes Ae-ra because of her beauty and cheerful disposition, but his love is selfish and does not exceed his desire on the future job’s standing. He wants to use a utilized marriage to help him reach a better position of job so he does not enjoy in this relationship with his fiancée. He knows Ae-ra’s social class cannot exchange benefits to him except for the happiness. Thus, the conflict results Ae-ra is hurt in this loving relationship, and it explains the class’s influence in the Korean marriage market.

Then also, in the loving relationship between Kim Joo-man and Baek Seol-hee, the two people have experienced some conflicts with their parents because of the class difference. In the episode 6, when Joo-man firstly brings Seol-hee to his home, his mother and sister dislike Seol-hee because they look down on her background. His mother uses the mother-in-law’s authority to manipulate Seol-hee to do the housework in the relative’s party. While Seol-hee’s mother sees her daughter’s struggle, she really pisses her off. Thus, when Joo-man comes to visit Seol-hee’s family later, the parents want him to take seriously with their daughter, and tell Seol-hee not to depreciate herself just because of the income differences. From the conflict between the parents and their children, it reflects the influence of class difference on the marriage’s expectations, especially for the elder Korean generations. They value more on the equality of social class in their children’s marriages.

Generally from the examples in the Korean drama, people can know the importance of social class in the Koreans’ marriage relationship. Viewing television can correlate with the ability of knowing the social reality (Jin and Jeong 2010: 21). Hence, within the highly competitive working environment, utilized marriage may become another social norm in the Korean society through reflecting from the recent Korean dramas. People begin to accept to use marriage to seek benefits and use wealth to set their standard that can benefit to their future development. Then the reason behinds this phenomenon is that the social benefits heavily rely on the social classes to obtain in the Korean society. For working class people, they are the disadvantaged group in the marriage market because they lack good resources such as wealth to highlight themselves. If in a worse situation, they will fall into a single-person household. There is a rapid growth on single-person households in Korea, and it becomes the main reason to cause these people’s depression and suicide because of the loneliness and old-age poverty (Lee 2013: 12). Thus, the social class may result a life suffering for the lower class Koreans if they do not receive good quality’s marriages. Then also the class disadvantage is easily to cause issues for couples to meet their parents’ expectations before getting married. Particularly, the traditional dominance of husband’s side in the household provides authority to the mother-in-law so it would more often to cause problems to deal with the relationship with their lower-class’s daughter-in-law in families, like the Joo-man and Seol-hee’s relationship with their parents in the drama. Elder generations think highly on the equality of social classes for bringing benefits in their children’s marriages, and this is also a continued traditional value in Korea. Thus, it causes the troubles in the cross-class Korean people’s marriage. In the sociologist scholar Kim Seungkwon’s research, the finding shows that “among dual-earner families, the proportion of cross-class families is higher in Korea than in the United States, Sweden, Britain and Australia” (1997: 130). Cross-class families become more usually to appear in the Korean society so it could mean the conflicts between elder and younger generations that are easier to occur in the cross-class marriages due to their different expectations. Therefore, working class people receive disadvantages not only when they choose partners in the marriage market, but also when they choose to marry with cross-class spouses.

The Obstructions to Receive Cross-class Friendships:

Additionally, friendship would be impossible for Koreans who want to cross their social class status. People would feel more comfortable when they have social contacts with the people who have similar social background. Sociologist scholars Stephen J. Frenkel and Lee Byoung-hoon argue that “contract workers’ relations with regular workers are characterized by moral exclusion, implying discrimination and domination” (2004: 509). In the working companies, this special relationship can link with the work-place politics. The difference between the contract workers and the regular workers is social class difference. Hence, due to this example, we can reflect there is a moral exclusion and discrimination exists in the different classes so leads people cannot receive cross-class friendships.

In the drama Fight for My Way, the moral exclusion can be seen from the Ae-ra’s and Dong-man’s social relationships with their classmates. In the episode 2, Ae-ra is invited to attend her friend’s wedding ceremony but there is an embarrassing moment when she hears the talking among her previous classmates. The marriage ceremony arouses many Ae-ra’s classmates’ admiration because the bride marries to a doctor and receives happiness from the good marriage. While when they turn to talk about Ae-ra, the hard living situation makes them feel pitiful to her so injures the Ae-ra’s self-respect. In this scene, viewers can see Korean people’s different attitudes to the different social classes’ people, so reflects on the moral exclusion in the Korean society. Ae-ra lives as a working class Korean but her classmates would classify her as a life’s loser. Her classmates think she achieves nothing, while the bride can marry with a successful man to receive a better life so becomes her own success in the marriage. Class and wealth are the standards for people to determine one’s success. Hence, higher class people tend to ostracize the relationships with lower class people in order to show their dominant positions and their status’s difference. Then the lower class people would feel their self-respect is lost during they contact with the higher class people so they also avoid this situation happens. Therefore, the class difference can cause a moral exclusion among people, and the fewer contracts reduce the possibilities in the cross-class friendships as well.

Also from the unfriendly relationship between Dong-man and Moo-bin, the social class’s discrimination is reflected in the drama. Moo-bin starts to dislike Dong-man when they are the classmates at the high school. Then the despised relationship continues exist when they meet again in fewer years later. Moo-bin becomes a doctor so he has a higher social class than Dong-man. In the episode 2, Moo-bin is not willing to recognize Dong-man when they have an unexpected meet in outside. While his strange behavior is explained when he talks with Ae-ra in the episode 7. Moo-bin tells Ae-ra he is annoyed Dong-man can always feel happy even though he has nothing. Hence, Moo-bin has discrimination on Dong-man because they are in different social classes. The discrimination would transfer to a jealousy when he finds Dong-man lives happier than him. In his mind, only higher-class people can receive happiness because they are dominant over the working class people in society. He looks down on Dong-man so the discrimination makes him wants to keep a distance from Dong-man. Hence, even if they are high school classmates, the social class’s discrimination makes there is no friendship between them.

From the above two examples in the drama, they present the cross-class friendships are difficult to have in the Korean society. Working class people usually receive moral exclusion and discrimination from higher social class people. In the society, higher class Koreans tend to use a despised attitude to deal with the relationships with lower class people because they want to make clear distinctions with them. During the contact, these unfriendly speaking and behaviors can injure the lower class people’s self-respect. In the social events, lower class people’s identities can be separated from others through people’s talking so they also try to avoid hurt from the less cross-class connections. This is an unhealthy circle for working class people. The moral exclusion and discrimination can bring a worse situation for them to live in society such as the issue of mental health. The living pressure plus the unfriendly social relationship environment can easily cause mental health problems for the working class people. Therefore, the social class plays an important role in the contemporary Koreans’ social relationships, and results a cross-class friendship’s trouble for the working class people in Korea.

Conclusion 

Through discussing the characters’ cases in the drama Fight for My Way (2017), the working class Korean people’s lives can be presented. The drama leads more people understand the class issues in the contemporary Korean society. The main characters come from the working class’s status so they have to face many troubles that relate with their career, marriage and social relationships. From their examples, the general recent social issues on class in Korea can be reflected. Therefore, I firstly argue classes can obstruct the working class people in their career development and cause problems on their working unfair treatments, and finding a balance between the dream job and income securities. Secondly, I think classes influence people’s value on the marriage expectations. It makes working class people receive disadvantages in the marriage market and when they have the cross-class marriages. Marriage also can become a tool to help people receive benefits from their higher class’s spouses due to the strong relationship between the social benefits and social classes in the Korean society. Finally, I argue that it is impossible for Koreans who want to cross their social class status to receive friendships because of the moral exclusion and discrimination, so working class people’s self-respect is hurt during the contacts with higher-class people.

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Episode 13 Synopsis and Analysis

Dong-man tells Ae-ra he wants to have a competition with Tak-soo but Ae-ra disagrees with his decision because she worries Dong-man would be hurt in this fight. While Dong-man does not want to escape at this time and he wishes Ae-ra can trust him.

In Dong-man’s home, Ae-ra complains Dong-man still likes to answer her back like they’re in the past, and has no change after they fall in love. Ae-ra tells Dong-man he still needs to listen to her in their relationship. Then Dong-man kisses her.

Seol-hee tells Joo-man she decides to live in another place and also will find another company to work.

Joo-man’s mother comes to Joo-man’s house at the morning. Seol-hee’s mother also comes to Seol-hee’s home. The two mothers meet in front of the Seol-hee’s house and Joo-man directly tells he has broken up with Seol-hee. After knowing the surprising news, Joo-man tells her mother that he does not want Seol-hee to live in a rent house with him if they get married.

When Dong-man and Ae-ra comes out from Dong-man’s house, they meet Hwang Bok-hee and help her go into the house because she looks tired. Ae-ra finds a kid looks like the child Dong-man in one picture. Seol-hee’s mother also feels surprised about seeing Bok-hee and Dong-man’s father later knows it surprisingly as well.

After Joo-man breaking up with Seol-hee, his life is disrupted. While, Seol-hee is getting a nail salon and she wants to have a new beginning. Joo-man feels lost.   He eats a meal with Ye-jin but he directly says he cannot date with her. The reason he cares her is she has similarity with Seol-hee but it still cannot replace the position of Seol-hee.

Dong-man receives training from a famous Brazilian coach. Ae-ra still worries Dong-man’s competition but Dong-man insists to do.

Seol-hee decides to move so Joo-man helps her to pack her luggage. During the process, Joo-man recalls all his memory with Seol-hee and cries sadly. Then he comes to find Seol-hee and tells he wants to have a better life with her.

Bok-hee sees the pictures alone at home. Ae-ra’s father and Dong-man’s father come and make Bok-hee is surprised. Later Ae-ra and Dong-man also come to send some food so the two fathers choose to hide together. Dong-man thinks there is a thief in Bok-hee’s house so he is helping to catch the thief…

Episode 10 Analysis and Synopsis

In the Ae-ra’s room, Ae-ra and Dong-man sleep together on the same bed. Ae-ra strokes Dong-man’s face and finds Dong-man is so handsome that she is attracted. While she doesn’t know Dong-man is just pretending to be asleep. After Ae-ra closing her eye to sleep, Dong-man kisses her forehead and enjoys the beautiful night.

In the morning, Ae-ra surprisingly finds she sleeps with Dong-man on the same bed, and she feels shy when she sees Dong-man does not wear a shirt. Then they hear someone is knocking the door and Dong-man guesses the person should be his coach.

 

 

 

When Dong-man opens the door, he looks surprised to see Ae-ra’s father. At half an hour ago, Ae-ra’s father came to see his daughter so Dong-man’s coach brings him to the hotel. Unexpectedly, he knows Ae-ra and Dong-man stays in a room for one night. All people look embarrassed at the moment. Then Ae-ra’s father let Done-man close the door. He blames for Dong-man’s fault and he beats Dong-man by using the hanger to show his angry.

Seol-hee finally brings Joo-man to visit her parents. Seol-hee’s mother gives a gift of gold to her daughter and wants Seol-hee to consider more on her own. Then Seol-hee’s father tells Joo-man that Seol-hee is his beloved daughter in the family and let Joo-man to treat her well.

Joo-man and Seol-hee come to join a classmates’ meal because one of their classmates will be married soon. When Joo-man hears this classmate has become an office’s director, he feels depressed. After the meal, Seol-hee tries to comfort him and says she just wants to have an ordinary life. However, Joo-man is not willing to have because he also wants to have some achievements that can share to others. So, Seol-hee notices Joo-man has started to change.

Ae-ra introduces her MC show to her father and meets Dong-man’s PD friend Kyung-ku at the site. Before the show, Ae-ra asks Dong-man whether they are in a shady relation, which means they are not only friends right now. Dong-man smiles but does not answer.

While during the dress rehearsal, Hye-ran comes and takes Ae-ra’s job opportunity to become the MC for that show because she does not want Ae-ra to have success. Hence, Ae-ra is angry and pulls her father to leave the stage. Ae-ra thinks she loses face but her father tells she can have more chances to stand on larger stage in future. After receiving encouragement, Ae-ra decides to come back in Seoul.

In the Joo-man and Seol-hee’s home, Seol-hee is eating Ramen. Joo-man receives a text message from Ye-jin, which indicates she is drunk and sitting at a chair in outside. Joo-man decides to go and tells Seol-hee he just meets with friends. Actually, Seol-hee knows Joo-man might to see Ye-jin so she secretly follows him to go. Joo-man helps to patch Ye-jin’s dress. Ye-jin tells that she really likes him and then Joo-man uses his cloth to wipe her tears. These are all seen by Seol-hee.

Kyung-ku wants to talk with Ae-ra but Ae-ra finds he is tracing her. Then she tells him she does not want to see him again. Kyung-ku explains he is changed and not willing to be a weak person anymore.

Ye-jin takes a taxi to go home but Seol-hee stops her because she decides to talk with her alone. Seol-hee wants Ye-jin stop to contact with Joo-man so not to waver him. While she refuses and says she will continue the contact until Joo-man is totally attracted by her. Afterwards Seol-hee feels sad and starts to cry in outside. Then she recalls the past memory of Joo-man. When she returns at home, she lies down on the bed and hugs with Joo-man to sleep.

Hye-ran and Dong-man sit at a table and have a talk. Then Hye-ran suddenly gives a hug to Dong-man on purpose when she sees Ae-ra stands near them. While when Dong-man sees Ae-ra, he stops Ae-ra’s leaving and kisses her. He tells Ae-ra he cannot let her go anymore and wants her to date with him now. Ae-ra agrees so Dong-man kisses her again…

Episode 2 Synopsis and Analysis

Synopsis – Daisy Zhu

Time was backing to 1993, Ko Dong-man, Choi Ae-ra and Baek Seol-hee were the three kids often played games together, and they pretended themselves as a family. Choi Ae-ra played a role as an announcer and Ko Dong-man played a role as a tae kwon do athlete but once Ko Dong-man made Baek Seol-hee cried, Choi Ae-ra could also beat him to cry.

Time returns to 2017, Choi Ae-ra asks Ko Dong-man for help to throw the garbage in the morning that she can wear a nice suit to join a wedding. Then for Kim Joo-man, he has made great contribution to his company but does not receive enough bonuses from his superior. However, he is surprised that he received two movie tickets. Then he and his girlfriend Baek Seol-hee go into an elevator quietly. From the talking, Kim Joo-man found the movie tickets were not given by his girlfriend but from another his colleague.

Later Choi Ae-ra comes to join her classmate’s wedding but her other classmates think she is a life loser so her feels injured. While when she is invited to pretend to play as one famous host for that wedding, she received many people’s admiring glances. After the wedding, Ae-ra knows that there are several wealthy men taking her as a wager so she cries and even smashes those men’ cars. Thus it directly results one man be angry and beats at her. However at this time,  Ko Dong-man saw it so Dong-man also beats back to the man. At the end, when Ko Dong-man and Choi Ae-ra recall their past childhood memory, they encourage each other and Ae-ra also encourages Dong-man to continue his practice on tae kwon do…

 

Ep 2 Discussion: Wedding Party in South Korea – Nicole Chan

As EP 2 devotes quite a lot time to Chan-sook’s wedding, we are going to dig into the culture of South Korean’s wedding party. Chan-sook’s wedding shown in the drama is a modern wedding party. Comparing to traditional wedding (hollye), modern ones do not pay as much attention to Confucian value. Brides wear wedding dress rather than a set of Hanbok, which includes a long-sleeve jacket (jeogori), a dress (chima) and a norigae (a decoration tied to the dress). While grooms suit up rather than wearing a loose-sleeve jeogori, trousers and an overcoat. In a modern wedding, marriage ritual is also much simplified when compared to a traditional wedding ceremony, which centers on Confucian values and involves a large amount of time preparing for both the pre-ceremony and the official ceremony.

The modern wedding party (kyeolhon piroyeon) is often a blend of traditional Korean and western culture. For instance, during Chan-sook’s wedding, a dance and sing performance by the groom’s granny is presented. A performance by someone who is a close friend or relative of the couple, or the couple themselves is usually program in a traditional wedding party. Performances by the couple, for example dancing, singing or playing a musical instrument can be a way to show how well their parents have brought them up.

 

 Ep 2 Discussion – Yang Li

 In episode 2, we can see both Ko Dong-man and Choi Ae-ra were single-minded of their dreams when they faced the struggles in lives.

 The beginning of this episode, the dialogue between three kids, indicated some political nationalism and sports nationalism. Choi Ae-ra imitated the TV announcer mentioned some words like Kim Jong II, Bill Clinton, missile. The kids don’t even understand who those people are, but what they said tells us what they heard, and what the kids heard tells us the political nationalism in South Korea back then. The imitation told us the relationship between South Korea and North Korea, and the relationship between South Korea and America. Also, the taekwondo that Ko Dong-man mentioned also indicated the sports nationalism. In South Korea, the sports like golf, taekwondo, archery, and soccer are used to establish the sports nationalism in the country; people can feel the national pride by watching those sports.

 There are two details in episode 2 indicates the relationship between superior and subordinate in Korea, one is Kim Joo-man and his supervisor, 300 million sales, and 300 K bonus. Another one is Ko Dong-man and his supervisor. The machine. Those details are struggles in their real lives, also was a contrast of their dreams

 The housing price that Ko Dong-man answered in the TV show reminds me the house price in Vancouver.

The wedding ceremony is the main body of episode 2. The microphone and the formal dress allow Choi Ae-ra to “achieve” her dream. And also, Ko Dong-man shows us his fly kicking when he protected Ae-ra. It seems like the dreams are so close to them when we see Choi Ae-ra became the host of the wedding ceremony and Dong-man proved he still has it. But the truth is, the dreams are so far away from them. Ae-ra’s chance of being the host is because the real Cindy wasn’t able to come. And the fly kicking was not be used in the game. However, our main characters still have the positive attitude towards their struggles in lives, which give the audience some positive energy.

 

Episode 2 – Discussion, Yoo Jung Kim

In the second episode of “Fight for My Way”, it showed about Korean hierarchical (class) society. At the beginning of the episode, Ko Dong-Man was scolded by his boss for not cleaning the motor. But the person who did not clean the motor was Ko Dong-Man’s senior. Ko Dong-Man’s senior is older than Ko Dong-Man. The older age in Korean society shows that older people are above the younger ones. So older person usually thinks he can control a person younger than himself. These things are strongly applied among men, and in the army. Ko Dong-Man asks his senior why he did not tell the truth. But senior get angry with Ko Dong-Man and asks him, whether he did not learn about hierarchical (class) society at the military. Other character, Choi Ae-Ra was invited to her friends wedding. At the wedding, Choi Ae-Ra met old friends. They all had a better job, home environment, and boyfriend than Choi Ae-Ra. So they thought that they were better than Choi Ae-Ra and looked down on Choi Ae-Ra. And there were three men who thought Choi Ae-Ra was an announcer, but they acted differently when they found out that she was not an announcer. They expressed Choi Ae-Ra as a masterpiece and gold when they thought that Choi Ae-Ra was an announcer. But when they realized that she was not an announcer, they called Choi Ae-Ra a Cinderella, a gold digger, and a fake. And when they thought Choi Ae-Ra was an announcer, they were really nice gentlemen, but after they realized she was not an announcer, they turned into a really bad person who slaps women. This episode shows bad side of Korean society. Not all Korean are like those people I mentioned in drama. But they are still many people who think and act like those people in the drama “Fight for My Way”.

 

The DPRK – Lisa Wu

At the beginning of the show, the drama showed the childhood of Ae-ra, Dong-man, and Seol-hee. When they were engaging in pretend play, Ae-ra started to announce News about North Korea’s Kim II Sung’s decision to withdraw from the Neo-proliferation Treaty. This was a shocking news that alarmed not only South Korea but also US and many other countries. Such event became a milestone that help the drama to demonstrate the time of their childhood. Moreover, since the news was imitated by Ae-ra when she was a kid, it also gave audiences who are not familiar with this event a impression of how influential this event are.

Mothers-in-law/Daughters-in-law relationship – Lisa Wu

The drama also expressed the MIL/DIL relationship between Ae-ra’s friend Park Chan-sook and her mother-in-law in her friend’s wedding party. Park’s mother-in-law was constantly judging her from the first appearance in the show. Her Mother-in-law criticized her due to the facts that she had to host her own wedding for a few minutes because of the delay of her Hongkong MC friend’s flight and her performance of a sad song on the stage. As Tilland stated in her article, MIL/DIL relationships are a powerful emotional resonance that stands in for many other types of difficult emotional work in families in South Korea, which might be why the scriptwriter stated such specific scene in the show.

References:

Tilland, Bonnie. “Family is Beautiful: The Affective Weight of Mothers-in-Law in Family Talk in South Korea.” Journal of Korean Studies, No.1 (2016): 213-244.

“North Korea in 1993.” Encyclopedia Britannica. https://www.britannica.com/place/North-Korea-Year-In-Review-1993 (Access Sept.23, 2017)

 

Money and class – Jenny Zhang

In episode 2, Ae-ra went to her friend’s wedding ceremony and was asked to be the announcer of her wedding to take the place of the one who was not able to come. It was quite embarrassing at first when she saw all of her old friends had a better job and lived with a better life. The low social status hindered her being part of the membership, which makes her feel uncomfortable. Though she pretended to be indifferent and try to make conversation with them, it is clear that getting into the environment is hard for her. She can not hide her resentment of her friends’ sneer and she knew that she was not part of the one. When she decided to leave, her friend asked her to stay and be the announcer of the wedding. That was a big change of her after she walked onto the stage that she became confident and attractive. She was asked to act as a highly educated woman with international background who was very famous in Hong Kong. Because of that, people started to respected her. Men started taking to her and attracted by her charm. However, after they knew that she was not the announcer, they changed attitude and humiliated her. This shows the hidden dark side of Korea, which treat differently with people of different social and money classes. However, not only Korea, but also other countries have the same attitude as Koreans do— the ones with higher social status gains more respect and attention.