Disclaimer: As per Genevieve’s advice, today’s theme is kind of just randomness. It’s one of those days when I just don’t really know what to write exactly so I think some free-thinking/writing might just be what the doctor ordered.
It’s kinda weird being back at school again. Don’t get me wrong, or maybe I am the odd ball out, it’s definitely a good weird, but weird just the same. I missed this busy-ness. It’s a whole different kind of busy-ness isn’t it? On one hand our schedules are more free, none of that 9-5 business, we can choose how to fill the majority of our hours (clubs, greek life, fundraising, volunteering, work, … what am I missing? Oh yeah, and study!). This freedom to choose is nice though there is one emotion that all University students ought to take courses on avoiding: Guilt.
Guilt is kind of like the modern day plague isn’t it. With this new, fresh sense of freedom and choice from the daily grind of our summer-jobs, comes the responsibility of study. Yeah, I mean, I COULD go out and have a few drinks with my friends, but am I just going to be stuck thinking about the chapters I could be reading at home? And this isn’t just the case with students; it’s everywhere. The efficient 24-hour day is losing it’s efficiency. Are 30 Hour days the thing of the future? I mean, we can control everything else in this world – why not be able to control daylight? Its the next logical step isn’t it.
Anyways, this guilt is here to stay. I have 2 more years of my Bachelors left and 2 more years for my Masters so I might as well embrace it. On the plus side, I guess it could be classified as a motivator, even if it is a poor one.
My choice? EMBRACE it, like I might a tree in a whimsical moment.
Note to the New Student: I don’t know if you are going to be taking PSYC 100 but psychology is my Major so I am likely to through in little Psych tidbits and morsels but here’s a little food for thought. Focusing on external or extrinsic types of motivation, like marks, grades, money, external validation, etc. are actually VERY poor motivators and can eventually become de-motivators. The more you think about and focus on the reasons why you personally have chosen to attend University, or more specifically, your personal interests in the courses you are taking, the more likely you are to succeed. Trying to remove yourself from the whole idea of grades is actually quite beneficial especially when it is 4AM and you are cramming for an exam. Remember that it was your choice to be where you are and that you love your studies.
PS If you don’t love your studies, I’m sorry to hear that. Its gunna happen from time to time that there are classes that you just don’t click with, but if they are a means to an end to achieving what you want, then that is the intrinsic motivator you can focus on. As for those of you studying what someone else wanted you to, I have my own advice for you but in light of not wanting to offend your parents, I will keep it to myself. 😉