Re-wording Kimmel’s Guyland: Institutionalized Masculinity for a Grade 7 Student

Every Monday morning, I get up early before attending our Sociology seminar class on Student Identity, to volunteer at my elementary school as a teacher’s assistant for my grade 7 teacher. Ever since I had started this volunteering position in October, I have recognized interersting things about the boy students in the class, throughout my two hours spent there.

My experiences in the past two months have been pleasurable and intellectually stimulating, simply by observing the classroom dynamics. During class time, I often witness the boys to be the students who are always tireless, vibrant, and the most spirited. In addition, the majority of the male students would also often raise their hands quickly to respond when the teacher poses a quesiton to the class. Moreover, it is often the boys who volunteer to assist the teacher move boxes around in the kitchen or to help transport some heavy textbooks from the library back to the class.

Moreover, in the two months, I could see the feelings spurring between a female student and a male student. From across the classroom, I can see them eyeing each other while the teacher lectures in front of the classroom. At worktime, as the girl works on her homework, the boy would take glimpses at her numerous times, and once the girl looks over, he quickly retrieves his glance. This would be the same for the girl as well. For instance, there was a time where the boy would get up from his seat to throw out a piece of garbage, the girl would pop her head up, as though she felt his moving presence. I could see that her eyes were following him. But once he turns around and walks back towards his seat, the girl would quickly look back down to her social studies homework. Talk about classroom romance!

From this, it is extremely interesting to me as it relates to Kimmel’s “Guyland” notion of Masculinity. His idea is rooted from the perspective that masculnity is socially constructed. Similar to the boys in the classroom at the elementary school, they reinforce what it “means” to be a “real man”. Clearly, it is suggested through their actions of carrying heavy objects and initiating to help the teacher out. Thus, these characteristics underline the masculine stereotypes: will-power and strength of men and that men are made to be team players. Kimmel describes that Guyland as a period between adolescence and adulthood (16 years old to around mid-20s). However in the case of this, the students are 13 year old gr 7 boys. As a result, Guyland doesn’t appear within a limited timeframe. In reality, it exists prior to 16 years old and is fluid between age groups.

In addtion, what I find also interesting is that there may be an aspect such that the boys in the class are complying to the masculine touches, in order to portray to the ladies that they have what it takes to be “the man”, or to be “manly”. In the case of the crush between the girl and boy, that specific boy more often than not that is the one who would raise his hand up to speak, the one who volunteers to participate in completing math questions on the whiteboard, as well, the one who offers to carry the heavy world atlases from classroom to classroom. Moreover, it is at this point that I recognize that  he is unaware of the implications of following such traits. Because masculinity is socially construcuted and is imposed on him, he does not struggle with his true identity and who he really is in an attempt to make themselves look “masculine” because he only sees manliness as the way to go. In other words, because individuals are born and brought up with the image of masculinity, we do not realize that we are following what society has created. In this case, the male student does what he does without his acknowledgement that he is complying to the social order and therefore, doesn’t realize the struggles of fitting into that category.

In contrary, our belief of masculinity is understood by the ladies as well. From what I see between the classroom lovebirds, I believe that it is due to the boy’s behaviors of masculinity, in which the girl is attracted to. With the boy taking the initiatives to respond to questions and hauling heavy boxes in and out, it shows that he is a team player and that he is powerful. Through this, with the help of social media today that reinforces the image of masculinity, the girl sees his actions as right and fitted, thus, increasing her liking towards him. As we can see, as Kimmel states that Guyland typically occurs at the age of 16, boys in fact adhere to this masculine ideal at an earlier age.

Alternatively, Kimmel raises that men also adhere to the “Bro Code” in which “a man’s ‘brothers’ are his real soul mates, his real life-partners.” In relation to thinking about the male students in the class, they often hang out together as a pack in order to, I would say, to put more emphasis on their “coolness” or tough mascunline traits. With this, it allows them to impose power among their other male counterparts in their class. In this case, this reinforce is created by their social in-group behaviors, without thinking the contrary, that can be seen as struggles.

Once again, it is because of the normality of what is means to be masculine, that these kids see these traits as the norm. Due to this idea, these elementary school student’s identities are standardized through the trope of what is means to be masculine by influences of the media and their friends. However in relation to me as an univeristy student majoring in Sociology, my ideas of such social constructions have been unpacked, therefore, I understand more of the truth that lies underneath the social beliefs. From this experience volunteering, I wonder every Monday how my identity would change if I were to just follow such constructions imposed by the world. In other words, how would my life be if I only followed what ‘femininity’ meant in society without the opporunities of being powerful and spirited, like the gr 7 student?

References:

Kimmel, M. (2008). Guyland: The Perilous World Where Boys Become Men.

Power All Over: Foucault

After reading Foucault’s Discipline and Punish, I cannot help but to view everything through the lenses of power. Foucault describes in his article the focus of the Panopticon,  is to “induce in the inmate a state of conscious and permanent visibility that assures the automatic functioning of power” 627-628. His core argument is that such arrangement imposed by the one in power imposes surveillance upon the prisoners. This strict notion of social hierarchy through this architectural apparatus is what fuels the continuum of surveillance, enforcing this kind of arrangement to ensure “dissymmetry, disequilibrium, difference.” It is evident to acknowledge that Foucault tries to expose power as something larger than yourself, something majestic, something of status that hovers over you. This clear identification recognizes that power is fuelled by a single state government, or in Foucault’s context, prison guards in the Panopticon sustaining clear power relations which, “whatever use one may wish to put it to, produces homogenous effects of power” 628. The individual’s identities are stripped by the authorities who are present in the higher social hierarchal ladder. In other words, the surveillance imposed upon the inmates sourced from the central power erases every trace of the prisoner’s individuality.

From reading this article up until I attended an UBC event on “Cultural Identity”, I believed that power has always been someone, someone out there that provoked fear and intimidation, such as a nation’s government. However my outlook shifted when I attended this dialogue event which focussed on Identity Crisis of the self.

At the beginning of the event when I sat down, the keynote speaker of the event handed me a sheet with “Cultural Identity Survey” printed at the top. On this survey were 5 statements in which  I must circle on a scale from 1-5 where I stood on the continuum between the value statement on the left and the value statement on the right, based on my personal beliefs. The statements were:

1) An individual’s identity is shaped by themselves. —- An individual’s identity is shaped by society.

2) Identity is fixed and doesn’t change. —– Identity is fluid and changes depending on time and space.

3) I feel I am the same person with different people — I feel I am a different person with different people.

4) My cultural background has no effect on my identity. —- My cultural background is central to my identity.

5) My ethnicity is central to my identity —- My ethnicity is one of many things that inform my identity.

He began to introduce that because each person is rooted from various different cultures, we possess our own powers to identify ourselves with who we are. “Ethnicity no longer defines us, but informs us” – Obama (the keynote speaker mentions this during the discussion). It is key to recognize from this quote that, society used to categorize individuals into certain groups, whether thinking about gender, sexuality, or cultural background. Ever since the 19th century, questionnaires would ask: Please check one of the following: 1) Japanese 2) Chinese 3) Latino … etc. By checking a single box, it cancels out the rest of the unchecked choices, forcing the individual to be categorized into a homogenized group. The ease of this process allows society to define who we are on the basis of a single check mark. As a result, Obama’s notion that in the 21st C, ethnicity today informs us, referring to the acknowledgement that our own background awards us the power to identify ourselves with whatever we like. By doing so, it breaks down the walls of strict groupings, de-emphasizes the scary idea of powerful state government who defines us through these processes. Similarly, this quote dismantles Foucault’s Panopticon ideal of defining one’s identity through surveillance and authority.

In addition, the event not only provided dialogue regarding how to identify yourself through learning and knowing your cultural background, but also provoked an underlying notion that each individual holds the power to yourself. Through our previous class discussions we mentioned that one’s identity is more than often constructed based on how other’s react to you, or in other words, identity as a “social construction”. This is certainly not false, however we also must look in a contrary light in that each person is the power. Power is something imagined, and unfortunately is often portrayed as the intimidating sublime or the large figure hovering over you. This kind of control possesess the individual and thus creates a ‘false reality’ that your identity is fostered by someone else. However, we must free ourselves from the prison cells that we have so  deeply believed in and redeem power for ourself. Foucault is not wrong, but he is not right either in this context. I must criticize him in this regard that this reading is what created this “power-phobia” with the image of the authoritarian watching your every move.

After attending this event, I have learned to re-think the ideals of power and whether or not my identity is formed by social constructions or by who I really am. As a UBC Student studying Sociology, I ask of you, please, empower yourself to be yourself. Governmental Powers (prison guards in Foucault’s context) impose authority upon citizens in order to standardize everyone for simply the ease of management. However each person is different. We come from different backgrounds. Hold onto your power and resist standardization, because we are more than just a questionnaire checkmark.

References:

Foucault, Michel. Discipline and Punish. New York: Pantheon, 1975. Pg. 622-636.

Goffman and UBC: Opposing definitions of “Total Institutions”

Goffman in “Asylums” aims to discuss the uneasy construction of “the Self” through the oppression of societal total institutions (mental hospital in his article). He first defines Total Institutions as “places of residence and work where a large number of like-situated individuals, cut off from the wider society for an appreciable period of time, together lead an enclosed formally administrated round of life” (492, emphasis mine). When reading this, I cannot help but to notice his choice of his terminology. The presence of the words “cut off” and “enclosed” in the sentence portrays a negative implication regarding the notion of Total Institutions. His definition implies that total institutions are something set apart, pushed beyond the outskirts of societal functionality, a nucleus for absolute administration. As this definition is written right at the beginning of his article, it is clear that Goffman is attempting to grasp the notion of Total Institutions as problematic in which this type of totalitarian government envelops all thoughts, feelings and actions. In his article, he aims to pursue that one’s “Self” is undoubtedly the product of societal influences (the total institutions which strip the inhabitants away from any kind of portrayal of their true selves).

It is through this kind of identity-suffocation phenomena that the individuals are subject to the Mortification of Self, referring to the “process of ‘killing off’ the multiple selves possessed to prior to one’s entrance into the total institution and replacing them with one totalizing identity over which the person exercises little, if any, control” (492). As a result, Goffman implies that once the person is subjected within a Total Institution, the identity he or she once was will eventually erode as time progresses, intensifying the feeling of loss.

As a UBC student, I do believe that that the university is a total institution. I agree with Goffman when he states that these total institutions are “cut off” and “enclosed” when applying to UBC, in which the location of the campus is disconnected from the main cities of Greater Vancouver (such as Burnaby and Richmond). I also agree with him when he mentions that these total institutions are “formally administered round of life” (492), stated in his definition. In relation to conversing about our university campus, students are attending school under strict regulations of a campus wide government in which we must comply to. Not only subjected to students, but faculty members, office administrators and everyone else working within this circle of “residence”, is administrated under the umbrella of our UBC government, the AMS. Under circumstances in which one fails to follow the policies, consequences are put through to reinforce the established laws within the university.

Furthermore, Goffman reasons that individuals who fail to comply within the restrictions of the system are attempting to preserve their self-identity. This inability to obey to the institution’s demands represents the notion of Secondary Adjustments, in which the “individual stands apart from the role and the self that were taken for granted for him by the institution” (493). Goffman refers this means of preserving the patient’s self – identity as relying on “tearing up his mattress, if he can, or writing with feces on the wall” (500).

Goffman’s perspective is that it is through the totalitarian notion of an institution (a mental hospital), in which the patients are under continuous oppression from the authority of the hospital. Due to this, it is at this peak moment where sudden outbreaks of violence or cracks of disobedience come to light for reasons of redemption and re-identification of themselves as humans, not as patients. However, I believe that as students of UBC, it counters Goffman’s idea. Instead, I see UBC as a place of self-cultivation, not self-depletion. I cannot argue against the fact that UBC is not a total institution, but I can argue that UBC does not comply with the rules in which Goffman states in reference to patients struggling to reclaim their lost identities. UBC is a place where students come together to mindfully concentrate on their interests, to mindfully learn from academic scholars within their realm of studies, to mindfully open up their horizons to greater possibilities and to obtain unique skills (academic studies, clubs, sport teams). Therefore, UBC is a foster home which allows students to form a type of “self” through the growth of academic knowledge and personal developments. It is through this notion which the campus, in turn, forces individuals to reach out and claim their student identities. Goffman’s iteration suggests the power of the asylum which not only restricts the patients to reach out, but instead pushes the patients deeper into complete control.

Both are total institutions with power in place, but the core difference, thus, is that there is no history of loss identity for UBC students, while the imprisoned patients are individuals who have lost their past identities due to the simple entry into the absolute governance of the asylum.

From freshman year to my current status as a third year undergraduate student, I have undoubtedly grown from the very first day of school as a sophomore. These few years I have opened up my mind into numerous directions and learned countless experiences, all of which have constructed and reconstructed my identity as a whole.Therefore, Goffman’s definition of total institution leading to the withdrawal from the authentic self, is the product of the “enclosed, formally, administered round of life”. His notion can be accepted in the context of the clear power dynamics between doctor-patient relationships. However I feel that what Goffman is missing is that he generalizes much of the idea of total institutions as something empowering in all kinds of institutions. It is clear though, when thinking about UBC, that in fact not all institutions with class of elites run the same governance as total institutions. I believe that all institutions run differently. Moreover, not all are conditioned under a single definition of “Total Institution”.

References:

Goffman, E. (1961). Asylums: Essays on the Social Situation of Mental Patients and other Inmates. Garden City, N.Y: Anchor Books.

How do you be a “self”?

Last month, I attended a Fashion Show for my very first time in my life. In a nutshell, the experience was interesting and I would say,  a little bit shocking. I did not have any expectations prior to the show and was extremely excited to be able to attend such a glamorous event.

Let’s start from the beginning.

I entered the venue just in time for the first show to begin. I walked towards the standing crowd which  hovered around the photographers and the VIP seats in the front row beside the bright runway. I instantly eyed an open space at the benches for me and my friend. We quickly squeezed between the sea of people , trying to get to our spots before anyone tried to take it. Just as we sat down, the lights dimmed and music started to boom the entire room. The first model appeared wearing a shiny silver suit. She strutted until the end the of runway, posed for the photographers, turned around, and walked back towards the screen. Sitting in the second row, I could see her face perfectly clear. Every model’s face I witnessed were interestingly all very similar. Caked on layers upon layers of foundation, mascara, eyeliner, eyeshadow and lipstick, it seemed to me that every model portrayed a homogenized, mainstream look. Her face was emotionless, blank, a Blasé attitude was depicted through her facial expression.

In relation to identity, the self and society, it became extremely clear to me that the true model’s identities  on the runway were veiled from the layers of makeup and the sparkling suits. The moment each person stepped onto the runway, a certain kind of portrayal was evident to the audience (that an individual who was chosen to model a particular designer’s novel collection of clothing, was solely determined based on the model’s “look”). Throughout the 20 seconds in which each model was able to struct and show the entirety of an enlightened outfit, I could feel that the individual was constantly bombarded with judgments drafted  by every attendee, however, not only commenting on the clothing design, but critiquing the model as an individual.

As the model flowed down the runway  with their signature walk, I watched the audience’s heads turn as the model passed them. People were constantly scanning the model from head to toe,  assessing their walk, their posture, their physique, their potential of showing off the pompous outfit in a right matter.

After watching a couple of models walk up the down the platform and also observing the front row fashion designers with cat eye glasses, fire red lipstick sitting upright in their seats with their lips pouting, scanning the model’s bodies, it suddenly struck me that the models were completely divorced from their true, in-born identities. Throughout the two hour event, I came to the realization that these model’s identities, or “the self” was heavily composed and produced of the exaggerated makeup, the volumous hairdo, and their extravagent outfit of today’s modernized high fashion (though some of which is debatable in aesthetic appeal, I would argue). It is through the confined space of the runway, the bold lighting on their faces, and the hundreds of people observing, that each model’s self/identity was not only controlled, but restricted within the tangible and intangible spacial dynamics. It is through the makeup, the hairdo, and the clothing that DEFINED who the model was on stage as an individual.

In retrospect, not only does it mean that your identity is shaped by the materials the model is wearing, but it is also shaped by the institutional organizations of the Fashion Show, as well as the people who were watching, observing their every move.

This inescapable concept of the “self” as the core production of others around you, is thus suggested in Smith’s 1987 The Everyday as Problematic. Smith raises the notion of “norm” in certain settings, as “teachers learn a vocabulary and analytic procedures that accomplish the classroom in the institutional mode… analyze and name the behavior of students as “appropriate” or “inappropriate”(573). What she is noting is that these ideologies provide procedures for what goes on, and as a result, provides the notion of observable -reportable within such settings (573). Therefore in relation to the fashion show, Smith’s ‘observable-reportable’ idea of the teachers relates to this type of procedure controlled by the fashion designers sitting in the front row seats. It is through the internalized process of labelling “pass” or “fail” towards the models that form the identities of these faces.

Everyone’s identities are sociall constructed by others around us. The creation of a false facade is unavoidable and real. As a UBC student, your sex, your faculty,  your major, the clubs you partake in, all define your identity. And within each aspects listed, there are social relations that develop. Professors, peers, friends and family all determine your identity as a whole. In some aspects, it controls you and takes over your identity without your consciousness.

I constantly question:  How does one enable him/herself to meander through society without feeling watched or judged? How can somone comply to a “self” when the “self” is controlled by external dynamics?

References:

Smith, Dorothy. (1987). The Everyday World as Problematic: A Feminist Sociology. Lebanon, N.H: University Press of New England.