remarks on a new year.

Lately everyone has been commenting on the past year. Even Facebook has an “in review” section to remind me of the events.

One thing I have noticed is how many people are saying either “Good riddance, 2013” or “Good luck, 2014”. We as humans, North Americans, First-world inhabitants, see the past year as either a good year or a bad year. One that was difficult or one that was wonderful. There seems to be no in-between.

Why do we do this? Why do we say good riddance? Maybe my life has just never been as difficult or I haven’t had long-suffering in the same way. But I don’t yet understand how, out of an entire year, the bad can outweigh the good. That seems ludicrous to me.

Maybe it’s just the past few months that people are remembering, and not that awesome trip they took over the summer, or the cooking class they did with their best friend, or the new and wonderful people they met in their classroom in January. Maybe they’re simply looking at the outcome of an event, and not what it taught them or how it brought them closer to the true friends they have.

Maybe it’s just that my positive spirit is overwhelming my perspective. Either way, I don’t get it.

I’m so thankful for this year. I’m thankful for my friends who came over after my birthday party in January and ate McDonalds with me. I’m never going to forget my road trip with Betty in February. I am always going to have my Fame-ily, which performed beautifully in March. I survived the tears of April because of the most amazing small team anyone could ask for (FSQUARED4EVA!). I met two of my favourite people by absolute fluke in May. I’m blessed with being able to read kids books for my degree in June. I was able to enjoy the sunshine in July. I ran my first, but not last, half marathon in August. September brought Sunshine Manor and it’s pretty ladies together. October was the beginning of literary shirts at Koerner’s pub. I was hit with the biggest struggle of my life thus far in November, which forced me to reflect and choose who to keep close. I have enjoyed a restful and continuously reflective December.

I’m thankful for 2013. It forced me to evolve, it shaped me and reminded me of my core truth and purpose in life. With all that to say, I welcome you, 2014. I’m excited for the adventures you will bring (mainly Australia haha)

From Leo and myself to you. Cheers and have a very safe and happy New Year.

study tips from a seasoned student

hi friends.

Caitlin here. time to dole out my wisdom on the topic of exams. As this is now my 4th year, and 8th exam period, I’ve learned a few things by trial and error. lemme share my findings with you. are you ready? ohk. here we go.

1. sleep: don’t not sleep. there’s really nothing worse you can do for yourself. The day before the day before your exam (so if your exam is Wednesday, we’re talking about Monday) get a solid night sleep and wake up early, say 7am. spend the day on your review session and doing number 4 and 2. then go to bed when you’re tired (probably around 10:43pm if you’re me) and wake up at a time that will give you plenty of time for my day-of check list (at least 1.5 hrs)

2. aaaand BREAK!: yup. this is a common one people forget, or eliminate first when they think they have too much studying to do. this is paramount. take breaks during the day. Sometimes they’re going to be involving number 4, and sometimes they’re going to include writing cards, going shopping, making some treats, knitting (have you caught on that I love to knit yet?), or my favourite option: drinking tea and watching Napoleon Dynamite for the 539th time.

you knock those pins down, Kip. Mmm.

3. but still study: students are usually an either/or between 2 and 3. I try to be a both/and. [note: try is the key word in that sentence]
create a tangible and realistic study goal for each day. Remember to include breaks and social times. also, the day before your exam, plan for that day to be a review day. realistically, something might happen during one of the other days that shifts your studying schedule a bit. it’s all good – as long as you have that review day!
Example: I’m going to read all of Infinite Jest on Dec. 5th. Change it to: I’m going to read pg 1-25o of Infinite Jest on Dec 5th. This will allow for you to have breakfast or coffee with a friend, go for a good walk and won’t make you worry that you’re going to run out of time.

This is what my study plan calendars look like. homemade is best 😉

 

Swing those hips, Richard!

4. sweat like you’re Richard Simmons: don’t forget to sweat. I like to run and do yoga. some like to bike, walk, play a sport, pilates, kick box, swim, go bowling. whatever you’re doing, do it as long as you’re sweating, getting your heart rate nice and elevated and taking time away from studying!

5. don’t touch notes on the day of your exam: while this may be a strange one for you to believe, this can be super detrimental. when you study something, your brain needs some time to properly work through it. it does that when you’re sleeping (hence number 1). Another reason for this nugget of wisdom is that when you study the day of your exam, a problem that happens is that when you begin to look at the exam questions, all you can think about are the last few notes you looked at – the rest of the studying you’ve done is below all the fresh information. you’re already having to write an exam; don’t make it harder on yourself by having to search too hard for info.

 

Now here’s my day-of-exam checklist:

1. did I get enough sleep? (number 1)

2. do I have a healthy and not loud snack? (I like strawberries with a bit of sugar on them, cucumbers, and a small package of sour patch kids with a bottle of water)

3. do I have enough writing utensils? (meaning, more than 2) Do I have my UBC Card with me?

4. do I have time to be active? (i will either go for a short run or go to a yoga class. The classes are best for when I have a later exam)

5. have I eaten anything today? If not, try some oatmeal, eggs with toast, quinoa salad – something filled with nutrients and that will keep you full so you’re not distracted during your exam.

6. have I arrived at my exam room with at least 10 minutes to spare? good, cuz I’ll need to pick a seat where I can see the clock and won’t be distracted by that cute guy/gal sitting in front of me.

7. did i read through the whole exam before starting to answer questions? good thing I didn’t study this morning, or else I’d have to really dig deep to answer half of this exam.

[note: truly there are so many great reasons to read over your whole exam before starting to write. a) sometimes profs will answer a question with a question two pages later. heck yes. b) if you aren’t sure what the question is even saying, you have time to process it while you’re answering other questions. c) if you don’t know how to answer the question on first reading, your brain will start digging around to find out the answer you know is in there d) you know what’s coming next. if you see 6 pages, you may think you have plenty of time on each page. but once you read through the questions, you find out that the last two pages have quite complicated long-answer questions. if you hadn’t read over the whole exam before, you’d get to page 5 with only 40 minutes left. 40 minutes for the hardest part. yikes.]

8. did I read over the exam once i’m done to make sure: a. I didn’t start writing in Greek half way through and b: I answered all the questions?

9. did I thank my prof when I handed in my exam and congratulate myself when i got out by getting a vanilla latte from Great Dane? heck yes i did.

 

Well, good luck on exams. I wish you joy and happiness and love and lots of hair on your head
(cuz you didn’t pull it out… get it?)

love from me and my alter-ego.

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