“My parents didn’t have the expectation of us studying to become doctors or lawyers, just a non-labour job (斯文工)…”
Creator:
Samantha Ma 馬煒文
Parents are ultimately humans who are trying their best to do something they have never done before, in a time period that they have never experienced before, within cultural forces that they have never had to understand before. Parents often parent based on how they were parented, meaning that they are often mimicking behaviours that were used in a different time, within different cultural forces. And when these parents are diasporic, these differences in time and culture become even more amplified. Samantha interviews her parents to get a sense of how they lived with their parents, and how they perceived culture to have played in how they were parented. In turn, Samantha explores how those experiences may or may not have affected how her parents parented her, particularly from the perspective of considering the impact of culture. How might parents and children reconcile with each other in terms of coming from vastly different cultural perspectives and assumptions?