Sex Abuse is Power Abuse

I have a very systematic and habitual way of getting ready in the morning. One such aspect is a sit down breakfast while I watch the news with a cup of coffee. Recently, I’ve spent my mornings watching various news channels like CNN, the Today Show, and ESPN all discuss the evolving stories of sexual abuse in the realm of sport coaches. Two main stories focus on Jerry Sandusky of Pennsylvania State and Bernie Fine of Syracuse University. These stories help reveal that power tactics, power abuse, and other forms of power are prominent not only in the actions of the accused coaches, but in the media as well.

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The main focus in the news today was placed on the Bernie Fine accusations put forward by a former player, Bobby Davis. Davis claims that “Fine molested him ‘hundreds of times’ over the course of 16 years, starting from when he was in the fifth or sixth grade.” According to the article, following the sex scandal eruption at Penn State, more victims pertaining to the Bernie Fine accusations felt it was time to come forward. These stories have swept the media by storm, have sickened many, destroyed reputations, and potentially harmed the lives of many young boys. I believe that a true understanding of the abuse of influence and power of these coaches will help deter these instances from happening in the future.

One component to be examined is the stereotypes that play a prominent role in the way these stories develop. Coaches are typically seen as people giving back to their communities, helping students and children excel and learn lifelong lessons through the impacts of sport. To many, it is not only shocking, but boarder line absurd to accuse coaches, like Bernie Fine of such an act. He has been with the Orangemen for 36 years and even Fine’s biography on the Syracuse webpage noted that Fine was “an active member of the Syracuse community.”

These stereotypes not only influence how we would interact with these prominent figures in society, but also how impressions are formed when people with a typically positive stereotype are portrayed in such an offensive manner. This action speaks to our tendencies to ignore disconfirming evidence.

Beyond just the stereotypes that are innate to our culture, the influence possessed by Bernie Fine is, in fact troubling. As CNN newsman Anderson Cooper describes; Bernie Fine and his wife Laurie were like a family to Bobby Davis who did not have a very good home life. Laurie even stated that she was the Mother that Bobby never had. These points provide evidence that some of Cialdini’s influence principles are evident in this case. For example, reciprocity is present in the fact that Bobby may have felt an obligation to his lifelong coach and second family. As well, all the evidence put forward shows that Bernie most likely used liking tactics to influence his victims. Not only were the victims young, but most looked up to and respected this long time coach who was well liked and respected in the community. And lastly, it is clear that Bernie Fine uses authority as another tactic for influence because he is the coach and these boys were his players which creates a relationship comparable to a boss and an employee. In other words, Fine had a position of power and in sexual abuse cases the connection between the victim and the abuser is such that there’s an extraordinary devotion to the abuser. These principles of liking, authority and reciprocity are set out in Cialdini’s article titled Harnessing the Science of Persuasion. A line at the beginning of the article really stands out to me. It is stated that persuaders “way with people is an art.” In the context of Bernie Fine, this art is obviously not art at all, but he was still be able to harness the principles of influence to pray on his victims, assuming the allegations are true.

In comparison to The Bases of Social Power discussed by French and Raven, I note that Bernie Fine undoubtedly possesses a few of these foundations. One example would be coercive power in the sense that he can use that source of power to bench players that did not do what he asked of them. There is also a reward power associated with Bernie’s ability to offer extra praise and playing time to players who complied with his demands. In these instances there would be the inclusion of negative valences which adds the component of punishment to the game of power. Although these bases of power exist, I do not believe that it would be beneficial for Bernie Fine or any accused sex offenders to abuse or use them on potential victims. This would create a threat of pent up anger or resentment in the victim’s minds and would lead to a higher chance of the victims coming forward with their stories. It is a well-known fact that the people who are most likely to sexually abuse someone are often the closest people to those victims. Under these clues, it is vital to reveal and educate people on such tactics so as awareness increases, the likelihood of such scandals will decrease.

The sex scandals that have recently surfaced in the media have helped portray the unethical abuse of power in such highly regarded positions.  Coaches are often considered mentors, developers, and prominent figures in their communities. I also believe that the scandal surrounding Bernie Fine would not have surfaced if it was not able to piggy back off the Penn State scandal. This idea brings to light two points. One is that those with less power can gain power by acting together in a manner conducive to achieving a common goal. Second, the influence of the media to fuel these stories and the related investigations without police involvement shows the undeniable power the media has. Particularly, CNN and ESPN have the established credibility to promote these stories and bring to light the horrifying outcomes for many victims. Even though Bernie Fine’s allegations have not yet been proven, the story is quickly developing and evolving. I believe that in a few days’ time there will be a more definitive story pieced together and with that the power abuse and tactics will be exposed to ensure safety for children in the future.

If you are interested in additional background on the issue please feel free to check out this video:

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My Top 10 Favourite Swims!

Today was a beautiful day in Vancouver. Clean. Crisp. Cool.
I love when summer fades into fall, but it also offers up a time to reminisce on
my fun summer memories. I started to day dream about swimming, which is
definitely one of my favourite summer activities. I was really fortunate this
past summer to be able to spend a few weeks at home in the beautiful Finger
Lakes region of upstate New York. I got to enjoy the amazingness of Canandaigua
Lake which means “the chosen spot” and is believed to be the birthplace of the
Seneca Nations Tribes. Although there was technically an earthquake and hurricane Irene all in the short
time span I was home, I got plenty of swimming in and have listed my top 10
favourite swims. Are yours the same?

10. Coming in at a solid 10 is the first jump off the dock.
For me, I had just spent 3 months in South Africa so that first run, jump, and
splash was amazing.

9. You know when you’re working and you can’t enjoy the
lake? Then you finally finish a long day and can transition into relaxation
time by taking a dip. #win

8. The adventurous swim. A storm is coming in so the winds
are picking up and before you know it you have to jump into the water to save
your life jackets, tube, kayak or what have you. It’s definitely a thrill!

7. The water fight. All your friends are horsing around,
having fun and someone finally gets thrown in. Result = everyone dying of
laughter.

6. The unpredictable bonfire swim. After getting a good
crowd of friends out on a nice, calm summer evening a bonfire is the natural
way to go. The fire itself makes it so hot that a swim is a great intermission
to the festivities.

5. Number 5 is definitely when you finish a good water skiing
run and you’re tired. Cutting across the wake, being pulled at 20+ mph
certainly tuckers me out. I love just floating in my life jacket while the boat
swings around to pick me up.

4. You’re sweaty. Whether you’ve just had an awesome soccer
practice, gone for a hike, or finish some grueling yard work. All you have to
do is kick off your sneakers and take the plunge. For some reason there is
something so satisfying about swimming in your clothes.

3. The calm before a storm. I know here on the West coast
there are not a ton of thunder and lightning storms, but anyone on the East
coast can attest to the magnificent storms we get in the summer months. You can
tell their coming a mile away and if you’re lucky the lake will get really calm
and the rain will start to fall. That is an amazing time to go swimming because
then you can get out, wrap up in a big towel and watch the storm come down the
lake while sitting on the porch.

2. Skinny dipping! (Enough said)

1. My all-time favourite type of swim is right before bed,
right before I go back to school and right when the stars have fully come out
for the night. You honestly feel like you’re the only person in the entire lake
and who doesn’t think stargazing from the water is way better than stargazing on
land?

 

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Kruger Visit 2.0

This post is for 2 weekends ago which was a total blast!

First I saw the land between Namagkale (where we work) and Phalaborwa (where we live) light up in flames on the way home from work. Literally, smoke everywhere and no one seemed to worry in the slightest! I was about to go out there by myself with a few buckets of water when I was told it was just natural fire that just burns the dead grass.

Unfortunately, this experience made me feel that all fire was okay…until I realized the fire burning next to our house was not okay. It was a bit of an adventure as the kids and our host mother tried to reach the hose from one side of the yard to the other in order to put out the flames. We later learned that they were clearing the field beside the house but it was left unattended and got a bit out of control. In the process of becoming firefighter Vicky, I got shocked. Yes, our entire house is surrounded by electric fencing and I accidentally touched it and jumped back with a little yelp. My host mother’s said “Vicky, that’s high voltage!” and my response was, “trust me…I know.” It was the second time in my life I had been shocked with some force and I wonder if I’ll ever be the same.

The week progressed with the Arc Initiative Workshop which turned out to be a huge success! The delegates had some really great comments regarding the workshop such as “phenomenal,” “interesting” and one gentleman, Herman, claimed that before the workshop he was no one and now he is someone. We also got to meet some amazing people including a Sauder Alumni, Kathleen, who is currently doing her PhD in Durban, Abraham and Salem from Ethiopia, a Senior Accountant at KPMG in Jo’burg, Tumi, and Salina who is a current Sauder student who is doing an accounting internship in Jo’burg. It was a true pleasure to meet all of them and exchange stories while creating the relationships that are so important to the Arc.

We topped off the week with a venture into Kruger. It was AMAZING! We saw so many animals. We also saw an elephant fight and at one point I thought to myself, okay this big guy can either choose to ram into our little car, or hit the other elephant again. Fortunately he chose the latter and we were able to off road in the bushveld to get out of the way. Then, just the same as last year, Jeff got a speeding ticket and hit a guinea fowl…I guess that will have to be a tradition.

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Weekend Adventures

The other day on the way to work we saw basically a herd of baboons crossing the street. That was pretty cool…but not as cool as our 10 hour safari into Kruger 2 weekends ago! It was amazing. Within the first hour, we saw 2 of the big 5, buffalo and LIONS!! Throughout the rest of the day we enjoyed the presence of giraffes, elephants, zebras, more buffalo, impala, tons of birds etc… The experience was certainly memorable as we arrived at the park gate a little after 5AM. The moon and stars were still out as we climbed into our open safari truck and dove under the blankets provided. The cold was something we had only experienced in our previous trip to Swaziland, but not here in the “town of two summers.” Not only did we start off with some serious action (aka buffalo’s within the firs kilometre) but we also got to see an amazing sunrise, lions, and elephants all before breakfast. The rest of the day was filled with more animal sightings, finding elephant remains in our off roading expedition, laughing about the elephants 5th leg and enjoying the breeze in our hair. Our hopes that we would spot rhino’s were not realized even though we chanted “RHINO RHINO” roughly 200 times, but at least we’ll have something to look forward to seeing the next time in the park. I’m already excited to go back!

This past weekend we all decided to go for more of a relaxation theme as we, with the help of Jacque, spent the weekend at Eiland which is basically a camp ground with heated pools, beach volley ball, and enough to keep us occupied while we extracted our minds from work for a weekend. It was nice to enjoy the beautiful South African sun, which we don’t get to do during the week because we work during the day and because its winter here, the sun goes down pretty early. Now our next step is to prepare for the conference that will take place next week. Busy, busy times!

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Lack of Learning and Logic

Logic seems like something we’ve taken for granted in North America. Yes, people entering the workforce boast of exceptional logic skills on resumes, but it is never considered something that people simply do not have.

I have been in South Africa for over a month and I have seen how many problems at the economic, business, and functioning level of the community revert back to education, or lack thereof. Even people that have been through to matric, which is the equivalent of graduating high school in Canada, seem to be lacking simple logic which baffles me.

One example would be with the gentleman that offered to drive all the student participants to and from work every day. The set price was 30R for a round trip, paid 2 weeks in advance. Therefore, at the start of each 2 week period we were instructed to pay 300R. Well myself, and Monica started receiving rides home from work from our boss which was a very kind gesture. Therefore, when we went to pay the cab driver we logically only paid him 150R. Most people can deduce that if 30R is the cost of a roundtrip and you are only utilising half of that round trip, then your cost would be 15R. Not here. This gentleman did not logically get the concept of only utilizing half of his services, and paying half. He claimed that we are paying for the service, in its entirety, whether or not we choose to use it. I tried explaining to him the concept of a taxi and if you do not get in and go from point A to point B in the taxi, you do not have to pay for that taxi. Here, I saw a lack of logic.

My next example happened just last week. One of our colleges here in the finance and admin building is working on getting haemoglobin strips for the Phelang Clinic. The first quote she received was 270R a packet, which contained 25 strips. Then the quote changed to 419R a packet, which was reason for concern because of the vast differences in prices. She decided to call the pharmacist who owns the company who would not even give her a quote, claiming that she had to make the order before being given the prices. She explained how this did not make sense because she is not going to commit to buying something before knowing how much it costs. Now only is this another lack of logical thinking, but now this man has lost business and potential recommendations, which again, apparently he doesn`t understand.

Hence, the lack of logic and learning that is more ubiquitous than I first realized.

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Bird Attack

This past weekend the South Africa group met up with the Swaziland group to have our in session workshop. We got to stay at an amazing little lodge right on the boarder of Kruger National Park that has quite the scenic front yard. There is this large deck situated right on the river where we were all able to look out and see elephants drinking from the river, birds flying, hippos living their completely lazy lives and snippets of other animals.

The point of the weekend was to reflect on what we’ve done so far and to design what we plan to do for the rest of the project. As much as I anticipated a weekend of having to talk about my feelings, I actually found it an invaluable component to the experience I’m having. It was good to understand what everyone else was experiencing and how they are overcoming their challenges and celebrating their small victories. The weekend really gave me a regained focus and the confidence to push forward a plan on social media. I know I said “I never thought I’d come to South Africa and work on social media,” but it is something I’m excited to see develop. I also found out I will be observing and evaluating a project that is basically seeing where we can help out at a lodge called Sassavona.

As for the title of this blog, yes, I was attacked by a bird while sitting inside at the Rio Vista Lodge this weekend. I was in an interview with Gina and a bird came, landed on my head, got stuck in my bun and started flapping its wings around and hitting my face with its wing slaps as I rolled around on the coach in a fit of minor horror. Then I almost peed myself laughing.

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Week 1

If you’ve ever stereotyped about South Africa, or drawn up a preconceived picture in your mind of what it might be like, I’ll admit I had done the same. But the first thing I had to do when I got here was throw it away. Now that that has been settled, I’ve been able to start delving into the culture, the people, and the “real Africa” as many have quoted.

My first week in South Africa has been awesome! I’ve seen so many historic things in Soweto and Jo’burg including the Apartheid Museum, which was incredibly insightful and deep. I saw a young school girl start crying as she looked at some of the more graphic pictures displayed.

Then we voyaged up to Phalaborwa in the Limpopo province where the drive took much longer than anticipated but the unreal music kept the mood excited. The rest of the time here has kind of been a blur…I’ve seen the other student participants a few times and have been spending a lot of time with my host family. Right now I’m hanging out with my little sister, Tebogo and my little brother, Ngwato.

My work placement is still a bit uncertain at the moment, but I know I will be working in the Enterprise and Tourism Department of the Palabora Foundation, which is something I’m really excited about. I’ve been spending the majority of the week out of the office, because my superintendent Mark has insisted on showing Monica and I all the sights around Phalaborwa.

I’ve also seen a ton of animals in our off roading expeditions including elephants, monkeys, wild cows, goats, donkeys, baboons, and so many crazy coloured birds! If that’s what I see just in the streets, I can’t imagine what Kruger will be like!

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Adidas Is All In

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If you haven’t seen this new ad campaign for Adidas, it’s definitely bold. Many ads look to appeal to just one of their target markets at a time. This ad however doesn’t just look to draw attention just from normal athletes, but instead includes people like Katy Perry and skateboarders to call attention to almost any active individual. People undoubtedly have brand associations which are anything that is embedded in a customer’s mind about a particular brand.

The commercial slogan is “Adidas is all in.” This is incredibly powerful because it displays so many different avenues and activities that Adidas can be used in, and deviates from the brand association of just being sports related. Steve Ralph, President of Adidas Canada Ltd explains how the commercial “brings together the diversity of the brand under one strong roof.”

Marketing emphasises the importance of segmenting a company’s market into homogenous groups with the utilization of 4 major bases; geographic, demographic, psychographic, and product related. The idea is to end up with a very detailed and rich complex group. The interesting thing about Adidas and their approach with this “all in” campaign is that their target market is not as detailed as many would argue it should be. In an article through Marketwire, it mentions that Adidas has a “broad consumer group” focusing on consumers from 14-28 years old. I think this very fact in the sense that it is so broadly created is a very unique and risky campaign for Adidas. But that, coupled with the fact that Adidas is so well recognized doesn’t make me think for a second that Adidas won’t reap immense benefit from this bold campaign. It will undoubtedly be exciting to see how it turns out!

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The End- Doritos

Doritos has always been known for funny commercials and new flavours. Their recent marketing campaign has been the production of 2 flavours labelled A and B. Flavour A is Onion Rings N’ Ketchup and is put in a simple white chip bag while flavour B is Buffalo Wings N’ Ranch packaged in a simple black chip bag. The idea of this campaign, which can be seen in this video, is to destroy the weaker flavour. Doritos is using a contest to see who can write the best ending to the story which would depict one of the flavours being destroyed and one of the flavours being victorious. The prizes for the winner are awesome! They will shoot the end of the story, pay the winner $25,000 and 1% of future sales. To dramatise the contest, Doritos states that once one flavour has won, the losing flavour will be swept off all shelves forever.

So I decided for fun to taste each flavour and write my version to the end of the story (trying to follow the blogging formula of “doing”)

‘The 2 Doritos creators go back into their offices and start working away to destroy the other flavour. The maker of the Buffalo Wings N’ Ranch leaves to go home to his beautiful wife Helga, but realizes he forgot to bring her a bag of chips. Knowing how upset Helga gets without her Buffalo Wings N’ Ranch chips, he quickly gallivants back to his office only to find the creator of Onion Rings N’ Ketchup shoving his face full of the Buffalo Wings N’ Ranch chips! He whips out his phone, takes a picture of the event and immediately tweets the image to the mean witch lady making the call. Instantaneously, chip A, the Onion Rings N’ Ketchup is destroyed. ‘

You can vote online for the actual submissions here, but hurry because there is only 1 day left to vote!

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The Blogging Formula

 I’ve really developed a personal interest in blogging, social media and twitter, but unfortunately I’ve hit my first writers block when it comes to blogging. Yes, I’ve blogged about social media and some cool ads that have come up, but I’m uncertain about my blogs effectiveness. I understand that it is a class requirement to write my blog, but I want to continue after the “requirement” stage, and create a personal blog that can strike interest from people that aren’t forced to read my blog for grading purposes.

I fully understand the importance of blogging in the business world, in the marketing world, and even in the personal branding world. So I began to wonder, how can I make my blog better? How can I make it so people actually would come across value in my posts? This self searching led me to a blog post by Tyler Tervooren titled The Better Blogging Formula: Think, Do, Write, which exactly answered my question. It outlines a blogging success formula that emphasises the importance of actually doing what you’re writing about. No one wants to read about a travel blog, until the persons been there, and no one wants to read about a cooking recipe until someone has actually cooked it.

So my goal for next week is to add the doing part into my blogging formula and see how the test run goes…of course I’d love to endorse the Think, Do, Write formula right now, but then it’d be contradictory to the ideology behind it. So I’ll let you know next week once I’ve actually done it!

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